im not great at small talk with new people. but i am good at saying what's on my mind. id reckon about 90% of people go away from me thinking that i was a bit different. which is cool cos it seeds out the boring people right away.
I think a girl would be hard pressed for a guy that doesn't want to get physical. No matter the condition of their conscience.
It's kind of hard to find a girl who doesn't want to get physical, too. Only, they prefer to be hypocritical about it. More free drinks!
sometimes I cant tell you why I am attracted to somebody. Nothing really fits the classic mold. Other times it's the obvious reasons.
The whole idea of infatuation vs. love seems somewhat silly to me. I think it has relevance in matters of sexual attraction. What about being completely infatuated with someone's personality, energy, or vibe?
This should offer some insight https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=maWusAx2vzQ"]YouTube- Rod Stewart - Infatuation (1984) HQ Hotwater
We can be just as unduly infatuated on that level as well. Peoples energy, personality, or vibe is highly variable. No individual ever measures up indefinitely to that infatuation.
That is a fortunate truth actually. Personally I can say I wouldn't hold anyone to that constant measure, I'd still be infatuated.