Why do you choose top or bottom?

Being a bottom just felt natural to me. I'm not very well hung so it's probably for the best ;-) I bottomed my first time I was with another guy and it was so wonderful I just never even thought about topping. Something about being used for pleasure is such a turn on

 

I totally agree. I love the feeling of being used for the pleasure of another. I’ve no interest in topping. I enjoy getting my cock sucked of course but my main desire is having cock in me.

 

I'm vers, and I love topping sometimes but the nice thing about bottoming is that my dick doesn't even need to be hard, I can just enjoy taking a load (or loads) and enjoying the feeling of being a dirty cumslut.

 

Choosing to be a bottom was a rather easy choice since my present wife was teasing and fingering my bung hole early on in our relationship while giving me blowjobs. I'd fucked several women in the ass, my ex-wife a couple thousand times as she loved it. I too wanted to experience being fucked in the ass. My present wife worked dildo's and vibrators in me while sucking me off and it was amazing. Then during a threesome with my man she suggested I take his big cock in my ass. OMG, I found out why my ex-wife enjoyed it so much. I have no desire to fuck a man in the ass, but I certainly enjoy being fucked in the ass by a man.

 

a I don't think it was something I "choose." I've always been a bottom, and I've never had the desire to top another guy. Ironically, I've always been an "ass man" and can definitely appreciate a nice ass, woman or man, but topping another guy just isn't an option for me

 

It has a little to do with going against the stereotype of a guy only being dominate.

 

Every time I see a male being spit roasted in porn, I find myself fantasizing about that level of naughtiness and how it must feel..I think that's where my bottom curiosity comes from..That submissive feeling of bending over for another man..In time, I'll get there..Another step on my bisex journey

 

DUDE !!! You must try this!!! INSANELY HOT!! I bottomed for two tops once. WOW!!!!

 

That's exactly how I feel......

 

Ditto!

 

Absolutely. Nothing wrong with being sub.

 

I also like to be a bit femme.

 

Though I'm (as you probably already know) 100% celibate, I would have to say that at least 95% of my fantasies have me as a top (not to brag, but, at 9", I guess I'd be well equipped for the job of "topping'!)

And, even in those fantasies where I do bottom, there is no loss whatsoever of my masculinity.

To me, when two masculine men are having sex with one another, it is simply two MALES enjoying each other sexually, with NO masculine/feminine roles being played out.

A LOT of "bonding" for certain!

Think of this, too; if the guy doing the fucking is laying on his back, and the other guy is on top of him, getting plowed, in this scenario, the "bottom" is really the "top"!

Simply speaking:

DO what YOU enjoy the MOST, and ignore any and all who disagree!

 

It was easy for me to choose to be a bottom… I’ve been a total submissive my whole life!… I love to be forced and that feeling of having no control is a turn on for me!

 

I'm definitely a bottom guy. I love feeling feminine and submissive being penetrated doggystyle.

 

When I was a teen I used to shove cucumber thin to thick, eggplants long and thick, and carrots, I used to boil them to make them soft and too much lotion. I sat on them on a chair to push them up as much I could, then I laid on my bed in front of a mirror to watch and masturbate. That was the only time I was a bottom.

 

I’m a bottom, I want to feel a 8” thick cock penetrating my ass and sliding all the way in and out fucking me good and then feel his cock throbbing and pumping his hot cum deep inside me

 

I love being bottom I just love it when he goes deep in my ass and when he shoots his load deep in my ass it’s so warm and that makes me cum as well then I clean his cock off by sucking it clean then I clean my cum up mmmmmm taste so good

 

For me it has always been a choice. The few men I have topped in the past and enjoyed it with and without a condom (I was on PrEP) and I enjoyed the one time I climaxed inside my partner's ass. The top lovers I have had, I loved bottoming and pleasuring them with my ass, loved it when they would cum inside me. I've never had a bad experience as a bottom.

Over the past decade I seem to have grown shorter, from 6 inches to 4 inches. Now, all I want to do is bottom for a lover (when I have one) because I'm not very good as a top man. With me, the most joy and pleasure I get from intercourse is when a lover climaxes inside me and is completely satisfied. That moment when he starts to shoot his seed into me, plunges balls-deep into me and I feel each contraction... that moment makes me feel that to my lover I am the most important man in the world to him. Giving him great joy gives me great joy.