Why don't good guys exist?

Good guys do exist.we are the guys that you women put in the friend zone.the guys that you wont give a second thought and the guys that you won't give the time of day to cuz we dont have the best looks, big bank accounts, fancy new car, high paying jobs or our own home.but that's ok cuz we are usually the happiest people.

Why dont good women exist?

 

All that resentment pointed towards a whole gender sure makes you seem like quite the gentleman.

It's so hard for me to tell how many people that claim they are nice guys, actually are. Posts like this make me think maybe assholes get friend-zoned too. (Not saying you are actually an asshole, everyone has their good and bad sides; just that rants like this make it more ambiguous)

 

All the girls I meet are fucking already, Its not that I only am attracted to virgins, but that I have learned my lesson about confused girls, and avoiding pain. So I guess Im sort of saving my time, money, and inner self for someone special. Im not the best guy ever either, but maybe thats why Im single.

 

You might think of it this way...
If you were to meet someone that is dying of thirst, that person will be OBSESSED with water to drink.
If you were to meet someone that has not eaten in 4 days, that person will be OBSESSED with food.
It should be pretty obvious, then, that the vast majority of men do not get enough sex. That would explain why they are obsessed with it.

And, I could go a bit further, and say that your post suggests that you can "live with it or live without it". Which would mean that you are adding to the problem

Available to the highest bidder
(that would be the woman that provides the most sex)
Must be drug, disease, and ALCOHOL free.

 

Good guys exist (I'm one of them, haha) They just get kicked around a lot

 

I used to be a nice guy. And then I picked my heart up off the floor and put it in a black lead box.

 

That was my stance and it payed off for me met a wonderful girl.

protip: online dating. don't wait for someone who happens to be within 100 meters of you and happens to go to the same bar/school/work and you happen to bump into each other. expand your net. you'd be surprised who lives 2 miles away from you and is looking for you.

I met my girlfriend online. We work at the same company. We go to the same school. We live on the same street 4 minutes away from each other. We are in the same career path. We would have never met in a million years if we hadn't made a free account on okcupid.com and looked around a little. It's really amazing how people will use the internet to improve their life in every way except partner selection. People think their choices are the few people who hit on them at the bar they were at last night. The world is your oyster!

 

there are good guys out there . it is your fault your friend are all naughty . and you like the naughty boys .
peace off

 

Could be that women look in all the wrong places for the good men.

Back in high school, I spent a lot of time daydreaming about a girl in my class. The one time I got up the courage to ask her out, you would have thought I insulted her. She was going steady with the captain of the football team.

After high school, she married the captain of the football team. They had a couple of kids. Then something went wrong with his job. He spent the day drinking, and when he got home, he took her in his arms and body-slammed her into the edge of an open door. She spent 3 weeks in the hospital, and on her first day home, he did it again. That put her in the hospital for about 3 months.

They say that opportunity only knocks once. Look in the wrong places and you miss out.

About a year later, we met again. This time, she was the one interested in going out with me... But, this time, I was not free. Had she taken notice of someone that was "beneath her dignity" in high school, things might have turned out differently for both of us.

 

Ah, is that why the 'cool guys' always look so tuff and grumpy

 

Ah. So the cool guy doesn't actually want the girl with big knockers and curvy body? That explains it.

 

They always want the girl they tease, bully and put down.

 

lol I probably should've explained why i posted the cartoon thing. It isn't my opinion on guys/girls relations. It was there to illustrate the absurdity of "why" questions and gender generalizations.

Why do _________ always fall for ________ ?
1) Fill in the blanks with one of these options :
- nice girls
- nice guys
- slutty girls
- assholish guys
2) Post it on a forum.
3) Wait for one hundred forummers to answer "NOT TRUE! i'm a _______ and i don't like ______ !!!"

 

Thank goodness finally someone said it! Rep coming your way lady...

 

why thank u :love:

 

Hasn't that been pointed out in this thread? If not it was needed indeed but it seems rather obvious this thread is about generalizations.

 

Good guys do exist, it took me a long time to find one and I had to kiss a lot of frogs to find my prince (OK that was totally cheesy).
I am 35 years old, I was married for 14 years to an emotionally abusive, narcistic asshole, took me a long time to leave him. I was single for 2 years, I dated, I fucked around, I got hurt and I hurt some good guys. 1.5 years ago I met a guy I met online that I really did not think anything about and in 2 weeks I am marrying him, he is an awesome person, treats me better than I could ever imagine.
The point is, you must have patience! IMO you have to experience some stuff, good, bad and everything in between and when you least expect it, someone will come around.

 

You just need to find a older guy that is stable. I would advise all women to not date a guy under 28 years old who is in a good place emotionally, can hold a steady job and has out grown their stupid frat boy stage.


I won't lie and say I was or am a good guy.... I was a horny asshole when I was in my early twenties and would tell a girl anything to get into her pants, I cheated constantly, was drunk most of the time, had alot of unprotected sex without thinking of the consequences and screwed alot of girls over.

But as I got older I have mellowed, have become a much better human being and have only just started to figure out who I am and who I want to be.

 

stfu
this advice is totally because you want young tits


i wouldn't say that i am a stable person, but to say avoid people under X age is fucking dumb. I'm fucking awesome, but I don't have my own place, I drive shitty car, and I probably won't exist in this city in a longterm, stable way...doesn't mean girls should avoid me. I'd probably change their life.