Why do guys like short and harsh sex?

Discussion in 'Sexual Health' started by cupy, Oct 16, 2013.

  1. My kind of guy xx
     
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  2. Sorry Constantine , but I wouldn't SHARE my ice cream with anyone !! It's all for me !!! lol.
     
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  3. Redwingsfan

    Redwingsfan I’m just having a fun crazy time

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    I’m the kinda guy that loves to take my time. It’s not a race. Have to keep in tune with her body and moans that’s when you go faster but not to fast:):):)
     
  4. Constantine666

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    No? You wouldn't let your Wife/GF/SO suck you off with a mouthful of Ice Cream?
     
  5. Constantine666

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    Damn! I can't edit the response. You wouldn't want to try sucking off your BF/SO with a moutful of Ice Cream?
     
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  6. Haha ,you'll get the hang of it.
    Honey, maple syrup , chocolate sauce ,peanut butter and anything else slippy ,of course I would. But give me a tub of ice cream and you won't see me 'til it's gone !!!
    Nicky x [raspberry ripple my fav]
     
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  7. Constantine666

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    I've always considered myself a quick learner.
    Honey, Syrup, Etc. are all things I used to like to paint my Ex's body with and clean her off.
    Raspberry what? Raspberry Nipple? Sounds yummy ;)
     
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  8. Saul50

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    Not all guys. I preffer one hour, sometimes one hour and half or two hours, almost a marathon, of quiet sex. Side position is the most comfortable for that
     
  9. The Shark

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    Not sure where the quick and harsh thing comes from. I like to take my time and enjoy it, especially since we don’t get to have sex as frequently as we used to.
    Honestly I’m the one who’s telling my wife all the time to slow down. Sometimes when she sucks my cock she’s like a jackhammer going so fast. That doesn’t do it for me.
     
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  10. Bocci

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    I’ll take a stab at an interpretation on the question as well as providing a possible answer.

    With all due respect ladies, (why do people say that when what follows always sounds quite the opposite?) sometimes we just want to drain our balls in you. In those moments, we not only don’t care if you cum, we may even prefer that you don’t. The whole point is just to take you and use your **** hard and fast and pump it full of sperm. That’s it. All else would be, at best, a distraction.
     
  11. Jamie28London

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    Its not just us guys that love a quickie which is rough. My girlfriend loves rough sex, I dont think think i can be rough enough with her sometimes. Sometimes when we have sex I will be pounding her as hard as I can, with my hand tightly around her throat and she would still be screaming out for more.
     
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  12. Jenna1995

    Jenna1995 Promiscuous and Daring!

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    I can say that when dealing with multiple partners, like a gangbang, that I prefer hard fast pounding. No, the guys don’t last long (for the first round or two) but I think they seem to get a a really strong orgasm when they are just going all out with no holding back!

    When it’s fast paced like that, I find that I might not get an orgasm on every guy, but I build up to an intense orgasm over two or more guys and often then get into a trance-like state that may last through several guys. Also, if the guys are cycling through fast, they don’t have as much down time to get bored
     
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  13. SandBook

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    Did OP mean guys tend to stay flush up against the woman's body and hump against her really vigorously? If so, the unfortunate truth is that feels really good for a lot of people with penises having vaginal sex. And they don't realize people with vaginas don't feel much from that compared to the other person making full strokes in and out.

    I was guilty of humping a woman flush against her crotch until I stumbled upon the fact that full strokes in and out are what a person with a vagina reacts to. Some times, these lessons just take time. Other times, you have to tell the other person what does and doesn't feel good and why. And the "why" part is actually really important, because that's what makes dudes really take what you're saying to heart and makes it click.
     
  14. topper

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    any chance possible. They don't know what they're missing if they don't lick it clean for their lady
     
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    I wouldn't say "harsh", More like Lustfull. Short was gone decades ago. I discovered that the more wild you are willing to go in bed with your partner, the better. Women I knew loved being Thouroughly Fucked .
     
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  16. biboroguy12

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    Men too. I fuck back
     
  17. gentlesenior

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    Not me, I like it slow and gentle
     
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