Why nice guys finish last - According to a woman

Thats ceratinly true. Of course the Gal would have to get to know you first to realize that you may be of the alpha variety.

 

Trust me. I'm not that easy.

I don't give a shit HOW hot the chick is.

But Cate and I have something more mutual going.

 

Not really.

Body language says it all.

It's amazing the reaction chicks have when I'm in a crowded club and happen to bump a taller guy out of the way and say, "Sorry my man. I'm a bit drunk." (smile)

They are like, "How can a short dude POSSIBLY act like that."

Fucks with their minds.

 

Women dont know what they want.
Atleast I dont.
But I'm still young.

 

You got it. Hence your frustration.

You need a dominant Prince Charming to decide for you.

Keep up the good work hating men!

 

Yeah I reckon thats true. KC says she can sniff an alpha out of a crowd.

 

There you go.

Napoleon has a great quote about the difference between the animal kingdom and humanity being that humans place an onus on intimidation more than physical strength. But it escapes me for the moment.

There is another advantage to being short and that is that women typically UNDERESTIMATE my strength.

So if a tall guy picked them up, it'd be good but fully expected. If I pick a taller woman up with one arm, it's a riot.

 

YES !!!!!
But can a Prince Charming really be dominant ?

 

Hahaha..You know I cant do that

 

Sure.

If a guy is only one thing, he'll bore you.

I know your type. Real high-maintenance and a pain in the ass.

 

Lolz.

No, not really. I'm nice and considerate. Believe it or not.

Oh but REALLY jelaous. Cant help it

 

From my experiences it seems that women don't want "the next guy" not so much the nice guy. You can be a nice guy and still get the girl.

 

Yeah,
I'm a nice guy. I got the girl. I'm just not a pathetic black hole of emotional need. Guys can often mistake being desperate for being nice.

 

Yup. Neediness, one of the biggest turn offs for just about anybody.

 

Yep, and a woman can sniff that out from a mile away.

 

Its actually easier for short men to lift than tall men, if I remember correctly its because of the length of the muscles. Shorter muscles are easier to contract and its easier to lift heavy things (including women ).

I'm short, 5'8"-5'9", and I hate it. Women always seem to go for taller guys. It doesn't even make sense today, how can a taller man protect a woman better than a shorter man? Short men aren't necessarily weaker (in some cases its the opposite), women just assume that short men can't intimidate taller men. I can intimidate a guy larger than me, remember "its not the size of the dog in the fight, its the size of the fight in the dog".

From what I've seen and experienced, it goes both ways. At least, kinda. I've had "clingy" girls want me and I didn't want them at all, but they were unattractive in other ways (fat). If a good looking girl was clingy and actually made the first move and all that I wouldn't mind at all. Personally I hate playing games, if I like you I'm going to show it, if you reject me just because I show that I like you then you're a stupid bitch. I don't play games, I'd rather be single than have to play around to get a woman to sleep with me or get in a relationship with me. I also don't think I should have to act fake.

I've almost sworn off women completely. 90% of them are way too immature and they play games too much. I don't blame them though, most guys act the same way (I'm not gay or even close to gay btw). At this point I almost wish I were gay, but that isn't something you can just change.

 

i'm pretty strong.

btw, POVE, my mom feels much the same way about men. she REALLY wishes she was gay. she told me this once when we were out for a "cool off" walk when i was 15 or so. lol. poor mom.

 

i come from a family of tall men and short women. we women run those poor guys around something awful. there's no doubt who's actually in charge there. dave, not as tall as the men in my family, but a hell of a lot more dominant. hell, even THE WOMEN in my family have taken to deferring to dave. he's a natural.

 

My mom asked me if I was gay because I never had a girlfriend. I said nope, I just cant stomach the company. Hang in there Pove. True love is out there for you too. Eveb the short folks can get some love.

 

I agree with what Dave said about the emotional need concept.

Some men are just not equipped to deal with their emotions and use their girlfriend as an emotional outlet because there is no other person they can communicate emotionally to. Usually women have social networks, activities and other support sources that they can rely on.

I have a tendency to date guys who blow up when I didn't call them when I said that I would, or who can be rather emotionally needy and require consistent affection and behaviour. I'm nobody's mother. I can't drop what I'm doing to run off and tend to someone I'm dating, no matter how nice the guy is. There can be expectations for women to reciprocate the niceness they are given from their guy, by catering to his needs and desires when he feels entitled to them.

For that reason, the nice guys need to learn to find their own strength within.