Why do nice guys always get fucked over?

She sounds like a bitch! You want me to kick her ass for you hun?

 

I'm similar.

I know that I don't know what I want. But I want to know what I want and I don't want to know that I don't know what I want.

See. I sound like Rumsfeld!

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lol

 

She means the fat ones.

We like to watch.

 

No, I did not mean 'fat ones'. Are you trying to suggest that thin girls are incapable of being nice? As a thin girl I take exception to that.

 

if youre the nice guy: then youre delusional... only allowing yourself to believe this..

 

I think he meant the fat bitches, which were numerous in my high school. They had big boobs because they were fat, so they acted like they were awesome.

 

Whenever people complain about this, I always have mental images of the nerdy, shy kid wondering why the prom queen won't suck his dick...

I doubt he is pissed off at the "nice" but chubby girl with acne.

Maybe that isn't the situation at all though.

 

If you're a nice guy, do what you can to deprogram yourself.

 

Women seem to prefer a challenge, trying to change the guy with the badass reputation.... No challenge going for the nice quiet nerdy guy....

 

I have also found this to be true..

 

I'm not necessarily telling you to become the exact polar opposite of nice guy. Which is a complete self-centered dick-head with a disregard for humanity.

Those guys most of the time find a girl who's too stupid to know what's best for her, get married at a young age, wind up divorced very quickly or in jail after their wife or girlfriend puts a restraining order on them.

 

wrong. people in general dont know what they want

nice guys are good to a point. i like em for respecting women, compliments them, takes them out on dates and doesnt want just pussy from them..


when i start not to like nice guys---they start getting clingy, needy, whiney, acting too nice, always with you..

there needs to be a balance to hook a girl in. even the cool ones. a balance of being a nice asshole. where they can get mad at you, but forgive you instantly.

 

Speaking as a third party observer, its all bullshit

1. Chubby girls do end up getting laid more than their skinny counterparts. For the most part they have extra hormones running around, which besides making it harder to control weight makes them hornier

2. The nerd, nice guy in high school more often than not does buckle down, go to college and up with a better paying job that ten years later means he can afford a bunch of hookers, gym membership, guilt presents for the missus,a seperate apartment for his girlfriend

3. Most get more experimental as they get older. Very very strange things start to happen once ya'all get to or past the seven year itch

4. In the twilight years, once all the men start to die off, its one big lesbian fest, you dont see it coming cos who wants to think of granny getting up to that kind of stuff


Its just one big act for the kids, if every couple of months you dad likes to watch as mum gets nailed by three of his mates, you would have noooooooo idea

Its part of what we mean when we say "Wait till you work out what we really hide from"

Time and boredom is your true enemy

 

Contrary to popular belief. Women sometimes like a guy to tell her what to do. Most nice guys are often too wimpy to do that and are afraid to make a woman mad. When you play things too cautiously, you come off as a spineless little sap.

I learned that the hard way. I'm a recovered nice guy. And in some cases I'm still recovering. My parents, my mother especially, indoctrinated me to be a nice guy. Nice guys are not only walked over and disregarded by women they're interested in, but by society as a whole. Most of the time, your kindness isn't even acknowledged. As the old saying goes, "squeaky wheel gets the grease."

If you have a problem with someone, don't be afraid to bring it to their attention. Rather than being flexible over everything all the time.

 

Women thinking with feelings is a constant problem.

 

Men who are afraid of feelings are a problem.

In general, both men and women like people who have a balance of traits. People don't like a goody-goody or someone who is just an asshole all the time. I like people that have both nice and not-so-nice.... in other words, a genuine human.

 

The day women stop getting advice from other women a lot will change. Chivalry is dead and I don't see it coming back. I wish it would, but I just don't see it happening.

 

^ I'm sure they get advice from men too who have other motives than her well being most the time too, But yah other women and magazines.

It reminds me of a Bill Hicks line although he was talking about something slightly different still kind of the same quality in humans ... "I don't understand the choices we make as a collective we always hurt those who try to help us and let the demons run amok. Think about it Jesus murdered, martin Luther king jr. murdered, jfk murdered, john lennon murdered, gahndi murdered, regan... Wounded"

 

I agree. it seriously works. balance is key. too bad most people dont have/cant learn balance