I KNOW what you mean. even if i do get dates, its with the top jocks wiggas.. and what not. im interested in just hippie/ natural/nature guys... i m not asking for some rich milioaire. yes.. some of them could be intimidated too.
This is probably going to sound bad, but I´m serious: You should probably start going after higher caliber guys. I mean, if all the guys you shoot for just want sex, then maybe the problem is with the type of guy you set your eye on. There must be some sweet, sensitive, take-home-to-meet-mom types around. Maybe you´re just not attracted to them.
Well, I can personally tell you that I would love to get to know you. You are very attractive, but also very nice to talk to online and stuff. I would definitely go on a date with you if given the chance. And regarding sex, how do you know most guys are only trying get in the sack with you? Are they so blatant in Canada as to come straight out with it? Maybe they just aren't good at talking to woman or something. If it gets too frustrating for you, I am always here in South Carolina if you want some real man American loving. That's dinner and a movie, and cuddling, and walks at night, and staying up late talking, hanging out, being friends, skip the sex unless you want it. But I will have to lick you belly button
i dont have much input to this, but you did mention bar scene, maybe the kind of guy you're looking for wont be found there? try finding guys other places, i do know that most guys at bars are just trying to get some, but its just a suggestion
If you want to meet nice guys in a bar, try to find the ones that are there for a reason other than picking up chics, they tend to be better people over all. If a guy is in a bar to play pool with his bro's and hang out with everybody and have a good time, he is much less likely to be as focused on sex than one of those fellas at the bar buyin drinks for women left and right.
Exactly ! Case in point is ur pic - altho her stomach looks good I dont wanna see any other dude's hands...etc. over a chic im interested in. A major plus is chic's that have been with other chics in a relationship - then suddenly they begin to understand what the fuck men have been complainin about for so long.... the attention whoreishness , the exes , the insecurity .... etc etc Of course we love u anyway but fuck man....
Make the guy wait a couple of months before sleeping with him. That way you weed out the ones that are just trying to get a quick piece of ass. If he's serious...he'll stick around, and have much more respect for you. The backfire may be that he doesn't get laid often and sticks around anyway, then treats you like dirt after he "gets you"----- Read the people man...read the people......
Dont worry about it you girls, you're cute and nice, you'll find someone. Canadian guys do seem kinda dull though :X. Maybe the guys your going after just need to know your interested in them. Trust me guys, especially young guys can be dense to even the most obvious advances.
here is a more serious reply, if your attracted to a guy, you approach him, theyr all right about fine girls intimidating too much, so if your fine, most likley that guy will wanna go out on a date with you.
dude that was harsh. Besides, not everyone in the world might find a supermodel hot, its and opinion.
What are you trying to say? Pick one Either I'm not hot or I'm arrogant and a stuck up bitch so......I'm waiting........ *taps foot*
I love going after hot girls. Their sooo easy to impress, not like intelectual chicks. They dont wanna hear any oh your so cute crap or anything like that, they just wanna guy to challenge them and not bore the shit outta 'em. The trick is not to worry about how she looks or if she going to reject you and just go for it.
Hot girls aren't anymore likely to be pretentious then any other girls. A lotta times when a girl is trying to ignore and shes just met you, shes trying to play hard to get, she wants you to go after her. in that case I say go for it anyway... theres a good chance you may just be annoying the hell outta her, but the important thing is, you try.
You have it going on missfontella, you can be as arrogent as you want. But you always seem really nice.
Lets clear some stuff up. Number one the pic of my tummy was a set up pic not a sex one me and the guy are just friends. and never claimed to be "hot" but i dont think im ugly i take good care of my body and self in general. I dont look for guys in bars. i dotn sleep around.and im smart i graduated with high marks and i am in my last year of univ. so for me it dosent make sense...just to clear everything up for everyone
Hey Nikki, Well, if your not what my other post said, come down to ohio and I'll give you exactly what you want. other then that, I'm not sure what to tell you hehe. Myself I never go with the "hot girls" their annoying. "ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME". I take cute or even lesser just for the simple fact that I am not to pretty to look at either, but they just seem to be on my level and know how things are better for some reason... theirs just something about "hot girls" that i can't stand.