Why should it matter to you about what they think of you? if you know you're not stupid, then it shouldn't effect you.
I think it all boils down to sexuality. Women like for a man to be in control. That's how men and women fuck. One of the novel trends of our society these days is choke fucking. Which is just...women are becoming empowered, so you're supposed to have to take control of this wild woman to the point of her demise, if need be. It's completely deluded and patently ridiculous, but there it is.. You really can't separate what goes on in the bedroom from what goes on in society, because it's biological. I just have trouble understanding how, exactly, women are becoming empowered. I was just never raised to know how to speak to women. My dad just called my mom fat and stupid and ugly all the time. I am a little bit bitter towards women, because they don't want me. But I don't just make shit up about them to justify myself. I am what I am, and if women don't want me, that's fine. I'm not admitting there's anything wrong with me, so the tendency is to think there's something wrong with them. But that all boils down to desire, which is simply a source of suffering. I've lost pretty much all of my desire for women. It just fills your head with garbage, like you said. You search for reasons there is something wrong with them rather than you. I honestly don't believe there is anything wrong with me, though, except I'm ugly and worthless. That's fair enough. No one has to want me. Still, don't expect me to admire these men who lie to your faces and cheat behind your backs.
@ neonspectraltoast One thing I'd like to point out is that if a man lacks personal confidence it ultimately does affect his demeanor. The second is never speak these negatives about yourself , in so doing you're beating yourself up verbally. Having said that I can also agree social norms are getting so weird no one can figure it out and I agree most single women seem to be heavily influenced by the wacko feminists who teach them that all men are slobs. The trick then is to find an intelligent girl who hasn't been brainwashed by this BS. There's still a few out there , admittedly far and few between, but they're out there.
You want to live in human society, then a lot has to do with what everyone thinks of you Everyone worries to some degree what everyone else thinks
I'm so sick to death of thinking about women. Every time I talk about them I feel sick with myself. I should never do it.
I actually think you see the woman thing with perfect clarity. I have explained to someone how men just humour women before, I even used "it's like they're raising children" thing.
The stupidest thing you can do is be mad at all women because the ones you came across of did not treat you well. Both men and women are inclined to skip people with certain bagage so to speak, and among both genders there are plenty (well a certain amount at least ) that are willing to look beyond that. But that gets real hard when someone believes he's not worthy of anything (which in your case @neonspectraltoast seems a faulty and unneccesary conclusion! I sincerely mean this). Hope you realize this at some point
Let's Face It......Everything That Goes Wrong On Hip Forums Is Ultimately Asmo's Fault..... Cheers Glen.
I try not to get down on women. When you've been left alone as long as I have, that's easier said than done sometimes, but it's just too typical to become a woman hater because you've been rejected. Too typical for me, anyway.
I try to go down on women I like. On a more serious note, there is a lot more to life than obtaining validation from the opposite sex for one's self worth.
Personally NEON I'd much prefer to be alone completely than to suffer some of the incredible BS some of my friends endure, I'm serious. As StellarCoon said I am somebody, I matter and I could care less what anybody thinks of me.