I want to cum in a woman's mouth so we can cum-kiss. Sharing is more fun and I don't kiss guys. I agree, I take it in the mouth. I want to taste it and once it in your mouth why spit it out, just swallow. Good point my wife always hated laying in the wet spot. So when we fucked we were on my side of the bed, I enjoyed laying in the aftermath of our love making.
Same here average. The wife and I just started doing this and it's pretty hot. She'll take my load if I'm on my back then share it with me. If I'm standing up and she's on her knees she'll just swallow it unless I want to shoot on her tits.
I think there's a gray area. Like underwear said, a guy is happy to cum anywhere. You could be cumming on a meteorite or cumming in a girl's mouth. The gray area is when you're actually having an orgasm. When you're orgasming on a meteorite, you're not calmly contemplating how you prefer cumming in a girl's mouth. Guys are just cum factories, and if they could they'd be orgasming 24/7, shooting cum everywhere and a girl would just be running around with her mouth open trying to collect it in her mouth.
. . . men like receiving oral whether it be by women OR men . . . simple as that ejaculating into our mouths is liked obviously because they are having an orgasm But it is an "unexpected" orgasm a vaginal orgasm is "expected" Why? because they are in control (unless she is on top) they in control of the rhythm. the thrust. the intensity. they can also slow it down or slow to a stop and edge or re-coup when you are in my mouth I am in control Yes You can grab my head You can thrust in my mouth You can intentionally gag me But I will pull you out IMMEDIATELY Men like to cum in my mouth because they ejaculate by surprise and with less control Handing their control of their orgasm to me heightens that burst of cum The unknown can be scary But In this case, the unknown will result in an "OH FUCK"!!!
unexpected? Surely when he starts breathing excitedly and moaning that would be a good warning to move your head if you didn't want it in your mouth. If the situation was reversed, I bet by god he'd better do it for you! By now I understand fem mentality. If that was Brad Pitt or some other Hollywood stud down there you women would let them choke you with it if they wanted too. I think it's just being stubborn.
I think this too. People who love it usually love it due to the power exhange element. That's what it is for me.
I think it got real popular because of porn. Which is very understandable. I can see how that is true for some, but far from all. Lots of men seem to love to give oral to a woman with the same feelings as if when they get a BJ and can cum in her mouth. They're not feeling submissive when there's some moisture around there neither I have the feeling with stuff like deepthroating it is more common there's a dominance thing included. But yeah, far from every guy is into that.
When my wife and I were first dating, after I had cum in her mouth she said "I love this, it makes me feel so slutty." Now, she was anything but. She had only been with around 3 guys before me, but she still loved that feeling, if only for a moment. I think part of what I love about it, and I think many men would agree, is we are really turned on by our women wanting to feel slutty for us. Make any sense?
We let the mood take us whether I cum in her mouth or elsewhere.It really is up to her. I don't think any less or more of her for taking my cum in her mouth. It's all good for both of us.
I don't agree that swallowing =submission or submissive feelings. Sure it can in particular people, but the mindset of submission must be there. The act isn't submissive, the intention could be. I've played men like marionettes, which hands me temporary control, and certainly isn't subby.
Its usually my wife's choice on where she prefers while giving me a HJ or BJ . She usually chooses the mouth.
I don't mind my husband finishing in my mouth, but I don't swallow. I've got a lot of rules. :blush5: Maybe someday, I'll get over them lol I don't think it has anything to do with him wanting to dominate in that way. I just think he likes my mouth around him.