Why is cheating so fun?

I have cheated on my girlfriend (now wife) several times over the last 5 years or so. Every single time it is the best sex ever. However, if I wasn't married, I doubt it would feel as good. Anyone have any comments on this?

 

its called cheating for a reason. how would you feel if your wife was cheating on you?

 

It’s forbidden pussy that’s why

 

Cheating is worst possible thing you can do in my opinion, it’s not a turn on in any way. If you were looking for sexual thrills I’m pretty sure you and you wife could of found something to try together.

If you’re still cheating on her...ugh. I’ll stop here.

 

There is always a bit more of a thrill, doing something forbidden.
But how would you feel, if she was the one cheating?

 

I would just ask she video it so I can watch it and jerk off. I’d also tell her to bring the guy over so I can watch him bang her brains out

 

It wasn't really cheating with us since my wife had my permission to be with other men. It was fun because it was forbidden.

 

My wife gave me permission to fuck her cousin

 

Cheated on my wife last week during a biz trip. Met a girl at a bar took her to my hotel room and banged her for like 5 hours.

 

I have never and would never cheated on my wife. (At my age and with my health issues, I'm not sure that I could!) However, cheating is not the same thing as fucking someone other than your SO. If they (your SO) knows about it and is truly OK with it, it's not cheating. In the 39 years we've been married, I've never fucked any woman other than my wife. It's not because I didn't want to (there were many woman that I wanted), it just never worked out. (Almost, once, but that's aside.) The point is, I always told my wife about wanting to try someone else (always a specific woman, not just anybody that wanted to fuck) and she was OK with it. Heck, we were in a threesome with another guy for about half a year in 1985, and he fucked my wife every week or two for the entire time! It worked out for everybody.

 

Why did you do it!?!?

 

Been the other guy several times, only cheated on one girlfriend though.

As has been said theres the obvious forbidden aspect, but the thing i found most common was every woman that i was the other man with came from a very neglectful and often near sexless relationships, having them basically worship my cock and act like i was a god in bed was a huge turn on.

The longest affair i had was with a long time friend, she'd gotten pregnant and married young, myself and many of her friends didnt think too highly of her husband, he cut her off from most people but me and her reconnected a few years into their marriage, she was miserable and basically a maid with no sex life at 24, innocent texting and chat turned to flirting turned to confessing to old feelings for each other, followed by meeting up to fool around a little until one night she invited me over to have sex, we grabbed some blankets and snuck into a field on her parents farm and had some of the most amazing sex i'd ever had, i was everything her husband wasnt, i was younger, much larger i had stamina and i made sure she got off as well. We carried on for 3-4yrs with a short break when she wanted to try counseling with him but he ultimately returned to his old ways as did we. Now every time we hooked up the sex was phenomenal and she'd unleash her wild side, with that said that brings me to the last part of your post, she eventually filed for divorce and left him, for a while we fucked more than ever but within a few months she started dating again but nothing serious, we continued to be FWB but within a year the thrill had worn off and eventually we just stopped hooking up despite the fact we are still friends and see each other.

Once the forbidden aspect was gone so was much of the thrill.

 

Really? I do it all the time. I love new pussy. And don’t lecture me on “how would i feel if my wife did it”. I don’t care! I hope she bangs as many men as she can and gets cream pies and facials! I love banging women! Especially the fat one.

 

Damn point blank lol raw

 

Cheating just comes down to morality. If you just want to fuck a bunch of woman without hurting feelings then why even bother getting married?

Marriage is about trust, honor, and respect. When my husband encouraged me to have sex with his friend because of his lack of home time I made sure everyone was okay with it and knew about the situation. I still get to have sex with another guy and not be cheating.

Cheating implies you have no respect for anyone, not even yourself.

 

I could go on a tangent of why marriage and serious, long-term relationships seem so questionable to me but that’s for another thread. I’ve been cheated on, cheated myself, been the other guy of a cheater and just seen it from others on numerous occasions. People cheat for all kinds of reasons and one of the best quotes I’ve ever heard on the subject was “your’re only as faithful as your options.”

I don’t know if I would say cheating is “fun” but I definitely would say sex is fun lol. I hate to admit it but fucking some other guys’ girlfriend/wife while he has no idea brings an extra level of excitement to the act, especially if she turns into a slut for you. I might on some level feel bad for the guy but admittedly it’s an extra turn on.

Case in point, my cousin and I tag-teamed some dude’s milf wife bareback many years ago. She only knew my cousin for maybe 2 months and met me that night yet we both fucked her silly and came all in her multiple times before she left to go back home to her family. Not just the fact that she cheated but the way she did it would have drove me crazy if she was my wife and I somehow found out. I won’t say here what I would’ve did but it wouldn’t have been pretty lol

 

Maybe I would be better off if I had a wife who was more into the swinging thing. Right now I'm thinking about this girl I am planning to meet next weekend. We have known each other for years. I'm getting ultra hard picturing her feet up in the air while I pound her pussy. I would like to fuck her at least three times before I leave, maybe more. Afterward, I will head home and not feel one bit guilty about it.

 

GTFO! The dick and pussy are meant for fucking. All this respect and love is bullshit. Humans are built for fucking. I fucked my GF yesterday then went home and fucked my wife without washing my cock

 

Lol

 

That’s hella funny but fucked up too