Why do some guys stare?

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by Tree-Hugger, Apr 19, 2008.

  1. OlderWaterBrother

    OlderWaterBrother May you drink deeply Lifetime Supporter

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    Well LuckyStripe, maybe you need to stop looking so dam good!
     
  2. praxiskepsis

    praxiskepsis ha!

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    I don't know about this particular case. But a lot of women also send provocative signals. So.
     
  3. Oneness

    Oneness Dead

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    look around, ooo hot girl, made eye contact, shit. Look away. Wait look back. Shes looking again, thats good eye contact, she thinks im cute. Damn look at that tiny ass.. lol
     
  4. Van_Gogh

    Van_Gogh Senior Member

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    Werd. This is a true statement for sure.

    But anyway, staring doesnt bother me anymore, since I get it from every end. Older women in new york trying to be young again. Teenage girls being bitches. And men. The only time staring bothers me is if i'm alone, and it's a man who constantly continues to stare...Then I slightly start to freak out.
     
  5. praxiskepsis

    praxiskepsis ha!

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    I knew it.
     
  6. praxiskepsis

    praxiskepsis ha!

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    Intermittent eye-contact, according to a certain rhythm --- with ocasional dwellings --- is sexier.
     
  7. Aristartle

    Aristartle Snow Falling on Cedars Lifetime Supporter

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    I was sick, wearing baggy bleach stained sweat pants, with my grey and grimy hoodie tied up around my face with no makeup on and a dirty pair of running shoes carrying a brown canvas bag when I crossed the street downtown and some man in his car says "Hey baby, you got a boyfriend?"

    He stared at me as I crossed the street and I pretended that I didn't hear him.

    I have no idea why men stare. Especially when I looked like a fucking street bum, and got unwanted attention. I don't get it at all. They must have sex on their minds all of the time or something.
     
  8. Aristartle

    Aristartle Snow Falling on Cedars Lifetime Supporter

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    LOL. There is no way I looked provocative in over-sized sweat gear with bleach stains on them.
     
  9. praxiskepsis

    praxiskepsis ha!

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    1) It's not just men, trust me. Nor is it all men;

    2) Probably the worst thing you can do is ignore people;

    I know it's tough: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bd4Gpi9ksXw
     
  10. Aristartle

    Aristartle Snow Falling on Cedars Lifetime Supporter

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    Eh? The best thing to do is ignore most people.

    Most beautiful people are fairly self absorbed from my experience. Most women who get a lot of unwanted attention when it comes to their looks usually have some kind of damaged self esteem or self image thing going on. Women typically project themselves as being beautiful in an attempt to project an image of confidence.
     
  11. praxiskepsis

    praxiskepsis ha!

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    I fully agree with last statement.

    Disagree with penultimate statement.

    Fully disagree with first statement.
     
  12. Beckner420

    Beckner420 troll

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    I rarely stare people in the eyes, and if i do its for a second.

    I fucking hate when people ask me to look at them.
     
  13. praxiskepsis

    praxiskepsis ha!

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    Actually, if you're gonna look at someone, look first in the eyes. Then brush their body with one general brush stroke. Then return to the eyes. Then look away.


    The eyes are instrument of touch.
     
  14. Hellvis

    Hellvis Senior Member

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    Well we stare because evadently you are hot enought hat it takes the blood from our thinking head to the OTHER one. Effectivly rendering us staring droolling morons.
     
  15. praxiskepsis

    praxiskepsis ha!

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    When I stare at a body part and not the eyes. I know I couldn't be happy with that person.

    As a matter of fact, when I have a bona fide crush, I can't think of them sexually until much later.
     
  16. mamaKCita

    mamaKCita fucking stupid.

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    yup. pure physicality is fun for a couple hours or days. other than that, blech.
     
  17. hotwater

    hotwater Senior Member Lifetime Supporter

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    Because you’ve damaged their ego somehow by action or inaction (perhaps an unconscious gesture) :H


    Hotwater
     
  18. mamaKCita

    mamaKCita fucking stupid.

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    or they could just be thinking. people always think i'm pissed off when i'm thinking.
     
  19. hotwater

    hotwater Senior Member Lifetime Supporter

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    More than likely it’s an idiosyncrasy of hers which causes men to stare her down :H


    Hotwater
     
  20. crankyelbow

    crankyelbow Makes Music

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    I typically meet a stare with a smile and a peering glance... seems to work.

    Why alot of people stare... hmm, perhaps they see something interesting? Anything worth looking at is worth studying for more than a glance :)
     
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