Why does every guy I've ever been with...

always nice to be positive aye hehe xx

 

You should try a relationship with a (sexually) submissive guy. He will put your needs at the centre of your relationship, where they belong

 

You just havent met the right guy yet

 

Don't wear your heart on your sleeve?? Guard your heart better, not to the point where no guy can get in, but to the point where only the right guy can get in.

 

this pretty much sums it up.

assuming that by "heart" you mean "vagina."

 

Ahahaha!! It can go both ways. Can't wear your heart or your pussy out on your sleeve.

 

Learn how to respect yourself. Once you do that you will be spending a lot less time feeling sorry for yourself. Sounds harsher than it really is. Im just tellin you wzup.

 

Because you are not old enough to see through their bullshit and should talk to older girls about the guys you date for tell tale signs

 

Face it most people are pieces of shit. They are selfish, horny and try to get away with anything that personally benefits them regardless of the consequences. There are people that care and are honestly serious about a relationship. They are just few and far between.

 

woah girl some people on here have replied pretty harshly considering you are seeking help.

HOWEVER

you are so young. don't rush the guy thing. fuck, i'm so young and im talking about marriage with my boyfriend. CRAZY. LIVE THE SINGLE LIFE BECAUSE WHEN IT'S GONA, IT'S GONE.

also. don't let them treat you that way.. if it's a reoccurring issue then you need to change the way you act/react around them. Plus, guys your age suck. end of story.

keep your head up lady :sunny:

 

In the words of Dan Savage (listen to his podcast if you don't already), every relationship you ever have will fail...until one doesn't. Sounds like you're choosing poorly. Choosers can be improved! Try to find the nice guys who respect you and treat you well...not just the cute ones. Best of luck to you and hang in there.

 

are you beautiful, sexy, rich? Get all those things covered, and you can take your pick of MUCH better men. A little exercise, dieting and cosmetic surgery go a LONG ways towards making you more attactive, you know. Figure out ways to clear 50k a year, learn to live ok on 20k, learn to make high % of return on the savings, and you can quickly get any surgery needed. With beauty, smarts, and applied effort, you can do anything that needs doing. If you are in a screwed up country, find a way OUT. There's no fence around any country, with 24 hour armed guards the necessary spacing (100m or less between them) to stop you. Learn to survive as needed. Learn to fight as needed, get whatever gear and skill needed, and get wherever you can live better. you will deserve it, for having gone thru all that.

 

Don't get pregnant before age 30, or before you have PLENTY of money. Like 1/2 mill $ US, if you know how to make a real (after tax and 5% annual inflation) 10%. In the US, this requires that you really make 20%, but that's not tough, on sums less than 10mill $ or so. For instance, for 100k US, there is a way to CLEAR 100k a year. Distasteful and a pita, yes. Illegal or hard work, no.

 

Don't have more than 1 kid, either. The world already has WAY too many people, and it's getting worse every second.

 

I hear you girl and I'm feeling bad too, I've loved a guy 34 years from 120 miles away--and just found out he's turned bi.

At least I'm tolerant and I still love him, but it brings back all the old feelings of never being good enough for him tenfold-because now I have male as well as female competition!

 

Chill out with the boys at your age. Things will get better as the guys mature; at your age all they want is one thing and they're very confused : /

My advice to you is to ENJOY YOUR YOUTH. Don't complicate it with boys just yet. At your age, I was hanging out with my best friends being mischievous. That's probably the best thing for you right now!

Don't fill your young life with drama! Instead, fill it with friendship, fun, and school! You'll thank yourself later

 

I was told that if you want a good man date a conservative guy.

Conservative men are:

moral... They don't have gay sex and bring home the AIDS. They don't try to get you to wife swap with fat creepy couple next door.

gun owners... You don't have to worry about some wimpy limp wrist not being able to protect you when the bad guys come to rape you and your children.

Christians... You don't have worry about him taking you to some devil worshiping chicken killing party.

not the ones who voted for Obama... So you don't have to worry about him being a total retard and knowing nothing about politics.

hard workers... They fix things, they mow the lawn and trim the bushes, they plow the fields and sow the oats, they build a little log cabin in the woods for your little love nest weekend getaways.

anti abortion... he won't try murdering your unborn baby.

 

lol

 

It's true just think about it!