Isn't that a wonderful feature? It has greatly improved my forum experience. I only have a few on my list, mostly people who keep making the same irritating points over and over, no matter what anybody says to them, like they are barely reading the other posts. Love and apathy are true opposites, while love and hate are similar. I can understand gay men feeling apathetic toward women, but hate requires a lot of energy and motivation. Unless you can get to the bottom of that, you aren't going to get anywhere. There is probably a complicated story behind it that we will never know. :cheers2: Nobody has found a way to bully me into silence yet. I have just as much right to be here as anybody else.
Hello, I would like to make a comment if I may regarding the "psycho bitch" aspect of women. Unfortunately we women are subject to hormonal swings which at worse can feel like you have become a different albeit nasty irrational person. It is very distressing for the woman, much more so than for the people who have to tolerate it. This is the dark side of women to be tolerated by their hopefully empathic partners. Now lets not forget to mention the negative side of the male hormone testosterone and it's impact on the women....Who has not had this experience ladies....Your man takes YOU out as his partner, yet can't take his eyes off the scantily clad young women of today. How degrading for the women who experience this as both parties know whats going thro his head.....Then when manopause hits a male, quite often they become psycho, irrational "third eye" dwellers who often tell their partners of 20 years they are no longer attractive, they have met someone half their wives age and the only thing that will bring peace and happiness is to walk out on the family, buy a sports car and travel the world. Many women are left devastated by this irrational, hormone driven madness. This is the other half of your story. How does any one tolerate any of it? Unconditional love and commitment. Peace and love people.
thank you for providing a solid argument and not taking this thread personally. i appreciate it. i think i can see how this makes sense. and i agree with you on that one. i've always found that behavior in older guys ridiculous. i hope that never happens to me.
Hormonal swings are actually the cutest, most adorable aspect of womanhood to me. It makes women honest, which, in-itself is rare. The vast majority of the time, I`m dealing with wishy-washy, uppity, entitled women who go absolutely batshit crazy when I don`t verify their sense of entitlement just because they have a hole between their legs. Then they start to cocktease, and cocktease, and argue, and cocktease, and argue, and passive-aggression, and attention-whoring, and passive-aggression, and arguing endlessly. Dude, if you want my attention for whatever reason, you`re going to have to introduce yourself and tell me how you feel about me and run the risk that I don`t feel the same for you. It`s what I do when I`m interested in a woman. There`s no safe shortcut even if you`re a girl. And, I am aware that girls looooooove safety. But no, sorry. Nothing is good that doesn`t involve risk. What ticks us off is just different, see. Again, to me that`s the most adorable aspect of manhood. Independence, sexuality, adventurousness, aggression. Though, I am far from being gender-loyal, as far as I`m concerned if your argument against men is that they do not want to have sex with only one woman for the rest of their lives, you have no argument at all. Monogamy is a failed idea that has never existed in actuality. It`s way more unrealistic than Communism. It`s a front. It`s always been. And, all women who grew up post-feminism to believe that monogamy was something real will need to adjust. Women have never even expected monogamy from men. Women themselves are not as monogamous as they want men to be. The last 50 years of Snow White-Beauty & The Beast-Cinderella ideological mono-fever out of 20,000 of human evolution will not change that. If anything, what bothers me most about men is that doormat gentleman/macho suck up routine. Aaargh!
I agree with Oscar. And, then there's this... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gP3DMLJO5hE&feature=related"]The Trashwomen - Batteries - YouTube
It's very depressing to assimilate the notion that you are right Cherea. We want love, we want to think we are the only person our partners desire.....i thought that until last night my partner told me the movie Chloe with Julianne Moore was worth a look......im paranoid about getting old tho everyone tells me i look 10 yrs younger than my age....i found the movie completely dark, twisted and disturbing. But what was worse, when i asked him if I looked about Julianne Moores vintage he said.... yeah, about that. She is 50 and looks every second of it. Im early 40's and suppose to look 30. aaaahhhh the pain of it all. Ready to end relationship today as irrational reaction to the verbal blow....Then I think about the reality of what you guys say....suddenly being single and without delusion..and without this man 13 years my juniour is the most rational thing i can do to rid myself of irrational thoughts like my partner wants to be only with me. When will they pass a law where old women can marry horses or dogs or some creature that can't talk!