Why do guys tend to ask “What’s the biggest dick you have had?”

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by drumminmama, Nov 3, 2018.

  1. Angela36

    Angela36 Members

    I'm usually more interested in girth than length. And my lips are a good measure of girth. Its either great or average.
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  2. Poplo.

    Poplo. Members

    Great answer! Ok great or average! :)
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  3. MikeE

    MikeE Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

    Vaginas are wonderful, weird and mysterious things.
    Sometimes they're wet and slippery, sometimes not. How does that work? (Oh..push that little button to make them wet, good to know.)

    They feel so tight and so good, even after babies have come out (not immediately after). How do they do that?
    I've heard that they feel good when something is inside them, unless its too small and not noticed (like a tampon) or unless its too big and it hurts. What are the limits on that?

    Men like vaginas are fascinated by them and have absolutely no clue as to how they work unless women tell us.

    That question is more about the vagina, how it works and what its limits are, than it is about how big my penis is.
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  4. NubbinsUp

    NubbinsUp Members

    Porn does not reflect averages, but the average number of lifetime partners for both men and women according to well-conducted surveys in the US and UK is about 12. Yes, penis size follows a bell-shaped distribution concentrated around an average. However, the distribution is such that it takes only 13 men chosen at random to find one who is well outside the normal range on the small side, and one who is unusually large. Men who have above-average-size penises also tend to have more sexual partners in their histories than men of the same age who have smaller-than-average penises. So, if you've been with say 20 guys, you've seen some considerable variation, and some of them have probably been large.

    As to your basic question about why guys ask about this in the first place, it means that they trust you and aren't afraid to ask. That's a good thing. As to why he is curious about it, it's something in the most primitive parts of our brains: competition for mates. Our ancestors began walking fully upright about 2 million years ago. They lost most of their body hair about 1.2 million years ago. They lived in a warm African climate, and nobody ever thought to put on a stitch of clothing until about a million years later, somewhere around 175,000 years ago. There also weren't that many people around. The goods were on full display for a million years of selecting sexual partners, and when a woman saw a man she didn't know at a distance, she could see that he was a man and had to make the decision of whether to approach him or whether to let him approach her. There is absolutely no doubt that the appearance of sexual organs, particularly male ones, played a role in sexual selection. He's curious about it, and most guys are, because of the simple fact that it's a vestige of eons of competition for mates and sexual selection, in the most primitive part of his brain.

    There's that and cuckolding fantasies are extremely common among men. An Australian psychologist did an interesting survey of men in the US and UK several years ago, and found that cuckolding fantasies are as common among men as submissive fantasies are among women, but less talked-about. That's cuckolding, not curiosity about the size of her previous partners, you say? Well, an interesting finding of the survey was that about 75 percent of men's cuckolding fantasies also featured penis-size comparison, and the men with whom their wives or girlfriends are having sex with having penises bigger than those of the would-be cuckolds. It all goes back to competition for mates, and men's steadfast belief that bigger is better. Some guys simply get off on knowing that they're your biggest yet, and other guys will get off on knowing that you've had bigger than they are.
  5. iamjustme

    iamjustme Supporter HipForums Supporter

    Because guys are fascinated with cocks....more than women are.
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  6. Poplo.

    Poplo. Members

    Sounds like you have awesome lips!...........:)
  7. Just for fun

    Just for fun Live your best life

    And some guys are so contented within themselves that they don't really care about any of that stuff. The just live life to the fullest and have a good time doing it.
  8. Romper

    Romper Members

    I think many women are programmed to tell a man, without his asking, that his is the biggest she has ever had.This heads off the question about what's the largest she has had and makes him more comfortable in the relationship. I have had maybe 10 or 15 women tell me this, and mine is just 7.25".

    I almost answered I have never asked a woman this question, but then I remembered the one time I did so. She had been a dancer and extras girl at high end strip clubs for about 5 years when she was younger. Beautiful then and still beautiful today, no one would ever guess her prior life. We had good times with her telling me stories about her very big past, so I was comfortable asking, and she was comfortable in answering.
  9. olderndirt

    olderndirt Members

    I didn't ask, but my wife told me. She was telling me about the guys she had sex with in college, while I was away at another college, and she mentioned that one had a really big cock. He was not the best lover, but she did like the feeling of the big one.
  10. jimandjan

    jimandjan Member

    I never asked any women that, but I had a few tell me. One lady said she had a guy that made John Holmes look like a boy scout. I wanted to put my pants on and leave, but I didn't. I saw my wife in action with the guy she said was the biggest, She said it was better because I was there with her.
  11. Just for fun

    Just for fun Live your best life

    they need an ego boost
  12. Biodome1980

    Biodome1980 Guest

    I asked my wife, but not because I want to measure up to them or that i'm insecure. I ask because I'm genuinely curious about it. I know i'm no where near the biggest she has had and i'm totally fine with it.
  13. starfield03

    starfield03 Members

    I've never asked and never had a girl offer that information.
  14. Slutty Sue

    Slutty Sue Members

    Because there insecure, self-centered morons on am ego trip.
  15. Nakedwalker

    Nakedwalker Members

    How do you define “biggest?” Length? Girth? Combination of the two? In my wife’s case, this is 3 different guys. Doesn’t bother me a bit. With all of her former lovers, I’m just proud that I “probably” make her Top Ten list.
    Last edited: Jun 25, 2020
  16. Nakedwalker

    Nakedwalker Members

    I like the way your husband thinks!!

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