Why Straight Guys Have Sex With Straight Guys

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by drumminmama, Aug 25, 2015.

  1. Karen_J

    Karen_J Visitor

    Ewwwww! [​IMG] TMI!
     
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  2. rjhangover

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    Sorry, she wanted specifics.
     
  3. Asmodean

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    Is that really watched for the general reason people like watching porn or is it more like watching a pro sports game/athlete setting a new record? :p

    And when I use the term penis envy I am not thinking about women or the freudian concept at all, I mean those guys who can't watch straight porn because they're getting uncomfortable with that healthy dong on their screen ;)
     
  4. drumminmama

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    Actually, NO.
    Don't act a fool. We have enough of those here.
     
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  5. rjhangover

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    Your Quote...."General you, nonspecific."


    Don't be an ass, makes you look ugly.
     
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  6. drumminmama

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    And you then misquoted me as wanting specifics. Stop now.
     
  7. Karen_J

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    If a good number of women do this poll,

    http://www.hipforums.com/forum/topic/470646-girls-bi-guys/

    it may shed some light on why straight and mostly straight guys have become conditioned to view this subject in the way most of them do. If I was doing a scientific poll, I'd want a breakdown of the responses by age, expecting to see a little more tolerance from the younger women.
     
  8. Vanilla Gorilla

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    Thats the dumbest thing I think ive ever heard you say

    Do you think its even relevant coming from you. A lesbian thinks women look better than men. Gee how unexpected.

    Or the same kind of thing as this thread. No one is really allowed to talk about it out loud

    For if you are a guy, and you go around saying, most of them, get rid of the make up and they kind of look like a dude anyway, or when they're teens with no tits they look like they have the body of a ten year old boy. WWIII will erupt every time
     
  9. Irminsul

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    "I'm just throwing this out for conversation. Watching two guys go at it doesn't do anything for me."

    This is what I was addressing and yes I think it's relevant coming from me because I can be attracted to specific guys and I'm allowed my own opinions. Now what I was saying was, to me the female is much more attractive so why would you watch two guys having sex if it wasn't pleasing to the eye? Two males looks odd to many people. "It just doesn't look right when guys kiss" people say.
     
  10. Vanilla Gorilla

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    So, you are still there, you think every time, every chick says "ewww, thats disgusting" she actually means disgusting in the literal sense. It never means she's uncomfortable underwear might get damp?

    I wish it had been Joaquin Phoenix in Brokeback Mountain, not Jake GlyWithoutavowelandall. Heath and Joaquin having a pash, that would have been a total wankfest
     
  11. Irminsul

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    I've yet to meet a women who finds something she isn't attracted to to be attractive. 0.o
     
  12. Asmodean

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    Sorry dude (for you) but there are a lot of straight women saying the same.


    I'm glad i do not live in your world :p


    Here you suprisingly almost mention something sensible, but ruin it in your supposedly witty/humourous way of formulating it. I tried this in earnest (I used to nag on most make up), but most women seem to be the ones who think they look not ok without any make up. Well yeah a lot of guys too. Personally I think if a woman can not even go without make up around her partner in the confines of their own place they have some kind of an issue. I have happily totally come around from what they have on in public (much more pragmatic :p), and have even grown to appreciate it, but in all honesty they definitely don't have to do it for me. They don't look like dudes when they're suddenly without make up. Wtf. But a certain amount of them seem to believe this themselves :( (no not because they are the ones it applies to :p probably partly because of people like you who too often pose or confuse a joke as something serious)
     
  13. Vanilla Gorilla

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    There you go, you make out like Im a whackjob for saying it, but then you go on to say most women seem to believe this themselves

    There isnt really any male equivalent. Youve never experienced rage becuase a female is more masculine looking than you. You might have a giggle, raise and eyebrow, but thats it. At most guys will be like, i hate it when girls try to be men

    Nor have you ever experienced being a teenage guy, having almost every female ready to scratch your eyes out becuase men, usually their daddies age, or even the dads themselves more in interested in you than them. All chics seem to have daddy issues.

    Look at it from a masculine/feminine angle and the I'm not a fag as long as im not the girl thing is kind of the same as the girls putting on 1/2 kilo of makeup so they feel they look less like a boy
     
  14. Asmodean

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    I don't make you out like you're a wackjob. I am just pointing out that you touched on a real situation (women chronically wearing make up), but then you ruin it again by making some absurd statements and assumptions on women in general. Like the statement that most look like men without make up. It is just plain silly and makes it extremely hard to take you seriously.
     
  15. Vanilla Gorilla

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    Oi, not what is in my head, whats in theirs.

    The make up thing, its nutty. Feel less feminine not caked in makeup. Therefore not being caked in makeup is gay. Get it?

    And yes, ill throw in the standard disclaimer, no not every woman of course. But a lot.

    And youve seen all the threads like this one. Oh, I like this and that, Oh, but im not a fag right, im straight blah blah

    Its the same kind of thing, its not about whats real, its what about they stress about in their heads
     
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    Help!Boyfriend I would think, loves me enough to tell me a secret only he and the hand full of men he has had sexual encounters with know about. From research, I am finding this goes on more than I would have thought. Should I be scared he will cheat? Should I feel inferior that I can't completely please him like a male member. Love him to pieces, but still trying to wrap my brain around the situation. Can't really discuss with anyone. Just need to talk.
     
  17. jpdonleavy

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    I can imagine because the deal can be made in a minute or two - both guys know how to manipulate the other to provide maximum pleasure - ejaculation follows quickly - there's no long languourous cuddling required afterward - guys can be back to studies or policing or retail sales within 15 minutes to half an hour
     
  18. Addicted2MEN

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    Here is the truth married men have sex with married men because they like it. Pretty simple.
     
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  19. Jukai

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    Because it probably (???) involves less drama than doing it with a woman ... more business, less drama.
     
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  20. OpenMindedGuy

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    I’m tired of labels. I just consider myself sexually adventurous. I’m a 45 year old married man, masculine and rugged. I prefer and love women. They are soft, beautiful and absolutely essential sexually and emotionally. Yet sex with men is a total turn on and just feels great. I’ve only experienced this a couple times within my lifetime but have no regrets and plan to endulge again. Some women are turned on by the thought of and watching two men pleasure each other. I think with most men, bi or adventurous, sex with one another is purely physical and all about feeling good. That’s it, cut and dry.
     
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