Why is this guy ignoring and being rude to me?

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by twistedwizard, Nov 8, 2018.

  1. twistedwizard

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    There's this guy who's my friend and he likes talking to me and hanging out with me and so do I. Lately, I haven't been in the best mood, but I haven't told him about it because I didn't want to worry him. I'd usually make eye contact whenever I'd speak to him. But because of my mood, I haven't been giving many people any eye contact whenever I'd talk to them, including him. The last time we've been together, which was a few days ago, he'd hardly look at me. As he was passing out papers to a group of us, he knew that I was there because he was sitting right next to me and he didn't give me a paper on purpose and then said sorry when he "realized" that I didn't have one. Then, he did the same thing to me again when he was passing out another set of papers. In the group, whenever I'd talk to him, he'd reply in a monotone and wouldn't say too much to me. But, if some other person talked to him, he would talk normally and he'd talk to them more instead.
     
  2. MusicTaste

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    Could just be you don't get on
     
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  3. Vanilla Gorilla

    Vanilla Gorilla Go Ape

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    Please tell me he is not a teacher thats like 40 years older than you
     
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  4. translation: "Maybe he's just not that into you"

    OR, spending so much time centered on your own emotional condition to the point of excluding humanity COULD be interpreted as something totally unexpected by someone so concerned with their own shit. Perhaps it could be seen as arrogance, indifference or "toxic emo nightmare run away now". Also, scoping for a booty call when you're depressed and easily driven to tears, isn't sexy.
     
  5. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    Or he's shy and likes you and can't talk to you.
    Been there done that. Too shy to talk to a girl, regret it later
     
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  6. MusicTaste

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    I'm always shy my speech duck's things 6 up for me
     
  7. Tyrsonswood

    Tyrsonswood Senior Moment Lifetime Supporter

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    Yeah... Google doesn't know what this means.
     
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  8. Meliai

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    yeah, why does every scenario involve him passing out papers?
     
  9. tumbling.dice

    tumbling.dice Visitor

    Rolling papers?
     
  10. quark

    quark Parts Unknown

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    Perhaps it has something to do with not looking at him.
     
  11. MusicTaste

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    Meant to be my speech fucks things up for me
     
  12. BLB930

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    Maybe he is a classmate? Hopefully!!!
     
  13. He's probably really into you and read a lot into you not looking at him, and now he is being immature about it.
     
  14. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    this was pretty much my interpretation too. although there's not a lot of info to go on, so it's hard to really say.
     
  15. twistedwizard

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    Yes. He's a student in college.
     
  16. twistedwizard

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    What if he's in a relationship...
     
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  17. Like underwear said, not enough information.
     
  18. YungSAVi

    YungSAVi Rapper

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    He's just shy..
     
  19. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    My speech messes things cops in the lot for me.

    At least that’s what my translator says.
    Six up!
     

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