Why is a penis beautiful and a vagina kind of scary looking?

And no....this isnt a riddle? The male sex organ (in most cases) is one of the most attractive things I have seen in nature. The female.....not so much (reminds me of Arby's). Why is that? Are you the same? Ideas?

 

My wife calls my cock her huge beauty

 

I don’t believe in “attractive” body parts or “unattractive” body parts in general. I think that attractiveness can only be measured subjectively by comparing one like thing to another like thing. In other words some penises are more attractive than other penises, and some vaginas are more attractive than other vaginas. But neither penises nor vaginas are any more or less attractive than any other body part in my opinion.

 

Because you're gay.

C/S,
Rev J

 

I don’t think one thing has anything to do with the other.

 

If you are a man who finds penises attractive and vaginas remind you "Of Arbys" it's a pretty safe assumption that you're gay and that is the reason. Also when is the last time you heard a gay man say, "Man! Pussies are beautiful!" and mean it.

C/S,
Rev J

 

I’m a gay man, and I find some of them beautiful (compared to others at least). And I feel the same way about penises. Sexual body parts are neither attractive nor unattractive to me because they are meant to be functional (not aesthetic). I think they can only be attractive or unattractive compared to other body parts that are the same.

It’s like asking “what’s more attractive, a Corvette or a Thoroughbred Horse?” They are two completely different things and both can be attractive in different ways. Conversely both can be terrible looking. But some Corvettes are more attractive than others. And the same with horses!

 

By the way I was also being semi sarcastic.

I keep breaking the sarcasm button on my computer. There really should be some type of internet protocol about that.

C/S,
Rev J

 

I'm sure if you asked most guys if they thought a pussy was actually ugly....they would agree. I mean I love apple fritters....but they look like shit!

 

The male sex organ is just beautiful (well most are).

 

Not the guys I hang out with.

C/S,
Rev J

 

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I think it does, im a straight woman so i too dont find vaginas especially attractive. However if you ask my bf theres nothing like it. Its a preference thing

 

SpaceSissy, are you a woman or a man, or (lesbian or gay)?
I'm a straight guy and I get turn on looking at clean shaving pussy in porn, but the very hairy pussy turn me off.
I dont' like just looking at penis, but only watch the girl sucking on a dick so I can pretend that's my dick she's sucking.

 

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder! Or something like that?

 

The female form is gorgeous from top to bottom. Some women have it all put together and some do not for whatever reason. I find when looking at a woman there is at least one thing about them that is attractive. No matter her physical size, facial features, height, or anything about them that is not, as society dictates, perfect there is something that catches my attention. What you are not able to see on most women is the shape of their vagina. The only vaginas seen are those in a sexual setting be it live or in a movie or picture or in a female only setting such as a locker room at a gym. The ones I have seen are in a sexual setting, only because I am not allowed into a female only setting such as a locker room. There they are beautiful. Especially those with whom I get to see up close and personal. The intricate folds around the opening or the way the clitoris presents itself has a way of drawing me in wanting to enjoy any offerings that may be had. It's a magnificent part of the female anatomy.

Men can be as beautiful or handsome in their own right. Again a male penis like the vagina is only seen in a sexual setting or a male only setting. Many that I have seen, in pictures, movies, and the gym look to be symmetrical when flaccid. It rides above the scrotum and varies in size according to the activity at hand. It is fascinating how the penis develops when stimulated in one way or another. It will either withdraw from cold, fright, or physical activity and become 3 and 4 or more times larger when preparing for sex. I have no desire to experience any penis and it's development other than my own. But from a beauty standpoint I can see where others find it quite attractive.

 

A woman's body is 100 times more beautiful than a man's.
The softness, the curves vs. the harsh angles and roughness of a man's body.
As far as the vagina goes... I do not find it ugly at all. When a woman opens her legs to reveal it, and it opens up as well.... that is of course a massive turn on.

 

I view a woman vigina as her hidden garden. I do however like it clean and closely groomed. If she reveals it her to me then I am a lucky man. It’s a beautiful thing.
My wife is intrigued by the male genitalia. She loves how she can make my penis rise and fall and rise again.

 

I think the reason I can find vaginas (or penises) both attractive relative to each other is because of the mystery associated with them. Like someone else said, they are the “private”, special place that you don’t get to see on a regular basis, or in a non-sexualized way. Wondering about the shape, size, color, and unique characteristics of someone’s individual vagina or penis is intriguing, and naturally offers a point of comparison to others you’ve seen.

Is she going to have creamy white skin, smooth olive, golden tan, caramel, or chocolate brown? Tan lines or even complexion? Shaved, trimmed, or natural? Is she going to have large lips or small ones? Do the inner folds hand down, or are they tucked inside? Large beautiful clit or small cute hidden bud tucked away? There are so many variables.

Same thing with dick and balls! Long, short, thick, thin, curved, straight, foreskin, circumcised, pink, red, or purple head, large balls, small balls, tight scrotum, low hangers, hairy, or smooth? Again the possibilities and points of comparison.

 

Now I think that when it comes to body attraction, this largely does depend on sexual orientation. As a bisexual man, I can actually see the beauty of both sexes. I find them beautiful in different ways.


I can certainly identify with the soft features, curves, smooth skin, and especially light touch of the female body. Men generally have harder bodies, rougher skin, and a firmer grip, so contrasting that against a woman’s softness feels pleasurable and delicate against your skin. And a women’s softer features, and softer voice make it generally seem like they need you to “protect” them, which is sexy! Most males instinctively want to cradle the weaker vessel, and let’s be honest, we don’t have breasts to play with, and we especially want to insert a hard aching sensitive organ into something soft, warm, and wet. I don’t care what anyone says, the feeling of a pussy gripping you is one of the greatest feelings on earth.


On the other hand (and this is something my gay side can identify with), there is also something very sexually powerful an arousing about an attractive male body. And from most woman’s perspective (who already have softer, rounder, smoother, and weaker bodies themselves), that’s just attractive. A hard, more rugged body, with chiseled features, and a firmer grasp feels better. The feeling of a being picked up or carried by a stronger person, with a deeper, more commanding voice, and being “protected” and cared for is sexy. Exploring the unique shape of his penis and balls (which women don’t have to explore) is basically a new toy to play with. And of course the feeling (I imagine) of just being able to lay there while he takes control, and having a warm, stiff, yet smooth rod rhythmically slide into your hidden, special place and fill you up must feel fucking amazing! So yeah, I definitely get it how a man can be sexually beautiful too.

 

I am glad you that works for you.... just not me. I am the larger stronger one, and pretty alpha as well...for me protecting someone, holding her head against my chest etc. is what gives me comfort. Providing comfort and security gives me comfort and security.