Why cant attractive girls get dates?

hahhahahahahaha BURN. Nikki, it looks like youve been discovered. lol

 

okay so she knows shes nice looking, big deal, should she get chastised and insulted for knowing that she is good looking, shes prolly been told it her whole life, why should she believe any different?

Now I'm not saying that she isnt being a little arrogant posting this thread, but jumping down her throat because she knows shes not ugly is a little unfair.

And suggesting that pretty girls cant be smart or friendly as well is the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard. Life is not even, people arent measured out in proportionate vales from birth, some are lucky some arent.

Just because someone is pretty, doesnt mean their personallty stinks in every single case. Just cos someone is great at maths, doesnt mean they are shit at english, and unattractive people can have equally unattractive personallities.

Looking at the world that way is just some screwy way of justifying yourself and making yourself feel better for your shortcomings.
no one is perfect, but, does it matter?

Jealousy is a horrible thing

 

They said "hot," not "pretty." Hot would be someone who only has sex appeal and nothing else to offer. Someone who is pretty would be just that, only with more to offer. Or at least that's what I thought they meant.

 

sonofabitch? now thats difficult, last time I checked, I had ovaries.


Why should sex appeal be any different to prettyness, how does it compromise her personality?

She didn't choose to be that way, and unattractive people, or people with no sex appeal did not choose to be that way either.

 

you seem to love making assumptions that everyone here wants to bone her, I for one am a heterosexual female, and therefore do not want to bone her.

Do you have anger issues? I have noticed you have a tendency to overreact in an aggressive way? Perhaps you should seek help...

 

Listen lady , BLAH! proved that she is a vapid , lying , cheater by her own admission. She ain't all that - that's the point.

 

i wasnt referrin 2 u fartknocker

 

isnt it strange to assume that your attractive to everyone? beautys in the eye of the beholder

 

yeah okay, fair enough, maybe this person is a bitch,

but sugessting that every sexually apealling person is a bitch is the mother of all shitty generalizations.

its like saying all fat people are funny
or all german people are nazis

its just not true!

Funny how we hate her more than someone who is clearly being rude and nasty

"Fuck you ****"

I believe was the operative phrasing.

Are you telling me this is a nice person?

yeah good one man.

 

Can I shit on your chest for $2 ?

 

no you didnt, other people did, but since you believe the entire world revolves around you, you can go on believing that I was put on this earth just to shit you. jebus!

 

oh my god, you abuse this person for being a bitch

and then you call me a '****' or indeed a 'mutherfucking ****' and a 'cocksmoka'

and you think youre somehow better?

and then, you ask for nudepics

excuse me sir

but fuck you man!

 

sweetie,it is obvious that men are intimidated by your beauty.do you have an outgoing personality or are you humble? my advice to you would be to be aggressive and to take a different approach to meeting an OLDER man.........

 

im sorry for looking the way that i do. and im sorry for asking the question.. but its stemed from the fact that a good firend called me the other night to aske if i would sleep with him... it was someone trusted and i hadnt been so hurt in a long time....so did anyof u think that maybe this wasnt about gettign attention. maybe i just wanted some real input... i m not slutty... i nevrey knew that taking care of my body and taking pride in how i look is such a horrible thing... but its unfair for u to make judgment on me... yea maybe i have done some horrible things in my life but to take something off a survey that i answerd honestly isnt fair. you dont know y i did those things. or what kind of life i have had or what i have done with my life? do u even care...cuz no one has asked that. but thanks for destroying my sprit... congrats on making me feel the worst i have ever felt.

 

I am sorry I have way more serious problems than my male friend wanting to fuck me, so no that never crossed my mind nor does it gain my sympothy. Now I am certain you are self centered. Maybe you should do some volunteer work and realize there are people out there with real problems instead of high school drama that unfortunatley followed you into your twenties. I am a program director for children with disabilities so I see kids who have disfigurments, blindness,autism, mental retardation ect, so forgive me if I believe you are superficial and shallow.

 

and maybe i do do volunteer work..... i work with bigbrothers big sisters of canada and i work with young girls who have been raped. you kno nothing about me u know nothing about what i have been trough and y it is so upseting for me. maybe being wanted for sex only is hard on me maybe i spent half of my teenage life beign raped. so forgive me when i say u dont know fuck all about who i am

 

Well than I am sorry and we have something in common. I jumped on you a little too quickly because this seemed trivial to something horrible I went through recently but knowing you went through the same thing does make me feel very bad. I do not want to make you feel worse. Sometimes superficiality helps us escape what we are really dealing with and I should have been more open minded rather than jumping on you.

 

well no one botherd to ask...this post wasnt about having guys think im pretty... all i wanted to know is why i cant find a guy who will stay with me when i dotn sleep with him in the first 2 days...sex isnt easy for me and i dotn think its fair that eveyone thinks because i look like i do that im slutty... i have done shitty things in the past but i have worked really hard to become the person i am. but no one cares....and i know that im not ugly....i have things i like about myself and things i hate just like everyone else... but i dont think its wrong to take pride in how u look

 

I usualy meet the guys I date at school or work as opposed to bars. I have had the best dates with men in my major. You have a clear advantage because men will be intrigued by your looks but it only lasts so long so you need to find someone you have stuff in common with. Dress in a way that refelcts how you want people to percieve you.

 

oh and definitley go for older men (not too old though). they seem to have better values and are very respectfull and polite.