Why won't my girlfriend swallow

So I've been with my gf for 4 years now. Her blowjobs are pretty good but when it's time for me to cum she always jumps up and finishes me with her hand. I've said it's much better if she swallowed or at least let me cum in her mouth and she spat it out.

Still at the the first sign of cumming her lips are quickly away and her hand replaces them.

So why won't she let me cum in her mouth or swallow? Any ideas ?

She's obviously done it before if she refuses to let it near her mouth.

Thanks

 

Probably because she thinks it's disgusting.

Get over it, and be happy she's even blowing you at all.

 

Why do you care? Is it really that important? Worth her saying fuckitall and telling you to go blow yourself? Lots don't like it and shouldn't be forced or pressured to do it. As said above, appreciate that she does a BJ, some won't do that either. learn to love what she does or cash her in for one who will do what you want and hopefully there aren't other issues with the new one that hang you up too.

 

Because she sucks (pun intended)

 

I do luv the fact that she blows me atall but after 10 mins of an awesome blowjob the difference between her stopping with her mouth and using her hand makes the orgasm 10x less. Her blowjobs are amazing just wish she would finish them the same way she gets me to the point of cumming.

Surely all guys agree if a girls technique is working it feels unreal when she keeps doing it during and after having the orgasm??

 

Why should she!

 

I'm saying it feels completely different if she would finish me with her mouth. Is this down to a bad experience in the past or just how my cum tastes?

Her technique gets me shaking and if she let me finish while she done it, it would be incredible.

I was using her laptop one day and stumbled upon an old mobile video of her sucking off her ex. She swallowed it all and even joked around after. So she has done it

Any thoughts??

 

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Some girls don't want your baby batter in their mouth. The thought of it disgusts them. If it is the end of the world to you move on.

As others have said at least she blows you. There are no shortage of women out there that don't even do that. I know I was married to one of them for 16 years.

You could always ask if you can cum in her mouth with a condom on. Yes it is not the same, but it isn't so bad either.

 

I obviously don't have the male member but I can completely comprehend this sentence. A change in sensation can often kill my orgasms too.

 

It's 10x less because you think it is, imagine if she didn't blow you at all, how much you'd be wishing for just that, and the fact that she did her X, once as far as you know,,, maybe she was drunk, didnt mind the taste of his, was on a dare,,, who knows but YOU are not her X and you don't want to be, do ya,,, maybe that was the one and only time she let his in her mouth. If one little thing is gonna hang you up then act on it and see what else comes, good or bad, your choice, push her and she might back right off if she already said no. Women, like men mean no when they say no.

 

I don't agree with that. Different sensations or a change in what is happening can and will often dull my orgasms. Basically when I want to orgasm it's best to keep doing the same action over and over when you're hitting the right spot. Stopping, moving, rotating a toy... A new toy, speed changes.. They all affect my desired outcome.

 

I think the fact I saw the video of her blowing her ex and swallowing is what gets me. She wasn't drunk. Basically was only like a 3 minute clip of her head going up and down then him obviously cumming and her coming up saying "how did that feel haha that was a lot....I don't care, what's the point in sucking a guy if your not going to let him cum in your mouth"

Then with me she won't let it anywhere near her mouth. As I say her technique is amazing.

 

And all of that is in the mind so if your partner won't, better to work with it when it comes to thinking of trying to pressure her into it, she won't enjoy it and eventually you get nothing, then what,,,?
Sex has to be fun for both, not a one sided thing, he can find other ways to get off as great. Condom was mentioned. Or maybe he asks her to do something wild with her hand,,,

 

Does she know you snooped this video? Possibly it's not what she liked to do but did it once, get over it somehow,,, you are not her X and you don't want to be just because you saw a video or just because of a BJ.
There are other things that can feel as good, some guys even like a vibrator with the low vibration while cumming, use your mind to find ideas that help and get your head/brain out of her mouth,,, it sounds like it isn't gonna happen, you are teasing yourself.
You might turn her off sex and that's gonna hurt even worse.

 

No she doesn't know I seen it. I'm not the snooping type, so not really sure whether u bring it up or not.

I agree and understand what u say about her X. I suppose it's just purely that she did for him and not for me. I'm told I'm a good looking guy so not jealous on any front but one thing is I do have a pretty good job with good salary. I always remember a girl I was once with who was particularly dirty saying any guy she was really into she wouldn't think twice about getting his cum in her mouth but not if she wasn't that much. I think that's why it's stuck especially after seeing the video.

I'm just a guy that wants an amazing ending to a blowjob but it does make me think with all the things I've got is it a sign she's with me for other reasons aswell

 

Go with that Zebra because we can't always have chocolate on the ice cream but the ice cream is still good, right? Don't lose it all because of a past GF or her past X, she don't like it and you just need to work the mind to make what she does your every dream cum true

 

Would like to hear what other guys/girls view is?

Unsure still

 

If she doesn't want to swallow, she doesn't want to swallow, move on to something else. Even if she did swallow at one time, she does not now.

I think you can live without her swallowing or a blow job - if not, R.I.P

 

Sounds like you need to manage your own orgasms better. My missus will swallow or spit, depends what she's into at the time but the most important part in all that is how I deal with the orgasm. You know when you're going to cum so like maybe wait until that last moment before pulling out of her mouth and painting her pretty face?