While we can't speak for all guys, I'm sure a picture of said backdoor would go a long way in helping us determine why all the guys have liked your backdoor specifically.
I don't get it either. Judging by the amount of anal porn out there, I'm one of those apparently rare guys that thinks the poop chute was made for that specific purpose only. The thought of putting my dick in there doesn't turn me on in the least. Me love pussy.
My guess is that the reasons are (in no particular order): 1. As ranger said, internet porn 2. HIV/AIDS education and the importance of not engaging in butt sex was drilled into young people too hard. Now it seems like forbidden fruit, which makes it more appealing to some people. 3. The butt is a tighter opening, and many find that appealing 4. Feminists have been doing their damnedest to emasculate men, and mostly succeeding. Getting girls to surrender to a sexual act that they are reluctant to give up may give some a greater sense of relative dominance. Butt sex is commonly considered "fifth base". 5. People very often want things because they perceive that other people want them, either out of a sense of conformity or competition.
well I've been told I have a cute butt...alot....but still just weird...i mean I poop outta that hole lol
Yes poop comes outta there but menstrual blood comes out of the vagina which is equally gross!! The reason guys want anal is because they like your butt and anal is tighter than vaginal. Try to stick ur fingers in your pussy and then try ur butt; it should be obvious why a guy would want to stick his dick in there. The reason you don't like anal is because so far you have had sex with guys that don't know how to do it or else you wouldn't be complaining you'd be endorsing it. I love to fuck my wife's ass because she has a big ol' tight booty that feels and looks oh so good when it's jiggling up and down on my dick. There's nothing like splitting open a nice plump ass with your dick words cannot explain.
It's pretty intense how tight it feels, and it's tight as far as you go in unlike a vagina which kind of opens up the deeper you go. Anal is alright, I'm down to do it but I don't have some kind of obsession with it. It's not really a dominance thing for me but if a girl is like 'hell no!' that is kind of a put off to be honest. One of my exes had never done it and she wanted to try it, so we did it and she didn't really enjoy it. Tried it again and she did. Then she'd be all the time like.. hey fuck my ass. And sometimes I'd just rather have regular sex.. actually more like 90% of the time. Oral and vaginal. Anyway I was getting her warmed up (to do anal right you have to put a finger in one knuckle at a time, slowly, letting her ass relax around your finger at each knuckle.. then pop the head in and let it chill there for a min before going further).. so I have my finger in there and I swear to god I poked a turd. That was um, disturbing. But I was so horny I was like yeah.. no anal tonight, fucked her vag then was like come on babe let's take a shower. Lol. I still think she had no idea that happened.
It's kind of sad when you read posts from guys like "my girl doesn't do anal, I don't like her anymore" or something as stooopid. I think there's this assumption too that every girl wants her arse torn apart by massive cocks and she'll enjoy it. I don't swing with dudes, but if I did, and that was expected, better believe the biggest dong I got is going up his butt first. And when he moans in pleasure, only then may I bend over. Maybe.
I wouldn't expect a lesbian to understand this because you already see us males in a negative light. And fyi, I was planning to marry a chick that wouldn't do anal. Did I constantly push her? No. I asked a couple times and got the idea she really didn't want to. I just like girls that are sexually open as I'm sure most other males do. Oh and that girl ended up fucking me over, so I'm sorry to burst your preconceptions.
Wow so I guess the moral of this story is, don't date girls who don't do anal. Because in the end you could be the one taking it in the ass.
And that's the thing. If your attitude is that anal sex is something dirty, then it's probably not your cup of tea and you won't be able to understand its appeal. It could reflect your own body image. However, many people don't see it that way. Put a shower clean, sexy female butt in front of me and I will be more than willing to lick it, finger it, and penetrate it, because I find it incredibly erotic. As someone already said, blood and other pretty disgusting discharges also come out of the vagina. But you don't have to let that fact spoil your pleasure.
As a guy, you should see how he feels about taking it in the ass. I can honestly say the best orgasm I've ever achieved was surpassed with anal. Done right it feels amazing. Yes you can do it incorrectly. If it does not feel good you are doing it wrong.
I don't think it's the case that all girls love anal, and if they say they don't that just means that they've done it wrong or haven't tried it. There's a few girls out there (assuming that they are girls) that post about how they love it, but the enthusiasm level for anal seems to be much higher with guys
That's probably because most of them want to fuck a dude in the ass, but it's more socially acceptable to fuck a chick in the ass.