Why Do Married Women “Cheat?"

Oh brother, potentially opening up a can of worms here.

There are a myriad of reasons, of course along the emotional and sexual train of life. Everybody’s ride on those rails is a bit different.

Here comes my personal thoughts and experiences from a typical alpha male “think with my dick” mindset:

I have fucked only a few married women in my life, and maybe I could have hooked up with a few more except for their desire to seek a relationship where we can be “friends in and out of the bedroom.” Friends in? Fine. Friends out? No thanks.

I seek out only happily married women. They want the fun of cheating sex for their own personal reasons. I had a nice time with one women in particular who told me bluntly in a phone conversation that she was only looking for somebody to fuck her a couple times a month. Where do I sign up? LOL. We had a nice time together but that one ended when a job promotion took them out of town.

I really wish there was an app or dating service that 100% dealt with cheating sex without the trolls, bots and hookers showing up. I have had a membership at Ashley Madison for a while and if I could decipher and read between the lines of what women post, maybe I could approach them a bit better. Although AM did result in an all too brief cuck situation. That was fun to fuck another guy’s wife while he watched.

Back to the original topic:

No good way to know this. What percentage of married women “cheat” just for the pure fun of recreational sex? And which ones are looking to latch onto somebody to get them out of a shitty situation? I 100% avoid the last at all costs.

Right now I’d like to find a wealthy (not to get her money, but so she doesn’t try to get mine) married woman who wants me to see me only when she has the urge to fuck.

I’m not asking for much at all, am I?

 

It's my thought they want something different because their sex life with their husband is rather vanilla. The few married women I fucked over the years wanted me to do things to them that their husband refused to do. One woman in particular insisted I eat and fuck her ass; she was a wild one.

 

Most married women who were cheating on their husband. Did it because their husband had cheated on them.

 

Revenge cheating does not turn out well for anybody most of the time. Discretion gets thrown right out the window when she throws it in his face that she has a fuck buddy, too.

 

Probably for the same reasons men do .

 

I agree and its sometimes on a night out fueled by alcohol that lowers the inhibitions . The somebody interesting and new factor then creeps in. But I always say it takes 2 to tango .

 

Disagree with this. A lot do but not most. A lot of the time it can be just a random one off on a girls night out or trip away. Works parties another time.

 

Getting involved with a married women intent on “revenge cheating” is a bad idea all the way around.

The “one off” women having fun with girls night out or better yet an out of town trip seems the safest.

I have never had a one-night stand with a married woman always multiple play times.

 

While there is nothing wrong with input from the guys, it would be nice to have input from the women

In my experience, their weapon or cheat on their husbands don’t have much at home when it comes to sex. The ones I met said they had nothing happening at home and I was happy to help them

 

When it comes to the alcohol fueled nights out they're not any smarter than we are . And I say that with all respect .

 

Yes there are numerous reasons. Could just say it's the Nature of the Beast. Men and women.

 

My wife had sex with a number of men in college while I was away at another university. She showed me that sex could just be something fun to do with a man instead of the more meaningful sex she had with me. After we had been married a few years, I asked her if she missed the variety, and she said it might be fun to try again. So I gave her permission to do whatever she wanted as long as she told me about it. She had a few one-nighters just for fun and then decided to stop. She still has permission, but she hasn't done it in many years.

 

A well-balanced approach.

 

Gotta love how it’s nothing but men who have posted in this thread.

Flippin’ hilarious!!

 

Probably because there are precious few ladies on Hip lately. Not like several years ago. Damn shame too.

 

And even less real ones

 

Also the something shiny new syndrome

 

And I don't think they can wear it out !

 

My wife cheats because she’s horny and I’m not always home. We split up about 10 years ago for about 8 months or so. She couldn’t afford all the bills by herself so she had a fuck buddy move in. After we got back together, she said that she rather enjoyed having sex with another man and told me she wanted to keep doing it.

 

My wife used to cheat years ago, with another woman.It really wasnt cheating since I encouraged it. I had no problem with her enjoying the beauty of a woman. I had hoped I would be able to get in the mix somehow and like any dreamer, the thoughts of being smothered in pussy led me down a path. That phase only lasted for several months before our friend moved. I only got to enjoy pussy once, but they enjoyed my ass, several times.