Why does virginity matter?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by tro222, Sep 23, 2011.

  1. Karen_J

    Karen_J Visitor

    I think you are better off after you get the ordeal of losing your virginity out of the way. There is so much bullshit associated with the first time.

    These girls are fooling themselves, and playing word games. If you have had any kind of sex, you aren't a virgin. I would count anything that ends with having an orgasm with another person.

    More important things to save for a very special person include sharing a bank account and the deed to a house. You don't want to do that with too many people.

    Many young girls have theirs snipped by a doctor. It is supposedly less painful than breaking it the old-fashioned way. I would go for that, if, you know...

    A lot of guys have anxiety about being compared to other men in all aspects of sexual performance, including size. You're definitely onto something.

    That's a wonderful idea! I never heard of anybody doing that! :cheers2:
     
  2. Invisible Soul

    Invisible Soul Burning Angel

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    Yep, that is 100% correct. I've never even experienced the most basic levels of intimacy with another person (eg: Never been kissed) So I count myself as a virgin in every way, not just because I haven't experienced sex.

    I really have to laugh when I hear the term "born again virgin". lol Once you've had a sexual experience, that's it. It's not something you can change...
     
  3. Hippy-Chick

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    I grew up in a alternative living style communitie. ((( I would like to know what the word is in english for this type of communitie )))
     
  4. NightRose

    NightRose idiosynractic rose

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    I'll say I'm a virgin when it come's to penetration; had the stick but not the dick. Why? Out of choice. And frankly, I dont mind in the slightest.
     
  5. serena3

    serena3 Member

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    commune
     
  6. Hippy-Chick

    Hippy-Chick Member

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    That translate for me as a village or town. But it was nothing that big.
     
  7. tro222

    tro222 Guest

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    1- Realistically, if you see a woman in public, would you be able to tell whether they're a virgin or not? I'm pretty sure you won't be able to see their hymen. By physical impact, I meant more on what they can and can't do. A hymen (or lack of) does not effect what a woman can/can't do.

    2- You're right about the sold for marriage part. It's unfortunate but true. But what about in countries where women have equal rights as men?

    3-How could you consider virginity loss to "damaged goods"? The "goods" are still the same in terms of what they have to offer and what they look like.
     
  8. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    sometimes...

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  9. MissCyanide

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    honestly, virginity doesn't matter, I'd prefer a non virgin who has actually had experience before and one way or another you're gonna have sex someday anyway, and also alot of people say that your sexual status determines who you are, which I think is STUPID.
     
  10. scratcho

    scratcho Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    It's an insecure man thing. First in --no comparison. Be seen as Mr Wonderful.
     
  11. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    i suppose sex is inevitable, if you count getting fucked by the government...
     
  12. la Principessa

    la Principessa Member since '08

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    Oh I totally agree. My boyfriend told me he wishes he were my first because then we can be each other's one and only, but honestly I think he wants to know he's the best and biggest I've ever had. Would help his ego a lot.
     
  13. I'minmyunderwear

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    i'm getting confused. for a long time i've always heard that confidence is what women are most attracted to, but this thread is starting to make me think that every woman is dating the most insecure loser she could find...
     
  14. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    Confidence in a male is the worst ever. They pretend to be cool and hard. Not cool.
    I'll take a guy who'll ignore me any day. In my lonesome I can have more fun than if I was with somebody. People annoy me and I make myself laugh. >.>
     
  15. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    well those guys aren't actually confident, hence the pretending.

    they're probably the guys that all these girls think are confident and thus have sex with and thus decide that all guys are insecure about their penises.
     
  16. Invisible Soul

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    I think the chances of me ever having sex are extremely low, so you definitely can't say that as if it's universally applicable to everyone. For the vast majority of people though, yes I would agree about that, but it's not an absolute.
     
  17. la Principessa

    la Principessa Member since '08

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    Why don't you think you'll have sex, Invisible Soul?
     
  18. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    Gotta sacrifice someone. -shrug-
     
  19. Invisible Soul

    Invisible Soul Burning Angel

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    I'd rather not go into the specifics regarding that... What I will say though is there seems to be too many obstacles in the way for me to ever be able to attain a normal loving relationship and to have sex. And the older I'm getting, it just seems more and more unlikely that I'll ever experience those things.
     
  20. serena3

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    I love confidence in a man. I love confidence in bed. when I think someone is sexy I want them to feel sexy. In my relationship I'm the "insecure" one but I have gained a lot of confidence since I've been with my boyfriend. The last thing I would want is someone who is insecure and desperate to impress.
     

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