You are exactly right. They are homologous. The Skene's Gland (G spot) surrounds the urethra just like the prostate and produces hormones like the prostate and is even thought to be the source of female ejaculation which, of course, is the same function as the prostate!
In a follow-up...I am a male who finds anal sex just not right; exit only area please. There really isn't anything up there for females like there is for males like other people have said. Yet so many guys are soo set that anal is amazing and according to them, the female LOVES it as well. USUALLY it comes from someone 17,18,19 (which is the age of the original poster) who through porn thinks anal is awesome or extremely pleasurable because the woman on the porn seems to enjoy it. Yes, there are SOME women out there who might enjoy anal, but get it set in your head not all women like it. And the difference in women who have TRIED it and women who ENJOY it is actually quite different. Stop pressuring an exit-only area and focus on her clit, which is much more pleasurable for her anyway.
Learn to love licking pussy. It's god's gift to men, especially those of us who love doing it. You'll stand a MUCH better chance of getting her to try anal if she's horny as hell, than trying to argue your way in. I'm with heiadn27. Porn is far from reality, especially with respect to every girl. For every woman who loves anal, I'd be willing to bet there are at least 10,000 who won't even try it. There is no better or worse, just different. To each their own! Let her be as she want's to be. I personally am not wild about anal, but I don't think any less of you because you'ld like to be. Your girl deserves the same respect, and the right to retain control of her own body. She's far more than a receptacle for your dick. Hell, if you're THAT adamant about wanting to try it, when you turn 21, come here to Vegas and take a drive to the outlying areas where nearly everything goes. For now, chill on the porn, and love your girl.
I remember this one time when my girlfriends friends parents were going out of town and we went over to her house to get drunk. The night was going really weird... I don't know if we had been fighting earlier in the day or what... something was off. She was always trying to get me to behave and I could never understand, though now I kind of do. Anyway we got wasted and finally went to a bedroom and started fooling around. We started having sex and she told me to stop but I sort of kept on going... and she didn't fight or anything. Now I didn't force my way onto her or anything... like I said we were already having sex, and we had been together for about a year, but I'm told this is rape. I just can't believe it... how did this happen. Anyway, you don't want to be in my shoes. Just talk it out with her is my advice. Go for walks. Go out on picnics. Walks at the beach. Take her out to a movie. If you successfully do all of these things and still want to then ask her again, but I bet you'll change your mind. You'd be surprised at the power of love.
Why do girls think anal is bad? Lets see: Regular sex, both get pleasure Oral sex, both get pleasure Anal sex, can be pain for woman and pleasure for man. And women who enjoy anal I still don't understand...though I love being with you. Women can relate to oral and regular sex because they are also getting pleasure. Anal is only pain for women (when done by dumb asses). IMO Anal sex is a complete submission of a woman to a man, where only the man receives pleasure. Men should acknowledge this with the utmost respect and admiration. She has just endured pain for your glorious sexual gratification. I only wish there was a way to please a woman the way a man is pleased by anal sex!
Yeah not everyone is into anal, and if they are not into it don't pressure them! Some people just believe that nothin goes up the poop shoot! I personally have never tried anal, so i can't diss it, but I just am one of those people, who believe nothin goes up the poop shoot, at least for me. I don't like anal at all, if I see it in a porn it grooses me out, even to the point where I have loosen my erection due to seeing anal in porn. Anal sex is a preference some people just don't like!
dude you have got to be one of the most undeserving slimeball I've ever heard off when it comes to life that is maybe I should just kill you because it would please me sure you wouldn't like it but perhaps I should just take whats rightfully mine. no? well what if I asked you a thousand times seriously to think your entitled to anything is just FUCKING BULLSHIT I not that I don't enjoy anal its that you are a pig I'm not a killer I was just trying to illustrate my point
you're lucky the girl lets you near her. i'd have said good bye long ago. its her body, her choice. i'd be shovin a dildo up your ass to see how you like it, and id do it without warning! just BAM right up there. you have a big problem buddy and i hope one day you get it fixed.
...WOW.......die. Seriously dude that's not funny, I'm sure most men have rape fantasies but like many things in the back of our minds, we keep it in the back of our minds. I've had sex with several girls and hinted to each one about anal, I've obviously never asked straight out but I didn't need to because my hints were basically backhanded to hell. Most girls don't like the concept of anal and in all logic anal sex doesn't make much sense. Like me, you probably just want to try it to see what all the fuss is about. But don't push it man.