Why do I want to watch my wife fuck another guy?

I've only recently started swinging and it's a huge turn on for my husband - he says he likes to watch me really enjoying myself and doesn't see why that can't be with another guy. He's quite voyeuristic and (like most men) likes visuals so I suppose it's the turn on of another man being aroused by me and knowing that he can watch and I'm still safe and enjoying it.

The only rule we have is that it has to be safe and we all have to agree how far things will go. It's actually cemented our trust in each other as well.

 

Good for you! It's not weird for me. In cases where a husband gets deployed, or the partners have to be separated for a long time for some other reason, I think it's more likely than not that one, or even both of the partners will end up having sex with other people. If you can be open-minded enough however, it doesn't have to be a bad thing, and all the headaches can be prevented with an open relationship arrangement (and being completely honest about it, not keeping any secrets). All it takes is being secure enough with yourself in order to not become jealous that the other person is enjoying him/herself. I just love the thought of my woman having the freedom to explore her sexuality - provided that I either get to be present myself, or have her tell me about all the details, of course.

 

I don't think it's weird at all! I think we are all closet voyeurs anyway, wanting to see your partner with another would be a great & erotic way to satisfy any voyeuristic as well as exhibitionist urges. My husband & I have indulged in a bit of swinging with another couple over the years and he has always said that he found the sight of me with the other man a great turn on, almost more of a turn on than seeing me with the other woman! I should add that I too get very aroused by the knowledge that he is watching me in an intimate clinch with someone else.

 

I had to move outside my comfort zone to experience a few things with my GF who is much younger and more experienced sexually. To date I was not disappointed despite having anxiety prior to the moments we agreed upon trying together. Having other couples watch us fuck in their hotel rooms was exciting. Her with a orally submissive man she dominated. He brought her gifts and cash just to do whatever she told him to while we had sex. Some guy paid to clean up the spunk I filled her **** with. Another guy purchased her urine. The usual MFM scenario was over rated. Her strapping on a dildo in a role play situation was excellent. Her power and size turned me on big time.
She is a tall voluptuous crumbesque woman with lovely long well toned legs, thighs ,broad shoulders , strong hands ,and a back and ass made in heaven. A bondage scenario was also tried with me being secured teased and pegged, my face was crushed under her ass forcing analingus which gets her soaked.
She had planned the same with another woman strapping on with her but she got mad a me and cancelled it.
She introduced me to a friend who made movie clips in a house he set up with various rooms for sets. He had a doctors exam room in which I played a dumbass patient and she was the HEAD nurse who convinced me a prostate exam was conducted with a strap on dildo with my feet in stirrups followed by an explosive tease blow job. The clip was sold online internationally. We made clips in a bondage living room where she was chained to a steel coffee table and I cut her fishnet slut outfit off with a hunting knife while wearing a leather mask the covered my head. I had invaded her home and rode her ass fucking it against her will until she broke loose and turned the table on me. lots of fun.
We don't swing.
We are not "bi".
I am very masculine and rugged. An alpha and very straight.
She enjoys playing the slut and is a cock hungry fellatrix extraordinary.
She won't allow me to be with another woman.
I really don't care if I ever am.
We made our own films and uploaded them online.
Watching her get fucked by multiple men who watch me fuck her first and then hold her legs back and open etc. is planned for this weekend and filming it is planned. I dont know how I will react but I suspect I will survive and end up all night with her.
We also fucked each other with a sawzall reciprocating saw with dildo attachment. I think once was enough for me.
All and all we love each other beyond words unless the words are "Daddy fuck me with your long thick cock!". She is insatiable and I could use some help at times but not very often.

 

Because that is what you are into. Some people just like to watch those kinds of things.

It is perfectly okay for a couple to do that as long if everyone is in agreement to do so.

 

what the f**k?

 

My wife and I have often discussed this subject and cannot see anything wrong with consenting adults wishing to explore. Neither of us have any insecurities and are not the jealous type. We both love the thought of sharing each other and I would love to watch my wife enjoying herself with another guy. We are both very much in love with each other and just see it as a way we could give each other the ultimate experience, but would not allow it to affect anything between us. If either of us felt uncomfortable about anything, then we are open enough to discuss it and decide from there.
I have actively encouraged her to do so on a few occasions whilst staying away with work etc. To date, she has only sucked another guys cock, but openly admits that she would love to explore more and suck and get fucked by other men, and I would love her too do so as well. I love to hear how other people look at her and compliment her. She is beautiful after all.

 

If you are both in love & secure in your relationship then I would not hesitate to suggest you give it a go if it's something you BOTH want to try. After all, it worked very well for us, we probably ended up even closer after.

 

Thanks naturegirl. That's exactly how we feel and why not. Am enjoying some of these threads which is only reassuring us further still.

 

I love to watch my wife fuck another dude. I have had the opportunity of seeing her getting fucked four times and she has fucked other guys at least 3 more times without me being there but fully aware that they´re doing it.

I love my wife and until the first threesome I was the only man she had ever had and although I appreciate that, I felt it unfair that I´ve had lots of pussy before her and when we fucked she asked me what it was to have fucked other girls. She seemed to enjoy my sexual adventures and kind of regretted she hand´t had any before me. So I asked her if she would like to fuck other guys and at first she said no, even got angry at me for thinking she might want that (they all do) but eventually, she began getting used to the idea until it happened the first time, which I have posted in another thread.

Still, in the last 10 years we´ve only had those 4 threesomes (might not even be threesomes because I mainly just watched them) and her 3 night out.

We have gone to Temptation Spa and Resort and Desire Resort and have had a great time there, but I still wish we´ve had more threesomes and full couple swaps, which almost happened at Desire.

 

My first wife told me her story after we were married for a couple of years and I still think of it. Not sure how it came up but I guess I might have asked if she ever been with more than one guy in one day. Turns out she was the center of a gang bang. She said she was past out drunk but I wonder about that.. maybe she just told me that thinking I would think less of her I don't know. I did get out of her that it was a min of 8 guys. I am thinking more but we can say 8.
It turned me on so much. I wished it was on tape. I would love to watch it over and over. I asked for every detail she could remember and put it all together in my head.
The reason I think she wasn't past out is she (after asked) wants to have "about 5 guys jack off on her". Just the thought of watching this makes me horny as fuk. This lead us to have a great sex life for years to come.
I always was scared that I would take it (our sex lives) too far and she would say enough is enough and put a stop to our shared sex lives. Now that I look back I wished I had done more with her. But as I get older I am sure I will forget about what we did and what she did before me. Age suks!

 

Why do I want to watch my wife fuck another guy?

Because, for me at least, it is a complete turn on. I love watching her fuck other guys and I know she loves it too and even if it does´t happen as often as I would like when it does it´s unlike anything you can imagine.

 

i have done this with my hubby a good few times we love it. He definatly gets off on it, I would say just be honest with each other, let your wife take the lead and understand if she says no its no,

 

I thinks it's because you want her to be sexually satisfied and men think a10
Inch cock will do that it can't hurt

 

I first watched my wife, before we were married, just 16 years old, we got into a position that left her naked with three older guys and me....loved it then and have since...

 

I love watching my wife, but especially love the sloppy seconds!

 

I love watching my wife. I love giving her pleasure and especially love to hear her moan from the pleasure. She is beautiful! And I love watching her perform oral or whatever. It's just something I just love giving to her.

 

Secretly my wife had been having a number of affairs. I found out that she had been fucking other guys around a year ago. I have since encouraged her to fuck more men and so far she has been fucked by six other guys on numerous occasions. Sometimes I join in but mostly she loves me to video these guys screwing her so that we can play it back later. I would never have thought that this would bring us closer together and improve our sex life - but it has!

 

Dowse I exactly right, that sharing your wife with other men will bring the two of you closer! Any marriage that is based mostly on the idea that you are the only one who fucks her is bound to have problems.

The times that my wife and I have been with another man, and I was right there to see exactly how he enjoyed her naked body, it has made my desire for her even greater, and every time, without exception, we have had extended fuck sessions of the type and intensity that we would never have experienced otherwise.

Many other guys, including her first husband, have said to me "Your wife is the best Pussy I've ever had!" What husband wouldn't like to hear that?"

 

It's just extremely erotic to watch my woman with another man. It gets better when I am involved also. It's just so erotic to have her on her knees with him screwing her from behind while she gives me head! ...the sensation of her boobs bumping against my thieghs with his rthym. Whew! You should try it!!!