Why children?

I don't think you have to worry about anyone "pressuring" you to reproduce.

 

You don't know anything about me, except what I want you to know, which is basically nothing.

 

Why do you think that? You don't think men can want to have kids too?

 

I didn't say all men. I'm thinking about past conversations with friends.

 

lol sorry I'm not adding anything productive, this post just made me laugh.:cheers2:

 

i have 4 kidz that i would never trade 4 the world

 

Thats what girls do. They are biologically brainwashed to have children.

 

Well you're both at fault: you comment was retarded, and caliente is basically just a bitch at least half of the time. So... yeah.

 

me too
but maybe i will be (re)productive
:sifone:



i see your point rudenoodle(?) that it's the politically correct thing to say. just like:
Q: would you rather have a boy or girl?
A: i'd love either, i just want a healthy baby
just give a REAL answer

BUT, maybe having a kid is just THAT good
i can imagine that it will be the most life changing moment..in my life
it's YOUR fucking kid man
your flesh and blood

maybe we don't feel the primal need to reproduce like other animals. we do like to fuck though, no? we've just figured out birth control methods. so maybe it's one in the same. you have sex for the same reason a dog humps your leg - b/c it feels good AND to reproduce. maybe you think you don't wanna have a kid, but if you ever did have one - it would be the best moment in your life. or at least one of the most life changing moments. i suppose it could turn out to be the worst if your kid is a murderer in 30 years...

*by "you" i often me anyone, maybe me - i'm not trying to convince you to have a kid

maybe i'm starting to want one
or my GF is

 

In what way?

I'm sticking to it. Both parts.

 

Lots of men want children. That's how it was retarded.

 

Oh, so I'm retarded if I have a different opinion from you. Gotcha. Sure, buddy.

 

Individually, of course there are some guys more keen on the baby thing than girls.

But collectively I think we can all definatley say girls overall are more keen on that than the guys are.

And saying things like "I love my kids more than anything in the world" doesnt really mean much, its what everyone has to say anyway, whether they really think that or not

 

Well thats a dick thing to say. I know that i wouldn't say something like that if i diddn't really mean it.

 

how nice that you want to give someone elses child extra love, wish we had done like we always said we would but we were blessed with 3 boys of our own

 

Each person experiences things in their own way. I don't think that just because childbirth happens all the time it makes it less exciting and life changing. I think what makes it special is the fact that the baby is like a part of you. A whole new individual who will be able to experience life just as you were able to experience life.

 

I dont think I will even intentionally try to have kids.
The way I see it, if it happens, it will probably be the best thing to ever happen to me.
If it does not happen, it will probably be the best thing to never happen to me.

I would feel slightly guilty if I forced nature to give me children, would feel extreemely guilty if I interfered with nature tryin to give me children.

Of course if a woman wanted to have my kids, I'd probably be down with it.

 

You might know, but how do others really know?

 

If that's how you want to spin it, fine. But keep in mind that opinion is not some holy designation which makes the idea beyond reproach, as if it existed in a realm where nothing is true and all thoughts are equal. A lot of men want children -- that's not a matter of opinion.

 

Well aren't you lucky that your parents didn't think like you.