Why do guys tend to ask “What’s the biggest dick you have had?”

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by drumminmama, Nov 3, 2018.

  1. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

    seriously, the majority of my partners have asked some version of this.

    What information is actually wanted?

    I tried to bat it away with “painful and short lived.”
    “That’s not what I was asking,” he replied. But let it lie.
    I will ask him what he wanted out of it, but I’m curious in a surveying manner...what do you get out of this question if you ask it?
     
  2. LowHangers

    LowHangers Member

    IMO: Those guys asking are probably self conscious about their own endowment or lack of.
     
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  3. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

    i'm a lesbian and when they find that out they still ask me this lol.
     
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  4. LowHangers

    LowHangers Member

    I've had a few guys ask me too over the years while giving them a blowjob.
     
  5. jimandjan

    jimandjan Member

    Most guys hear locker room talk. like not being able to please a woman, after having well endowed men. Most tend to exaggerate.
     
  6. BLB930

    BLB930 Member

    They are probably comparing themselves. Most men I've been with have all been about the same size though.
     
  7. Just for fun

    Just for fun Live your best life

    IMO you haven't been with too many guys. I am kind of a normal size and yet too big for some, they say it hurts and with some I bottom out. Don't get excited I'm not that big. But I have had two wives say they have had much larger. I have also been with a girl that I could have put my fist in her, she was so large. We are all different sizes. There is always vaginal tightening surgery or many toys. Whatever the problem it can be worked out.
     
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  8. BLB930

    BLB930 Member

    Oh please. Eyeroll!!
     
  9. Just for fun

    Just for fun Live your best life

    hey eye roll LOL look at some porn sites there are some monster dicks out there and some tinny winny ones also. I am not putting you down at all, just saying its like a box of chocolates.
     
  10. The effects of pornos at a young age. Guess we men assume that woman only like big dicks!
     
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  11. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

    Ok...porn at a young age for him.... the neighbor kids’ dad’s three magazine stash in the barn.
    Say, 1965?
     
  12. Dr-McPeggin

    Dr-McPeggin Member

    I was always curious as to what I was up against with her last guy. Was I going to be smaller when she saw me and not be as fulfilling. Would I be a let down if I was smaller etc... I used to ask the question with everyone I dated before I met my now wife. I never asked her as I knew she was the one and it didn’t matter anymore.
     
  13. Just for fun

    Just for fun Live your best life

    I think it's insecurity on the guy's part, he wants to know how he measures up and hopes he is judged as a big one. Don't ask, as long as there is not a problem in the relationship on the sex issue, don't sweat it. If she brings it up and says you are kinda small you can always tell her she is on the bic side.
     
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  14. Katravenclaw

    Katravenclaw BottemsUp

    I hate that! They all ask.

    I started telling them "12 inches and I had the urge to cough when it was in my ass..." Seems to stop the conversation.
     
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  15. LowHangers

    LowHangers Member

    Yeah, several of the big dicked guys I've sucked off over the years have asked "You ever suck a cock this big?"...I always reply "no" so not to disappoint them even though I have. I do enjoy the 10-12 inchers but prefer the 8-9 inchers.
     
  16. KerrBear

    KerrBear Member

    Guys are strange. I think they're really asking "how do I compare" but there is also some weird pathology going on. Maybe they like the idea of the woman craving sex and they project, imagining what they think women want? Maybe there's an element of satisfaction from seeing a woman overwhelmed by a big cock. I dunno. I wonder the same thing when guys are super specific about the size. What's the girth or length in inches? Who knows that???
     
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  17. Gene London

    Gene London Member

    Interesting, never asked and until I saw this thread never even thought about it.
     
  18. My husband didn't have to ask me when we were dating. I told him droning a "full disclosure" discussion when we were swapping stories about our past sex lives. He rather enjoyed hearing about it, and used it for masturbation material when he was alone.
     
  19. Just for fun

    Just for fun Live your best life

    Been with my wife 21 years and sex is great. One story she repeats often is about a sweaty session she had in her grandma's bathroom with a black guy named Eric why she said had a huge dick. So yesterday I ordered a huge dildo 2 inches in diameter 12 inches long that I will name Eric. Then when she says his name I will bring him to the party. Should be a good laugh.
     
  20. My husband did the same thing for me. The biggest dick I ever had belonged to a black man. For Christmas one year he gave me a very large black dildo just so he could watch me make it disappear.
     
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