Because we are fun, we like to tease, keep him knowing we are waiting for him as said in the OP, and when he gets home we get it, But we know it's coming, hahahaha. I have an innocent look about me so I am told by many but I am far from it. My man tells me I keep him busy, not a dull moment because he never knows what to expect and yes I do try sometimes to turn him on at work on the phone or on his way out my door when he has to leave if we didn't get to fool around. I do like to tease and so does he. He grabs my puss when he here and I am doing business on the phone. So ya, I kinda like a naughty man too, a playful one if not so naughty. I like my man to not be shy about sex or being sexual even when we are doing something totally away from sex, like cooking or shopping. One time I grabbed his ass and then slid my hand down the back of his pants in Walmart, hoping to become a Walmartian, didn't see anyone with a camera tho. He just said I was a naughty girl and kept walking with it. Later at home he jumped me and gave it to me good,
Why does it have to be a naughty girl that "She reminds him that he is wanted. She reminds him that over all the other guys out there, she chose him. She reminds him while he is at work that there is someone waiting for him...at home"? Tried to seduce my hubby and it backfired. He didn't respond to me sending naughty texts or writing suggestive letters. Didn't appreciate the lingerie. His rejection of my attempt to be seductive killed my sex drive for a while. So now I leave it up to him to make the first move. I never initiate sex. You say men need their egos stoked? You imply that women get compliments all the time. I don't. Not even from hubby. He complimented me once when we were dating. That's it. Some men just don't think they have to say it. Relationships take work on both sides and there is no one size fits all formula. Good luck with your book sales.