Why do I want to watch my wife fuck another guy?

After 20 years of marriage and two young kids our sex-life had pretty much been demoted to "functional" at best. We had a chat, realised there was a problem and I put the swinging-thing on the table. It had always (as far as I can remember anyway) been a big fantasy of mine and we'd talked and joked about it a few times over the years. We joined a swinger's site booked a place at the next weekend event and waited.
Almost from the day we made the reservation things started to hot-up between us. Although she wasn't about to readily admit it, the idea of this whole thing excited her as well as me.
The weekend arrived, kids to grandparents and off we went to a very secluded small hotel in the mountains. The conversation in the car on the 2 hour journey started off with both of us both avoiding the main topic, but after a few miles developed into expectations, fears, reservations and our "wish lists". It actually surprised me how similar our lists were. After the ice-breaker drinks and the meal where everybody got to know the others there, everyone went to their rooms, showered and changed and went back to the "function room". Where the furniture had all been changed, dim lights and music. My wife is from Central europe, so has the high cheekbones, tall (5'11" without heels), long legs, blonde hair and DD's that belong to a woman 20 years her age (44). The first night we got chatting with a professional couple (lawyers) and hit it off. We all went back to our room and had a foursome where the girls did a lot of exploring each other. Although the guys did fool around with each other's women a lot, there was no partner swapping that night (It was how the girls felt comfortable), but the plan was for a same-room swap the second night.
The second night came and he had become seriously ill (we found out later that he came there incubating food-poisoning!) So, our plans were basically wrecked.....until, a guy came up to my wife and asked her to dance.
We'd spoken to him previously, he was there alone after splitting up with from a 4 year relationship and was a nice guy.
My wife asked me if I was ok and I said that I was more than cool with it, her brief for the weekend was to "lose control, go with whatever comes to her.....with no repercussions", they danced a bit, then a bit more and she came back and asked if I was still ok with it and if it was ok for them to develop things a bit, I repeated the brief to her.
They did, pretty soon there was lots of groping going on, kissing and her short tight dress soon became a short tight top. We later retired to our room (all three of us) and spent the next few hours doing "whatever came to mind".
I've never seen my wife looking so sexy OR been so proud of her. All three of us had mind-blowing sex, a LOT of laughs(at times) and left the hotel the following morning satisfied in every sense of the word.
That was 4 months ago now and while we aren't "hardened swingers" we both agree that a return is a must, for now though.......we can't keep our hands off each other (twice a day minimum!)
Watching my wife with another guy was a long held (and VERY common) fantasy of mine and it turns out HERS as well, it certainly did the trick for us both. After 20 years I have no insecurities or jealousy issues (it's a HUGE test to watch what you've tried to avoid/prevent for years). I'd thoroughly recommend it, just get your head straight first!

 

Mixture of the taboo, the sheer visual effect, but the main one is "sperm competition" look it up. When you've seen one guy banging her.......the instinct kicks in and you'll "compete" like never before!

 

For me....after 20 years she became the mother of my kids, I got to see her covered in baby-puke, exhausted after sleepless nights (as she saw mee too!) and a whole lot of other non-sexual things. Seeing a guy pawing, mauling and pounding her, turned her into a sexual objective and object again. As I said, for a while before and a long time after, we couldn't keep our hands off each other. The best thing we ever did was agree to fuck other people.... together!

 

U horny fucker! I would love to fuck ur wife! I'm getting harder thinking abt it! Tell me more

 

About?

 

My wife and I really enjoy doing this. We have done it with 2 different guys 2 times each. I love to watch her be pleasured. My wife is very sexy with huge tits. The 2 people we have been with have been my best friend and then a guy we were friends with in high school. She has never been alone with anyone. Besides recently she made out with the guy we are going to be next. This has never been about me fucking another woman, it's all about how she moves and moans. One problem though is both guys have not been a good size. Or even close to the size I am. The next guy is bigger than the last 2, but not me.
I took some convincing at first to get my wife to go for it, but she loves cock and I knew so it was a win win for me. I get horny even think about it. I was at work the other day when she was making out with him and I could barely stand to stay there and not rush home to get the details of it.

The we did it the first time was I was fucking the hell out of her and my best friend was staying with us at time and I asked her if she would fuck him and she agreed. She sucked my cock as he was fucking and he blew his load in her wet pussy. And then I took my turn at it. It was the hottest sex we had had to that point. The second time was just a couple weeks later and she took it so good that night I think we both blew in her like 5 times each. That was the best time ever. The second guy didn't even please in anyway but I still got a lot of action both times we were with him.

This time we are trying to set up a regular fuck buddy for her. She only wants to make out with him if I'm not there, no fucking that is her rule and he is ok with that. I can't wait!!

 

MFM works best for us.....building up to a MMFM!!!

 

I (the wife) also use this profile:
My advice to you is don't question it......just go with it.
Doesn't matter WHY as long as you both get your agreement to it try it. My husband initially came up with the idea and while my initial response was "No way", deep down it's always been a fantasy of mine too. I think having a REGULAR "extra other" is dangerous from the feelings side of things, and while it was difficult to see my husband even TOUCH another woman to begin with, the rewards were worth it.
When you've been the sole recipient of two (VERY Capable) guys, both intent on giving you as many orgasms as they can, in some sort of twisted male competition, you'll be glad you did it.
Think of and use the other person as nothing more than a living sex-toy and just lose yourself!

 

My wife and I came soooooo close to doing that about 30 years ago. We were already in a regular MFM threesome with a close friend. Another (equally close) friend came to spend a week with us at Christmas. I already knew that he had the hots for my wife, but had been living out of state when our threesome (with the other friend) started. (BTW, both our male friends were close friends as well.) The day we drove him back to to the airport for his flight back to the east coast, after we got home ourselves, my wife told me that she'd been so horny the night before that she'd almost gone into the guest bedroom and climbed in with him! I told her that I wished I'd known that, as I'd have called up our other friend (the one who was already fucking her) to come over so that all three of us guys could "entertain" her. She regretted it no happening.

 

I can genuinely say that the bit of swinging we did made for great lovemaking after, when it was just the two of us, but more importantly, it made us realise just how much we loved each other. We always looked upon that period in our lives as "giving one another the gift of pleasure".

 

I posted in this thread back in September but I wanted to weigh in again, lol. In my opinion, there are few things better than sex with another man's wife. The forbidden aspect of it turns me on so much. As I am hitting that pussy, I think about how I am driving her crazy while for whatever reason, her husband isn't. It makes me feel like a real man knowing I have stepped in and satisfied her needs which had gone unsatisfied for so long. Someday, I might be willing to try fucking the wife in front of the husband while he whacks off. If all parties are agreeable to it, of course.

 

I love seeing my wife sucking and fucking another man. She gets all turned on as 2 big cocks focus their attention on her. She has had some very intense orgasms with both of us working her pussy.

 

My wife who is cute and petite and from a South-American country enjoyed that I was in charge and just submitted to my wishes and choices with being anything like the classic "subs" we know. My wife was independent, strong-willed, self-confident but at the same time sensuous, loving, fully surrendering to the erotic, lustful and kinky ideas we had planned for her. She would give it a try, find out what was in store for her and then settle into this new lifestyle and give herself to her husband and his friends.

We took it very slowly. Paul my friend on a business visit could not get a hotel room because of big trade fair in the area so we offer him to stay with us. At that stage he could have slept in my office, the lounge or in our marital bed. I decided that he would stay wiht us and told Maria so. In the evening she went to bed and we followed about an hour later. Paul and I undressed and slide totally nude under the covers on either side of Mara who as asleep and dressed with a T-shrt and knickers. We boht snuggled up to her beautiful tender body and entangled our arms and feets around her and then we laid back and waited.

About 30 minutes late my wife must have wokren up (the room was pitch dark) I noticed some head movement and heard some noises which to me sounded like the contact of mouths and lips when giving little kisses. Paul was obvioulsy kissing my wife and now I could sort of make out that both of them were now french kissing. As I said we took it very slowly. During that night we only took of my wife's T-shirt and her knickers and then we gave her a 4 hands masage and explored her pussy with our fingers and tenderly rubbed her clit and her G-spot to several orgasms while we explored all her orifices and the softness of her lower belly. A few ours later my wife drifted off to sleep and her lower belly and the beautiful softness of her inner legs was covered in her own love juices and squirting aciton of her fleshy pussy.

Then we all drifted off to sleep. When I woke up int he morning my wife and Paul were gone but as it turned out they had just gotten up as well and both were naked, Dinking a morning coffee. Pau was sitting on a chair and my wife on his lap, enjoying her coffy and purring from the soft and expert caresses of Paul's hands and fingers.

We continued this lustful sensual play whenever Paul visited us in our home town for several months and over several visits.

It was only on New Year's Eve 1990 when my wife pleaded with us to finally satisfy her aching and pulsating pussy who was wating now for so long and as Paul entered her for the first time with his great cock with an enourmous girth she immediately went into one long orgasm. When she came out of it she had been pounded and inseminated by Paul, Alfred my friend from school and myself.

From then on Maria always asked when Paul would come for his next visit. That meant for me that Maria wanted enjoy Paul's company in our bed. I was also now looking forward to his visits as my biggest turn on was to enter my wife after he had ejaculated. There is no better feeling for me than this silky coating of my darling's pussy that brings to an enormous climax in no time at all.

As to why I wanted to watch my wife with another guy there are probably many answers. but the trigger for me was my first girlfriend. She was model level beautiful but still not as beautiful as my wife and I was madly helplelssly in love and I (we) were 4 weeks into our "relationship" that I discovered that she was two-timing me with the son of a rich local entrepreneur and that she during those 4 weeks she had also had one night stand with professor from our University and I had found pointers that she also might be preparing to work for an international escort agency. Something inside me collapsed but on the outside I remained calm. However, I strangely noticed that I had this aching feeling in my groins, I felt so excited and at the slightest touch I was sporting a raging hard-on that just didn't go down.

I really and truly love my wife. I did this unconditionally right from the moment I got to know her. She has the most wonderful personality and everyone who meets her just adores her. She says that she has found something that she would have never imagined. In Paul I have found the perfect long-term partner for us. For us he was a close friend. For other couples a bit more distance would work better, perhaps.Also for it will be never about statistics, numbers, maximum performance, It will always being about lust, sensuality and reaching the highest level of awareness and love for all that is possible.

 

oh i can't imagine the number of "let me!" replies that would be in here....... i guess i won't add to it

 

I'd love to have said few guys fuck my wife as I watch. then be forced to eat it all out of her and swallow.

 

I'm new to this forum. I'm a 30 year old male. This question is for males and females. I have had mff and mmf. To be honest I never touched a guy sexually. But I enjoy mmf better. Any guy feel the same? What do you ladies think

 

love it. wife wants to see me anal dp. I told her I wanna see her with two guys so I can suck there cum out of her and then suck the guys cock clean before they leave.

 

Yes I like to see her satisfied and me watch.

 

I Love the way you think!

 

Have you before? How did it cumm about?