Why don't good guys exist?

Why does having sexual desires make you a horrible person?

 

They are out there.....

 

why don't attractive girls that are assertive sexually and intellectually driven exist?

 

^they do

 

An old thread, but what the hell....

You cant win, try and classify yourself or someone else as 'good' and you just end up sounding like you are better than everyone else, thus everyone else will think you are a bitch/arsehole

Anyway, remember, all men are pigs, especially if you cant get money out of them

 

It seems that most women go after the boys that claim they are men. Rather then go after the real men. Most guys want to and believe they are men when they are not. They claim to be "down for the cause" and want more then just sex. Real men know that women are everything and that a love from a women can compare to nothing on this planet. I am real man in every sense. Little boys running around breaking women's hearts makes me sad

 

This is so true. Have you ever thought about expanding your interests for other types of guys? Not all guys are machos, believe me.
There's a difference between a guy who has a beer and bickers at the game on the tv, than a guy who sips his coffee and loves a good book.
I dated one "macho" guy and he was from the army, and i'd never do that again ... too macho for me, and dumb as bricks.

In my experience, I've found that:
Geeky guys are the sweetest guys but a tad immature, artsy guys are creative and romantic, jock guys tend to be douchebags and too egotistical, political guys are negative but sincere... and smart, anti-social and shy guys are sensitive but caring... the list could go on. idk it's all about what you want.

As for finding a guy who is reliable, good luck. LOL

 

what you said about us artsy guys is so true. i'm romantic like vincent van gogh.

 

all us good guys are already married.

 

Or We're Gay...



Cheers Glen.

 

would you like to bet on that?^^^

and how much cause you've already lost.. i'm not gay, or married.

i don't consider myself 'good' as in jesus, or buddha for that matter (if they existed) or consider myself better than anyone else with two legs and a heartbeat.

we all have sexual drives and these will result in us to having thoughts.
thoughts or glances are one thing, doing and acting out are another entirely.

but i've never been unfaithfull to any of the women in my life.

and never will. i do not see the point. if the love is no longer there to any extent it's time to face up and move on. no matter if it will shatter both hearts for a time, all variables aside, a time suffering is always better than a lifetime of suffering and dishonesty. no?

 

i think this is very judgemental and shallow of you to put guys into these kind of categories and think they don't overlap or that you can predict someones personality from vague appearances.

according to your system i must overlap the geek, artsy, political, jock and anti-social (but not shy) catergories... lol :dizzy2:

yet there is much more to me than just those stereotypes i've named.

stereotypes as far as i'm concerned are for fools who would believe they already know all they can.

 

Somebody Got Out Of The "Serious Side" Of The Bed

This Morning...:chillpill::chillpill:...



Cheers Glen.

 

My bed is always very serious.

One Sunday morning, I skipped straight to the funnies and it tried strangling me with the extra pillow.

 

lol Sorry I offended you, like I said it was from my OWN personal experience.
I should also mention that nothing I said was about their appearance, it was only referring their personalities. You can call them whatever you want... stereotypes or labels, but again I was referring to their personalities and the experience I've had with them.

:hide:

 

who wants my ear?

 

Good guys are out there - they are just harder to find
The allure of the female sex is such that they (we) cannot help but be drawn to the physical attraction foremost.
The hurt that comes from trusting a.n.others and betrayal thereafter makes it easier to be sceptical and shallow than open and all giving - that is not to say I advocate this, it is just a self-analysis and observation of others - for I'm sure I'm not the only one to experience this

 

I'm a totally nice guy. I would have to say we're convinced that "the day will come" but I would also have to say that I would love to go on 10,000 dates. Nice guys just have an easier time not forcefully pursuing the "chase". In essense, we're hiding.

Honestly, me and my best friend are textbook "nice guys" and I guess we're just less inclined to "put ourselves out there" because we know the right girl wil come along at the right time.

 

Spoken like a true gentleman, I sir salute you to the original poster, I do hope you have better experiences in the future hun.

 

For me personally, i tend to find myself believing that i am a little bit of everything. I am the macho man when i need to be the romantic sincere, caring, loving, etc.

I been single for two years by choice because, the females around my area are just not my type physically or mentally.