Why do nice guys always get fucked over?

because they're trying too hard while they are not expected to and if 'she' doesn't appreciate their efforts they feel fucked over and left out

 

Being nice means nothing.

Since you claim to be a nice guy and not a asshole then you got to be a man and you will get a girl easily.

to be a man:

-You gotta be tuff

-you have to know how to work hard

-you have to be able to handle a woman's emotions in a calm manner

-you can not be overly emotional as you gotta be the one that is tuff

-you have to be into your woman. you gotta show her affection and like to hold her and cuddle with her and give her nice comments.

-you have to socially smart. if you are a real man you do not waste your time to date a bitch. the dumb bitches can date the guys that treat them for exactly what they are. some girls are just very unreasonable and very rude. They think that since they look good they are entitled to some sort of special treatment where they can be rotten and still be loved and adored and served too.

-you have to impress the girl. be good at something. music, sports, cooking, whatever.

now that is just the general stuff. all the other things depends on the girl and what her personal preferences are.

you can be nice but lack social skills. you can be nice but just plain boring. you can be nice but have a funky personality they do not like. you can be nice but be nerdy. you can be nice but un-talented. you can be nice but not be attractive. you can be nice but can be a wimp. you can be nice but do not know how to treat a woman. blah blah blah

or you can be nice, intelligent, great social skill/confidence, good looking, and you'll have plenty of woman coming after you. nice ladies and bitches.


so no nice guys do not get screwed over unless they let a woman take advantage of them.


oh and just to let you know.

there are girls out there that are socially awkward and actually wanna have a socially awkward boyfriend.

there are also girls out there that are socially awkward and wanna have a socially confident boyfriend.

there are girls out there that like quiet and girls out there that like to talk all night with out moments of silence.

I could make a list of several scenarios. there is someone out there for everyone.

 

This is all bullshit.

But I like this part.

You just forgot that there are girls out there that don't want the stereotypical man.

 

yeah, but lesbians don't count.

 

Exactly! When are we going to get over these male stereotypes?

 

when we have a matriarchal society

 

SWe tried that over here in the 80's. Didn't work at all, just ended riots and caused a world recession in the early 90's.

 

Socially, I'm pretty sure we already do.

 

fuck that! you are blind if you think the US is a matriarchal society.

 

Never. Sadly, the media and western culture does what it can to push these stereotypes.

 

Agreed!

Fueled By Coffee... that is how things are now, but that doesn't mean that can't change.

 

I like women and don't really consider myself sexist, but I find the idea of a matriarchal society very very frightening.

 

Why is it more frightening than patriarchy? I mean, patriarchy has led to nothing but constant warfare and destruction of the environment. Which I think is pretty scary.

 

that's not stereotypical. women are biologically programmed to want a man that can protect and provide. men are programmed to want a woman that is fertile and can nurture. its just the way it is. and a matriarchal society would never work on anything larger than the tribal level.

 

personally I don't go out with people. after a while the chick will get bitchy, way too needy, and more and more monotonous every time you're fucking

 

antithesis is right. Patriarchy has more in common with destruction than anything else. Where do you think the word "stag-nation" comes from. The fundamental principles upon which life thrives and procreates are based wholly upon matriarchy, if it was all left to patriarchy we wouldn't be here.

"Conformity is competitive and divisive and leads only to stagnation and death."

The men in suits are NOT in control, now matter how we would all like to deceive ourselves into believing. And just because the leader of a country is a women, does not in any way allude towards a matriarchal political system either.

 

pseudointellectualism :ack2:

 

Girls don't like wimpy guys

 

Matriachy....Patriarchy

I dont think It would make any difference in the end

Sarah Palin just as much a twit as GW was

Hilary Clinton just as shifty as Dick Cheney

And I could go on

 

its not just politics.

who grows most of our food? who keeps our cars on the road? who are generally the most assertive in business?

we all know the answer to that.