Why do u gals do that?

Pablo--sounds like the brother in law needs a serious dose in order to SEE himself.

 

[/quote]This.

Self rated 7/10? Which probably means you are a 5.

And in starting this thread, asking everyones opinion you didnt bother giving details about your age, job, buying power....which means you are no Einstein

And asking other girls for dates, means you arent trying all that hard. What they call confidence or a guy that "knows what he wants" really just means a guy thats going to put some effort in, anything else is a red flag - some guy 3 months in thats just going to sit on the couch not paying attention playing Xbox

Your friend did probably set you up with who she thought was a correct match.


Aside from that, the hot girl with the guy that looks like Seth Rogen thing, its the opposite of what you think. Too many guys whine but just dont put any effort into their appearance. So there arent enough hot guys anyway, and the ones that are, are either gay or total players.

The amount of straight guys that dont even wash properly, have 3 day old pizza stains on their shirt and complain the cheerleader types dont want to jump on their dick. Or the ones that do put lots of effort into the relationship land the hot girl (allow themselves to get totally whipped) but then still dont bother hitting the gym, getting some abs or a decent haircut....defies belief[/quote]

Ok, some info about myself:
I'm 24, im thin (height 1,80m and weight 70 kilos), I shower every single day, I'm clean and groomed, I do exercise 3 times a week (I guess I could do more), I'm studying Pharmaceutical Chemistry and right now I have a teaching job right there where I study. My income is definetely low but it's something.
Looks... I don't really know, I guess not that great, again I didn't want to appear as egotistical with the 7/10, in my book that's regular. I guess a 5 is more correct now that I think about it (too embarassed to post a picture).

I keep reading stuff like "get the balls to ask someone out damn it", I hear you, WHICH i'm actually DOING, balls is not the problem. This post was just to know why girls didn't want the role of matchmakers, that's it, I keep hearing how women LOVE to play cupid etc etc and that's why I asked.

I also thought it this way: If I had available good female friends, I would totally hook them up with some of my friends, I mean it's a very nice thing to do if you see they're a positive match, right?

 

S'alright. With guys they pretty much all think there ranking is higher than it actually is, usually by 2, so when you said 7 I automatically assumed 5

Pretty much everything out of their mouths is the opposite of what they really believe. Especially on stuff like this, the consequences can get too catty. They would never ever set up one of their gal friends up with a guy hotter than their boyfriend

So if one of those "good" female friends you thought was hot or had a crush on, you'd set her up with one of your mates?

 

Well, the last thing was assuming I was taken already hehe, forgot to mention that part. Of course if they had a crush on me I would date them myself.

 

This thread is hilarious.
You are way too desperate. Focus on your studies, get some hobbies, play some sports, enjoy time with your friends. This way you actually have a life. Both men and women look for partners who have a life of their own, their own thoughts and ideas and aren't going to pressure and smother.
And your shallowness shows from a mile off. I wouldn't touch you with a 10 foot barge pole.

 

With all that being said, I guess I'll have to shorten my original response to simply, "No, I don't want to be a matchmaker and I've only seen girls actually do that kind of thing on television."

 

But in all seriousness, male or female why bother "whipping" some one below your ranking.

Or as they put it in an episode of "How I met your mother" the other day - In every relationship their is a reacher and a settler.

Where is the fun in being the settler?
More exciting being the whippee than the whipper

 

the "ugly" girl is the one that wants to be hooked up. the "hott" girls do it for themselves.

 

And I thought it was only me
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