Why do ppl think being too nice is a bad thing?

There a lot of mean people out there all right but generally most of the people are good people! That's the way I see it!

 

I just don't necessarily think of people who talk bad about others behind their backs and make fun of other people as good people.

 

It’s not that being too nice is a bad thing it’s that people expect something in return when they think they are being nice. That’s why girls don’t like fake nice guys because they can sense when someone is being fake just to get with them. That’s what men don’t get. It’s good to be nice but you have to stand by it and not try and expect anything in return goes if you’re a female too

 

You are either smarter than a damned chicken, or you are the chickenshit chicken! Its not an issue of how nice you are, if you know who you are and how to deal with chickenshit chickens spouting nonsense nonstop, all insisting the sky is falling, but they have the solution to life's most pressing problems.

You are what you is, and that's all it tis. Tell them to get over it already. Nice people actually live longer.

 

yes I’ve heard that to when they get turned on that when a women humiliated them or ignore them. But to each their own.

 

Its the plain simple truth. A study of Wall Street traders concluded that no matter what their espoused beliefs, their ethics went up and down with the stock market, and you could say how nice a person acts doesn't necessarily reflect their morality more than superficially. On the contrary, those who are nice and actually pay it forward and cultivate contentment, live longer and thrive better in the long run. If money and guns are all that interest you, then its time to rethink your priorities, or not.

 

I agree with you!

 

Being nice is fine and the way people should be. But in this world definitely have to have boundaries because people will take advantage of you because of your niceness. As long as you realize this you’re fine.

 

Was like last week. I stopped to let a car go in a parking lot knowing that if I went I would be across the lane blocking them in. So I waited for them to be finished. Then I notice someone was doing the same for me. So I waved at them, they waves back, the people I stopped for waved at me and I waved at them. Then I turned to my wife and said see this is how a fucking community should work.

 

Sounds too perfect for me. I am suspicious of anything perfect. Damn girl, you suspicious.

 

Thanx for all the good replies everyone........ Im glad im the way I am.......God wants us to be loving/caring to others I think even if they arent nice to us.........

Peace and love to all...........