Why do guys like short and harsh sex?

What constitutes harsh' sex?so if its harsh must be fast and hard? not slow?Why some guys like short and harsh sex?

 

anyone

 

Because it feels good

 

could be taking their cues from porn

 

do you mean sex without foreplay or short time penetrating? because if the former, I would say it's porn, and if the latter, I would say that it's because girls can cum multiple times during sex and guys (usually) can only cum once. Unless you use condoms I would say lasting really long takes a bit of focus

 

Men are task oriented. If the task is to orgasm, they tend to a direct quick effective approach.

 

Boys think the task is to orgasm, men realize orgasm is a two party event and the task is to cum togeather.

 

I don't know anyone who likes that.

 

It's not just men. I enjoy a little fast and furious from time to time...

 

Not all guys are the same. Not all girls are the same.

 

Not reeeeally sure what OP means.. I don't enjoy slow sex very much. Slow is for foreplay. Which is great, good foreplay enhances the sex. But when it's go time, it's go time. I like to put in a proper pounding with intermittent slow sex or, uh, alternate activity to catch my breath. Of course, you mix it up, but generally, once I'm.. in.. there is a pretty high pace. Which, by the way, doesn't mean it's over fast. Well, not always at least.

 

i only do that when we dont have time . if you do quick sex . and have free time all day . then you got a weird problem .

 

some guys like pretty much everything.

 

Hence the "if" in my post. If the task is simultaneous orgasm, men will (attempt to) use direct, effective methods to reach that goal.

The point isn't what the task is, the point is men see things in terms of them being a task rather than a process. "Sex is orgasms" rather than "sex is two people touching, caressing, licking and fondling until orgasms."

If "sex is orgasms" (a task), the approach is to do the touching, et al efficiently. to minimize the intermediate steps needed to get that goal. Both partners orgasming in 2 minutes is seen as better than the partners orgasming in 40 minutes.

If "sex is touching etc" (a process), the focus is on the two people caressing each other. 40 minutes of touching (that results in orgasms) is seen to be twenty times better than 2 minutes of touching (that results in orgasms).

Different approaches. Men are more likely to see sex as a task than they are to see it as a process.

 

And kinky men lick it clean afterward

 

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I have no answer for that, because I don't. I am a very tactile person and I like physical contact, especially physical contact that is very intimate, to last as long as possible. I love long sessions of foreplay as well as after-play. I've been told that it's just weird, but I don't' care. I like it.

 

I can't imagine trying to hurry it up. And what Constantine 666 said.

 

Start out with a foot rub--move on to the rest of her lovely body--take your time--no hurry----eventually get to the "goodies " and that lady will be very READY. You always see on various tv shows people just slamming together like there's no tomorrow, I can't see it being as effective as "take it slow and easy."

 

Years ago, my Ex and I used to enjoy playing with food. She would enjoy having me eat off of her body, and I enjoyed having her suck my cock with a mouthful of pudding or even ice cream. It was a mess, but it was lots of fun.