why do you tolerate female irrationality?

Because they are all wonderful creatures of beauty with a marvellous ability to cope with anything that is thrown at them - they work hard and are great lovers.
-I Just wish one would come my way
LOL

 

I dunno. Female irrationality is more honest in a sense.

It's nice to get that dose of reality.

 

Male rationality.

 

This ^^^

I'm a bitchwhorecunt sometimes. The male rationality helps. Or one could just kill me.

OH!! And this works, too..... :ssmokeit:

 

ass kisser of the year award!

 

a) who in the fuck said any of us were sane?
2) it helps cover our own irrationality.
iii) there are just as many irrational and crazy-psycho gay people as there are straight ones (proportionally speaking), of all genders.

 

I'm going to add that my brother is one of the most irrational people I know. I'll be busy doing something, whether it's writing an essay for school, preparing food for myself or my mom (messy..), painting, etc. My dog will scratch on the door to go out, he's sitting mindlessly at the computer playing video games (or watching youtube videos about videogames... lol) and won't get up. So I ask him, "Can you let Callie out, or are you too busy T.T" and he gets pissed....

Also, remember that a lot more stress is put on women these days. Women are expected to hold jobs like their male counterparts, along with raise children and do housework. So, men, help out if you don't already!
There was a study done that observed China and I think it was Switzerland- two countries, one where nearly all the housework fell on women (China), and one where it was split (Switzerland). The study found men in Switzerland were a lot more satisfied with their sex life than the Chinese men

Also, I do think women, in general, would make better leaders, since men can become more obsessed with power than women, generally speaking. Take the queen of Hawaii before its annexation, for instance, she was well-loved by the people. And what about Queen Elizabeth? Everyone loved her... Of course, there were many great male leaders. The point is, people are people. Some women are irrational, just as some men are. And many aren't, just as many men aren't, also.

 

LOL! Seriously, somebody get him a crowbar to pry his lips off that collective ass.

 

this is bullshit. first of all, studies about gender can't be trusted, imho, since gender issues are highly politicized.

A study found that the highest rates of domestic violence occured on the day of the superbowl. it was published and republished in the media without question, but later exposed as a blatant fabrication

another study claimed that women are paid less than men for the same work. the study, however, compared the salaries of men who were university professors with phd's to elementary school teachers who had b.a.'s on the grounds that they were both teachers

what is implied by the study you site is that sharing housework improves the sex life for men.

from the way that you describe it, it is a broad study of men in switzerland and china. the implied conclusion is that sharing housework improved the sex lives of the swiss men, without actually observing whether or not the men surveyed shared housework, were even married, were gay, etc.

if this study had even the vaguest intentions of being objective, it would have studied just one country, controlled for confounding factors like income, work, and living environment. it would have asked men if they were married or not, how satisfied they were with their sex lives, the degree to which housework was shared, and perhaps whether or not they thought that that sharing housework improved their sex lives

many men in china from the country side travel long distances to work in the cities, while their wives stay at home. then there is also the grinding poverty, wide spread toxic polution, totalitarian government, and a million other factors that could make one's sex life worse.

the authors of the study you site are full of shit, and they probably even know it themselves. anectdotal evidence I have read in a book by a sex therapist certainly indicates that couples that have very equal relationships also tend to have very boring sex lives. I think that this could be supported by a study, but as I said, gender issues are highly politicized.

who the fuck are you kidding???????

 

Well, I was never part of a survey, but I have first hand experience in how the sex life relates to sharing house work. I was born Amish, and in the Amish culture the women are for house work and men do the outside work. I had 4 sisters and a mother to do my laundry, cleaning the house, and cooking when I was growing up. I met an "English" girl on a blind date, and we ended up getting married 2 years later and I left the church I was raised in. So here I was expecting my wife to do all the house work and be a stay at home mom. Well, that worked fine until a couple years ago, she decided she wanted to get a job. It wasn't long before she informed me that I was going to help with the house work or we were going to get a divorce. I hadn't washed a plate since I was like 8 years old. My wife decided it would be my job to wash the dishes (we have a small kitchen with no dishwasher). In the past year or so I have learned that housework is simple and fun, washing dishes, vacuuming the floor, and occasionally cleaning the bathrooms. And my wife is much happier with me, which means a better sex life. If you don't think that helping around the house improves your sex life, you haven't tried it.

 

First of all - I know what you mean, but realistically women do not have the market cornered on irrationality. However, it's true that a lot of women are just plain crazy and - well - there's an epidemic of histrionic personality disorder among women in my corner of the world, that's for sure - I think it's socially induced.

Personally, I don't tolerate it. I give all women the benefit of the doubt, but basically I have adopted a zero tolerance policy with regard to unacceptable, childish, self-centered behavior with regard to the opposite sex, and people in general. If someone acts like a spoiled child, I regard them as such and act accordingly - since they are not my "child", I remove myself from their presence and hope that their "parents" can and will deal with them (just ask my last girlfriend how quickly and resolutely I'm capable of removing myself from someone whose behavior is unacceptable).

I used to work with chronically mentally ill people. You can't talk or "reason" someone out of psychosis. When I was getting paid to deal with insane people, I couldn't just remove myself from them - I had to deal with them and remember that it was an illness. but now, I no longer work in that field and I don't have to, and I'll be damned if I allow myself to deal with it in my personal life. I can feel pity, even empathy for the suffering they experience, but nothing says I have to willingly invite it into my own life.

There was a time, in my youth, when I was so lovelorn that I tolerated some unimaginable behavior - really sick and abusive stuff. No longer.

Basically, I stopped worrying about whether or not I was alone, because I've grown to love and be perfectly at home in a relationship or single. Both have advantages. I've also learned to value myself and my time enough to not waste my time and energy on toxic people. Sounds like some new age self-help mumbo jumbo, but I came upon it honestly.

You ask how any sane straight man could deal with it? What kind of male who would tolerate this kind of personality? My guess is that these men don't emotionally invest themselves in these women in the first place. They aren't bothered by it because they understand it - or learn to understand it - as a transaction: tolerance for a piece of ass. They value the piece of ass enough to tolerate the insanity.

I think on some instinctual level, these women understand this - and that's why they are so batshit crazy and profoundly and chronically unhappy and dissatisfied, but powerless to change it, because they simply can't conceive of any other way to live. Same goes for the men.

 

Does she send you to your room if you spill your milk or speak out of turn?

 

Yes, she does. When I get there, she handcuffs me to the bed and gets out the bull whip she bought me for my birthday (true story). I always know what's cumming next!

At least I don't wear superman pajamas to bed.

 

I don't reckon you've ever done anything without your wife's permission. But that was clever, linking my signature picture to nightwear!

 

One night a man broke into our house. He eventually found his way into our bedroom. He had a can of spray paint and painted a line on our floor, then told me to stand behind the line and stay there, which I did because he looked like a pretty tough guy. He then proceeded to rape my wife. He had his way with her, then left. My wife was crying and asked me why I didn't do anything. I replied "I got that guy! I stepped over the line three times!"

Something I did without my wife's permission; last night a server gave me her cherry. I have witnesses.

 

lol. nice joke.

 

I think that some men like to be dominated by women, and some women like to dominate men.

I don't think that this is typical though

further, even in this type of relationship, the excitement comes from the inequality in it

are you suggesting that there is something wrong with wearing superman pajamas to bed?????
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she suffered through my stormy teenage years and supported me even when i didn't deserve it.

 

Women are a nightmare. I'm married I know what I'm talking about

 

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I have found that this is the individual rather than a whole gender. I have known both sexes to be irrational and very dramatic.