Why Females Acting Like This To Me.

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  1. theforgottenone

    theforgottenone Members

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    I'm new here didt know where to post this so please correct me.

    I don't understand females and why they act like this?
    IMA make this short as possible. Well I'm 26 look young like 15 very handsome but have problems expressing my self with people.I have social anxiety and fear. Well I moved to a new city and females was just giving me signs like shacking there *** and everything and beautiful females like Niki and females of all ages teens and older.but I never respond and have very little experience in expressing my sexuality I had horrible history with females and only had little females and sex in my life. And after like so long in almost 2 years at once they thought I was gay idk if they do still and also I was told that I scare them idk y this.and my neighbor would like act as if I'm doing something with my other neighbor(he's gay).at time the ones that like me and I showed no response,for some reason I stop seeing them peiord. And some females look at me and start loling(this happen only a few times that I seen)and when I look at them they turn there head. I even once was called a chicken and they started loling.

    I want to know have this happen to any other guys.

    And why do u think they acting like this

    I also suffer from social anxiety and was diagnosed with schizophrenia I think people after me trying to hurt me mentally tho. And when people be nice I just see it as a trick so I try to live a private and secret life as much as I can but that's hard cause people talk!

    I want to help my self so I can figure out wat to do but I have problems expressing my self that's why I need to know wat to do next. Please don't judge me.and I mean no disrespect to anyone are any female wile I'm posting this.
     
  2. thefutureawaits

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    Do you exercise?
     
  3. Pressed_Rat

    Pressed_Rat Do you even lift, bruh?

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  4. mallyboppa

    mallyboppa Senior Member

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    I dont often reply to these kind of threads But something here touched me
    when you see these people Do you Smile or scowl at them ?
    They could be nervous of you and thats the way people react sometimes ! Try a smile !
    You have sometimes to help yourself dig your way out of the hole you have sunk into
    Start here and now :)

    Your user name sucks aswell you count in this world , we all do
    You should call yourself " the Important one " or even "the one "
     
  5. lode

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    Thoughts that people are specifically after you or mean to you are often associated with schizophrenia. That doesn't mean they're nessecarily not true.

    For example you may have a specific neighbor who doesn't like you, but generally they don't have strong opinions if you haven't formed a strong connection. They generally just consider you neighbours.

    If you're so social anxiety is making it difficult to talk to people, they may often assume you're not speaking with them because you don't want to.

    I suggest getting a nice car.
     
  6. Bud D

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    I deal with similar illusions. Some people do not care if they emotionally hurt you, sad fact. Girls do not commit unless their ready. Perhaps you commit right away if you are attracted to them? It's easy to be traumatized when you have a schizo diagnosis. So you build up resonable defenses. I have learned that what I sense is a frame of reality. It's just not big parts of other people's thought lives. They won't understand how you are further ahead in your thoughts, not that something is missing to start with. Nobody knows the future, but there are vd spreading whores (male and female) who will fuck you over and play the victim game. Just maintain your homeostasis and if you find true love them so be it. But watch out for gamers.
     
  7. Vanilla Gorilla

    Vanilla Gorilla Go Ape

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    Well, they don't actually think you are gay

    Implying you are gay to get a reaction from you Is the exact opposite thing of actually believing you are gay

    If they actually believed you were gay theyd talk to you too much, and you'd be like OMG stop talking
     
  8. rambleON

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    probably cos your a creep

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  9. Vanilla Gorilla

    Vanilla Gorilla Go Ape

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    Also

    If this were true, it then wouldn't take all that much effort for you to elaborate on the process you went through with that diagnosis

    You were diagnosed with "schizophrenia" were you

    My point being, some around you will be able to sniff out the BS pretty quickly

    Starting off with a username like that suggests you have trained yourself for too long to get attention easily and quickly from sympathy
     
  10. rambleON

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    troll thread. op name and post count
     
  11. rollingalong

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    dude is having a hard time and you call him names....he said he has a mental illness diagnosis....doesn't make him a creep....makes you a creep for calling him one
     
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  12. rollingalong

    rollingalong Banned

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    you aren't normally thought of as ''bright'' are you?

    ypu shitting here made you the troll....grow the fuck up
     
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  13. rambleON

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    C.creative
    R.reliable
    E.exciting
    E.educated
    P.power

    that is what creep means where I'm from.
     
  14. newbie-one

    newbie-one one with the newbiverse

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    I guessed troll too.

    However, if someone posts about serious problems, I treat the thread seriously. This is mainly because someone who actually has similar problems might read the thread and get some benefit from it. Also someone who actually has similar problems might be reluctant to post a similar thread because they fear being called trolls or being handled roughly.
     
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  15. rambleON

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    if ya got legit girl problems rt is not place to be looking for meaningful help imo

    I admire your wishful thinling
     
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  16. newbie-one

    newbie-one one with the newbiverse

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    People do a lot of things here that others might think unwise: ask for relationship help, post selfies, post about their kinks, post about drug use, "like" their own posts, etc. It's not really for any of us to decide what someone else should post here as long as it's within the forum guidelines.


    No you don't. You want to damn my perspective with feint praise and characterize it as wishful.

    This is the wikipedia definition of wishful thinking:
    My position is that even if it is certain that a thread is a troll thread, serious topics should be dealt with seriously. Since there actually are people who have schizophrenia and other mental health problems, there is a non-zero possibility that they will read threads that relate to their health problems and it will have some influence on them. This is an entirely rational position, not wishful.

    I simply judge the non-zero possibility of aiding a person who needs help (even if it isn't the op) as having more importance than giving a troll the what-for.

    "Help" troll threads, while unsportsman-like conduct for trolls, are mostly harmless unless someone wastes too much time on them. It is therefor much more important to provide potentially helpful information on these type of threads.
     
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  17. theforgottenone

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    I'm not a creep never had been never well be so don't judge me cause u don't understand me.I'm a nice person that had to deal with thing in my life like we all have.I'm far from a creep I'm a gentleman and very sweet and funny person and respectful I'm starring who I'm really am I'm just tired of dealing with people and games and I want help and if u not gonna at lease show some compassion like the human being u are then I guess u don't belong in this thread.have a bless day!!!
     
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  18. theforgottenone

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    Let me elebarate. First off I have doctors papers that prove I was diagnosis with it but I do have to tell u I never believed and most times don't believe I have schizophrenia.but the most shocking to me is when in 2009 I went in to see the doctor for first time b4 diagnosed and I told them everything about me and my experience and did not lie once and they also talked to my family separately.to make long story short I stop going.after a year later I was thinking and so I went and did research on my diagnosed and the shocking part was that the videos and thing I read was the same thing I was telling the doctor and that kinda made me believed I had it but I could believed that everything I believed in was a lie and imagination well most of it.

    And I'm far from seeking any attention I'm getting old and finding less help I came here and found out this look really legit and wander wat I should do and how I can help my self better.

    Truly I was looking for compassion nothing like a neutral way of talking. Like let me know its not good but then again its OK cause your only human.im very sensitive and need compassion are neutrality!!
     
  19. theforgottenone

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    I'm NOT A TROLL I HAVE NO REASON TO LIE

    I don't troll about serious thing in my life. If we was in person I well never tell are post these thing if I find out someone I know know me in Person it could ruin my life and me but ysh don't know me so I can post this.I'm stating this for all who read.
     
  20. Vanilla Gorilla

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    I say that because no matter what the condition, overall tbroughout your life time is it really worth it letting anyone else know.

    People say they dont stigmatise, but they do, and it can be sonething from 20 years ago and they still will judge you based on it

    Be supportive to the new guy openng up about mental problems, it just comes of as patronizing though and does it change anything in the ling run

    People being supportive initially is always about them, what they want to be seen as, doesnt mean they dont end up just as judgemental as anyone else.



    And everyone else has their own problems to worry about.

    Whats the main reason women are like that to you? becuase they think you dont have any money and / or you are not boring and safe enough to be taken seriously as a stable husband. Not directly about SP, and the vast majority will never tell you the truth, especially those that are initially supportive and say things that might make you feel good.

    Thats is, everyone only ever gives a shit about themselves
     

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