Why do I want to watch my wife fuck another guy?

Holy Zombie thread! This one just keeps coming back. It is super hot watching your sexy partner being sexy with other people. As long as she is enjoying it and the person she is doing it with it is all good. It doesn't take away anything from what I have with her.

 

It's just so very erotic to be naked and sexual with others. That's why people keep adding to this thread.

 

This thread is probably the most basic of them all. This is the one interest which keeps sites like this alive. The fact is that there are many, many men who enjoy sharing their wives' pussies with other men, but there are so few places to admit it, especially in the larger "culture".

Most men, out there in the "normal" world, would consider us to be "Shameful Bastards" because of what we do. But I also believe that secretly, they are very envious of us an wish they could experience the same things that we have.

I truly believe that most husbands WOULD enjoy watching other men fuck their wives, but are very reluctant to admit it, even to themselves, because they are not prepared to accept the criticism that would be inflicted on them!

 

Wife and I are looking for someone now to Fuck her. Preferably someone with a thick dick. Never done it before, but the idea of it turns me on like crazy.

 

Most men don't have huge, thick, long, porn star cocks. I know it prevents me from answering CL ads for another man when a huge cock is requested. It makes me feel very inadequate. There are many men with average sized cocks who would be perfect for a threesome, but get turned off by the size requirement. drop the size requirement and find a very horny, passionate guy...then sit back and watch.

My first threesomes were with a very sexual GF of mine and a long time friend who has a HUGE cock. She loved his cock immensely. Lucky her. My more recent threesomes, in the last 12 years, have been with my woman and another friend of mine. He has an average dick. It is still so very erotic to watch them hug, kiss, pleasure each other orally, and of course fuck...in any position. My woman says she doesn't enjoy other people so it doesn't happen very often. In fact it hasn't happened since my birthday almost three years ago. Hmm.

 

I agree the big cock idea is a turn on for most guys when watching their partner with another guy.

We don't do it much but first time my partner and I done something like this, it was a guy she worked with. She ran it by him and agreed he'd come over for a blowjob while I watched. His cock was a thick 8-9 inches much bigger than mine. As has been said on here, it was very hot to watch her lips running up and down his cock. Soon she was straddling his cock on the sofa. Hottest part tho was even looking the wettest I'd ever seen her, with the condom she was struggling to ease his cock in. So she decided to roll the condom off and slowly worked his cock inside, the noises from them both as they finally started to have sex was pretty intense. She must have bounced for a good 5 mins before witnessing him cum inside her. Def one of the sexiest moments I've witnessed ever.

Were not really into doing it much but to agree with some of the above. Watching ur partner with a big cock really is a turn on.

 

I think men naturally like to see their wives, or in fact anyone, sexually satisfied, whether or not they are doing the satisfying. Wouldn't the world be a better place if men just lost their egos? Lol. Then women would lose their egos as well because they wouldn't be afraid of being called sluts, and then act as slutty as they want. That would be great.

 

I have watched my wife have sex with one man but in two meetings. Well it is a fantastic experience. It made our own sex life and percent better. It's about eight years ago since we did this but we still fantasise about it now. Fantastic experience to watch a big cock sliding into your wife's pussy. I have photos and regularly look at them and wank myself off

 

You have photos of the other guy fucking your wife? Man, I'm jealous! My wife and I were in a threesome for about six months, back in '85. I got to watch them fuck all the time, but she'd have killed me if I'd tried to take (or even suggested) photos of the two of them bumpin' uglies. I've actually got around 250 photos of my wife nude, but she's just in them by herself. That's were she draws the line.

 

Email me on. alltheway300@hotmail.com And I can send you some

 

Does there need to be a reason why you like to watch your wife with other men? If you think it's sexy, and everything is consensual, then the reason doesn't matter. I think it's mega hot when my husband has sex with other women, but I dont sit around wondering why I think it's hot. Stop over thinking it, and just enjoy!

 

More people should really listen to you!

 

I totally agree with you!

 

Wish I had photos, or better yet a video of some of our sexual escapades, when we were younger. But would never want to take the chance of them falling into the wrong hands.

 

Done.

 

This really has been a hot topic! I'd rather my husband want to see me fucked by another guy than have him sneaking off for affairs, which is what women worry about a lot, I think. My first lover was well endowed and I learned to come with him pretty well, without self-stimulation. I haven't had such luck with men since, including my husband. We've been together for 16 years and although I can get it going with him eventually, it takes a lot of work on my part, and that made me almost dread sex. Unfortunately for him, our sex life waned.

But, we got talking about it rather than let it eat at us. I'm nearly 50 and I've thankfully had a turn-around; I want to improve our sex life, have fun, really get our groove on. He revealed to me that he would love to watch me fucked by another man, and I revealed to him that I would love to experience a big cock, a BBC all the better. I fantasize that I'd be able to be orgasmic in all kinds of positions that I currently am not. Maybe that's unrealistic? I can be very orgasmic, but I'm a one-hit wonder, always the same way.

I'm just anxious about details, how to find the right guy, how to arrange the meeting - meet first over drinks and see how it shakes out? I'm not the most adventurous and experienced woman in the world so I'm afraid I'll disappoint. I'm also afraid my hubby will change his mind how he feels about it once it happens. He's always been the most loyal, loving man, and I think he is pretty secure about this, and the last thing I would ever want to do is break his heart, so him being there would be critical, at least at first. If how you guys say you feel about it is what he's thinking, too, then I think I get it!

As for him with other women, I want him to experience what I haven't been willing or able to give him, but I do have insecurities that he'd like her better, that she'd want to pull an Angelina and steal him away....so, I don't think I could handle him going off to meet up with women for a fuck. If it was part of a swinger situation with me there, I think it would probably be ok.

Have any wives here ever regretted having tried this?

 

Of course people have had regrets...male and female. That's why this is not mainstream. Insecurity is there for us all. I have found that by being extremely horny it works out well. It is awkward to be naked with other people. That wears off quickly once the sex begins. You need to reassure your husband that you are not going to run off with the hot BBC just like he needs to reassure you that he isn't going to run off with the other woman. Yes, do it together. Don't hide anything. Make sure you don't pregnant (many older women have gotten pregnant long after they thought they couldn't). Have fun! It is fun...and oh so erotic! You aren't going to disappoint anyone. A horny and eager naked woman is never a disappointment.

Do you want to fuck a stranger, or a frend? (I prefer a friend. I like people that I know.) Others don't. They want to do this in a vacuum; like it never happened. To each their own. It can be a problem if the other added person trys to pursue you, or him, when it is not approptiate. You will certainly learn a lot about yourself. Your husband may learn things about himself also. He may really enjoy having another man join you two. You may really enjoy the other woman. Women are so soft; very nice.

What do you want DieselGirl? Can you define which sex acts you are wanting to try with these two men? Discuss it with your husband. Ask him what he wants to watch you do.

Good Luck!

 

Reassurance and love is the only way for your girl to want to do this. Of course you will have last minute nerves but my advice is go for it. Once she gains the confidence you will have the most sexual confident wife/girlfriend you could wish for.

To experience my ex wife (we split for unrelated reasons)confidently taking charge of her own sex life was amazing. Even periods where she remained exclusive to a better equipped particular lover was amazing. Watching or even helping her prepare for a date night was wonderful she just ozzed sex appeal.

 

I have plenty of pics and vids of my wife being "bad" too. I will send you an email.

 

We started right before we got married. Instead of having a bachelor and bachelorette party we both chose to sleep with someone else. We texted pics back and forth while we were doing it. It was super hot. Now she likes to be a "bad" girl once or twice a month. Usually the same guy. They send me pics and vids. Some of my favorite are with her lips wrapped around him. With the vids they are hot because sometimes she blows kisses and winks at me while she's getting pounded!