Why do guys like anal so much

I think of anal as skill that not all girls can do. Just like not all guys can dunk the ball like Kobe Bryant.

 

Lots of reason OP...

It may be you have a really nice shaped booty. Aside from that some guys (myself included) are booty guys, meaning we are just fascinated with a woman's behind. Now as what I like to think is a common misconception, yes some guys just want to penetrate a woman's ass due to domination reasons, whereas others want to do it out of shear beauty if that makes any sense.

I've lived a long time and really can't explain it, but can assure you for me I don't have any desire to dominate my wife or subdue her by entering her ass with my dick, but at the same time I am fascinated by it and don't just care to penetrate it but rather make love to it. I don't want to hurt her by any means or make her feel lower or anything like that

So... Yes we seem to be entering an age or possibly a "fad" where anal play is the next rubix cube to solve, so in that you may be a victim of the age and Fad. Bottom line if you don't want to play down that route, then don't. I'm not a woman and as a man don't have my rectum penetrated so I really couldn't tell you how good it may feel although there are plenty of woman on this forum who may tell you it does feel good, and then again some others that say it hurts like hell, I personally think it depends upon a great deal of things which is too much to go into here.

Good luck with whatever you decide to do and I'm guessing I'm a generation behind you in which anal play was pretty much taboo and things appear to be different now, or so I hear... Good luck

 

im a 31 year old straight married male and i have loved and lusted for anal since i was 13.
i have a variety of toys and my wife is a demon with a strap on.
why do i like it? i have no idea it just feels so good to have a vibe or a thick dildo stretching and fucking me.
i also love rimming my wife and giving her anal which im very lucky to be able to do (i love that ass)
i think anal just relaxes me, were i can lay chest down ass in the air while my misses licks kisses and eventually penetrates. the sensation is second to none i highly advise guys to try it. slowly to start with plenty of lube

 

To correct you Maam: Lots of REAL MEN enjoy the fresh scent of a WOMAN's shit and the perfume of her anus sweat and anal leakages.

 

Not anymore than the fresh sent of period blood that comes out the vagina!

If you use an enema chances of an accident are slim to none.

But yes the smell of my wife's butt is quite arousing same with the smell of her pussy.

What's not to like about a hole so tight it can make ur dick sore.

Sometimes wifey can tell when I'm a little tender while she's riding me, and she gives me NO remorse, she's squeezes her ass even tighter on my dick and really starts riding the shit out of it as she tells me I better take that ass. Because she knows if the tables are turned and I'm pushing her ass to the limits that's when I'm gonna go gorilla ape shit, hold her down, and pound her ass.

There is a thin line between pleasure and pain.

 

I like it because it is so tight, and the position I can be in while doing her that way. Plus I like to be able to go slow, and gentle yet still be able to get off. Its also about dominance I think. I like to dominate. Even though outside the bedroom if you get to know me im the last person you would ever expect to be a dominator. But my girl likes to be dominated. And I like to dominate her.
I really dont do anal sex that often with her. Its one of those things you dont do every single day. Its that much more exciting when you do happen to get to do it though.

 

Most of the time guys want in your backdoor because it's tighter than your vag. Not only is it tight to begin with, but most women associate anal with pain, so they clench at the thought of it as well as it already being tight. And most men love tight holes hah

 

Ever notice that guys like to sniff chicks underwear in movies? Ever wonder why?

It's because men are attracted to the pheromones or scent that a woman emits.

And anatomically speaking most of the scent glands in woman are not around her vagina but are primarily located around her anus.

This is why so many guys; myself included, like to sniff their girls ass. I LOVE the way my wife's butt smells. Most guys don't want to admit it because they don't want to seem perverted or dirty, but we LOVE the way women's butt smell!

It's also another reason I think I like to eat her ass. I just want to rub my face in between her big warm cheeks; get that smell all over my face, and use my tongue to go in and around her anus to lick all the remaining scent off.

What woman doesn't like a man that worships her and gives her french kisses in her ass.

And don’t get it twisted! Your man doesn’t want to smell what comes OUT of your anus! He wants to smell your natural scent! So take hygiene into question, but remember, when you sweat, your natural smell back there will drive the man who’s into you absolutely crazy!

Ladies, spread your ass cheeks apart and let your man bury his nose and tongue in your crack and anus (if he wants to). He’s giving you the best compliment in the world.

 

You took the words out of my mouth, exactly the way I feel too, very we'll said.

 

Here I thought guys want anal because it's more likely a girl will let them cum in that hole. you know, like a form of pregnancy prevention that still allows for SOME kind of sex.

And as far as I go, alone, I can relax enough that it feels extremely good to put something in my ass with no pain. With a guy, I clench so hard his finger won't even go in unless there is a tone of rimming, often with pain. Even then, alone, I can take a decent sizes dildo, but with a guy, a tiny plug is pushing my limits, and bordering on unpleasant.

One day I will manage to be less retentive, but for now, my ass is mine alone.

 

That's one of the possible reasons, but it's not as straightforward and pragmatic as that. The allure of anal sex has many other dimensions.

The guy needs to take it slow, and make it come naturally for you. My girlfriend had the same trouble, until I tried it after a very thorough lovemaking session where she had already came many times. She was completely relaxed and didn't even notice when my finger went up her ass. Then after a while, after licking her into another orgasm while continuing to finger her ass (which made her cum almost instantly), I inserted my cock. Because it did not feel so unpleasant at all for her, she managed to drop the fear from her mind, and in just a few more tries we were having full on anal sex, and continue doing it to this day on a regular basis.

 

FitGuy87, I have had the methods you talk about tried, but I'm still to tense. This tells me it's not him, but something in my head that holds me back. However, if I want something bad enough, I know I can get past my own hang ups and have it, so I will keep working on myself till I can get where i need to be.

It also helps that I have good luck with finding guys who don't force the issue and respect my pace. Knowing my pleasure is just as or more important than his helps to put me in a safe mental place, and that's important to.

 

Yes, it's definitely a psychological thing, and possible to overcome if you want to. It helps that you have found guys who are patient enough. Good luck!

 

My bf says he likes it because my asshole is very tight, cause it's "forbiden" and gives him a stronger feeling of control over me.

 

Im not a big fan.

"Right organ in the right place"
Dalai Lama

 

I don't like back door. I initially liked to watch it in porn but even that I don't like anymore too. In human nature, there's no one-size-fits-all

 

I'm not a fan of anal, but maybe it's because they can vicariously experience the pleasure the woman is feeling as well!

 

Because women's asses are amazing and feel like heaven when were in them.