hmm i guess i am attracted to assholes...and keep going back to assholes...but i may just be using the word "asshole" in subsitution for "guys that don't like me back...."
Perhaps the same thing that makes these guys assholes (too much testosterone?) is what makes them more assertive when it comes to pursuing girls. And since they're being more assertive in pursuing, and pursuing more often, they just have a mathematically higher chance of hooking up with a girl than if they weren't pursuing them at all.
it is because persons of both genders are gullable and we live in a culture that romantacizes and rewards aggressiveness (i.e. "being" an "asshole"). something we are going to be forced to chainge or modify at some point if we wish collectively to avoid extinction. =^^= .../\...
Girls like exciting guys to make their life more exciting as well. And exciting guys are by definition assholes.
Ya know... this used to bother me a bit, the whole girls going for assholes thing... But then, I just realised that any girl that doesn't go for me is honestly not worth it, ever since then I had more girls going for me than anytime in the past... it's like I shined in an aura of confidence. Plus, it's rather great to be able to be picky with girls. Most guys just go for the first pretty thing that comes their way, I say no! No ma'am. So... just wait it out and the right girl will eventually come. I don't see why people feel so pressured into being in a relationship in this society... I think that the single life is a tad more fun at this age. (Unless it's truly the "right" girl).
Good attitude. To "LetLovinTakeHold"- I definitely feel your pain and it's always been that way where the best looking girls seem to go for assholes. Perhaps what we see as "asshole" is looked at differently by some women. You do seem to have a healthy attitude about it.
Thanks. I had trouble typing it out myself just because its one of those things one thinks about without really putting into simple terms.
i think its cause its a challenge. the whole "i can fix him" philosophy. i have gone for both. ... just depends on where i'm at in life.
i don't put up with assholes. i do like my men very aggressive, though. it makes me look delicate. but most people love dave. but i know for a true fact that when he wants to be a real asshole, he does a better job of it than anyone else i know.