Why does virginity matter?

Who would want a virgin

 

I lost my virginity to a virgin and never again. It wasn't his fault. but then again maybe it was. he watched enough porn. He should have been better than that.

 

you don't need to attain a normal loving relationship to bust a nut in some pussy.

lol I'm a terrible person.

 

this is true, you will never lose your virginity again.

 

Terrible, no. Deluded, yes. Dunno where you got the (wrong) idea that I'm male from...

And I would only want to lose my virginity in a normal loving relationship.

 

I think anyone with an ounce of common sense knows your virginity is something you can only lose once....

 

virginity don't mean shit. our society just makes sex into way too big of a deal.


I'm sorry Invisible Soul, but I have a son named Soul. I didn't even think about your gender when I posted that.

 

regardless of your gender the point I made was still valid

 

Because you let it.

 

I agree. It works both ways though. Being a virgin isn't a big deal, but not having sex shouldn't be made into a big deal either, but a lot of people do mock you for being a virgin. Especially if you're over a certain age, and even more if you're male. Either way, sex is made into way too big of a deal.

Ah it's okay, it was just how it appeared to me. I'm sorry for taking your comment the wrong way.

Well, of course you don't need to be in a loving relationship to have sex. lol But for me personally, I think I would have to be.

 

I should have looked at your details before jumping to the conclusion that you were a male.

I really didn't like the guy I lost my virginity too, so it doesn't mean anything to me and any sex we had after that was pointless.

I am in a loving relationship now and it's very intimate and good, but there has been times when I had sex in the past and it was just for fun and not special in any way. and even now, sometimes it's really intimate and sensual, and sometimes its a casual quickie.

I can understand where you are coming from. it all comes down to personal choice, and nobody and nobody should be judged for the choices they make in their sex life as long as it's not hurting anybody.

 

Oh so you did jump to the conclusion I was male? I thought so. I still have no idea why though... lol

I guess the way I look at it now, is I've gone such a long time now without ever having sex, that there doesn't seem much point to me in having it unless it's going to feel special for me. If I ever do lose my virginity, I want it to be special, and I can't see it being that unless the guy really cares for me and has deep feelings for me, and I feel the same way for him.

Well, Im not really a virgin by choice, but rather just unfortunate, and unpleasant circumstances. Although it is a choice that I only want to lose my virginity to someone I love.

And I agree that nobody should be judged for choices about their own sex life as long they are hurting nobody else through those choices.

 

yes, on some subconscious level I jumped to that conclusion. If I didn't then I don't think I would have typed it. Maybe it's just because I'm more used to interacting with males.

 

I have noticed that happening quite a lot actually, not just to me, but on the internet in general... I see it a lot, people online presuming someone's gender without actually knowing what it is, and the gender is almost always assumed to be male. I've always wondered why people online assume someone's a certain gender (usually male) when they don't know them, and have never spoken to them before. It's a strange phenomenon... lol

 

Dahhhh !

 

interesting

 

That's one word for it, definitely.

 

It'll happen eventually. Just by the sheer number of people you meet in your life, you'll eventually find somebody. I used to think I was gonna be a virgin forever until quite randomly and unexpectedly I lost it last week! :2thumbsup:

 

there really are people that never have sex, despite the fact that other people do have sex...