Why is it wrong for me to mention my girlfriend?

Discussion in 'Lesbian' started by Rainbow Starlite, Dec 26, 2006.

  1. Samhain

    Samhain Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    yes i agree!
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  2. hipunk

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    Right on.
    Sorry to pontificate.

    You're emotionally invested in a forum which, like this one, is chatty and friendly. Like work, you decide when it is okay to discuss your private life and to what extent. (I'm not at all invested in my craft forum)

    At work the ass holes might be shocked, but they will keep their mouths shut. where on a forum, they might try to find a way to get a few digs in.

    Samhains advice is good, to ask why and say how you felt about it, and I like your idea of sending a PM to that person. I would do the same thing. I always cringe when I see a moderator chide a user for a personal coment in public. I send a PM. I mean, I like to come to forums to connect, other people have different reasons for being here.
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  3. Rainbow Starlite

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    I love this forum :)
     
  4. Samhain

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    this thread has turned into an interesting discussion
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  5. Rainbow Starlite

    Rainbow Starlite Member

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    I think so too- that's what I like about it here.
     
  6. dances in pajamas

    dances in pajamas strange little girl

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    People on other forums are jealous. 8D

    Especially if you have that adorable signature.
     
  7. lutsko67

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    My reply 2 ignorant ppl is this: FUCK em if they cant take a joke.
    Ppl are just as smart or ignorant in any walk of life. I have no use 4 the useless. So, Babe, pop up ur middle finger 2 em, blow em a kiss, and move on. Unfortunately we shall have the gay/Lez bashin in life, but our lives (be it str8, gay,Lez, or bi) is 2 short 2 worry about pleasing every1.
     
  8. stone_rosey

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    I dont think its fair that anyone say something like that to us. Whats wrong with being gay n proud! I want a revolution, i want social change, i want to be able to walk down the isle in the store with my girlf on my arm and passionatly kiss her and not be scoffed at (she jus looks so cute fussing over which ice creams we buy (golden gaytime ;) ) (Also the cold in the freezer when she leaves the bra at home...needless to say, the nips catch my attention) Anyway, If we want change, if discrimination is going to be kept in the past like it should be, we need to throw it out there, be gay, be who you are! I actually have a theory that gods plagues include sexist ways, discrimination etc, i nstead of like bugs and the flood, but this is the wrong forum for that. Anyway, in conclusion, you mention your girlf where and when you like, because your in love and love is beautiful in all shapes and sizes, ween or no ween. MORE POWA 2 YA!!!

    peaceout.lezout.love.
     
  9. stone_rosey

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    Also lutsko i dont know that anyone was making a joke? I think you misunderstood the topic.
     
  10. spirit of the night

    spirit of the night Senior Member

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    if any one in life is flaunting their sexuality, its straight people, so why the double standard ay?

    Starlite may i just say that you and your girlfriend look so happy, its an inspiration to us all :)

    blessings
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