Why are you gay poll

I there with the other 69.84% who was gay as a fetus.

 

cos I love the feeling of anticipation as i raise my arse in the air and back up to a stiff cock........

Simon

 

This thread is so gay.

 

Bi here (not gay), but I can honestly say I enjoy sex/making love to another guy as much as I enjoy having sex/making love to a woman... And yes, that includes my wife

 

I'm NOT gay, I'm bisexual. After my one and only same-sex relationship, I did temporarily question if I could actually be gay, but nope, I'm just a bisexual guy who's a total bottom with guys

 

I'm not gay, but I am bisexual. My wife has been known to make comments about thinking I'm "more gay than straight" though, because she knows I watch gay (usually bareback), bi MMF and transgender porn almost exclusively.
She also ribs me about being a bottom with guys.
As a bisexual married guy who hasn't had sex with another guy in a long time, I watch those genres of porn to meet my urges

 

I signed up for one of those free trial offers, then forgot to cancel my subscription in time...so here we are.

 

In general, I think it's really hard to say in my opinion. Homophobia is so engrained in every society, which then gets internalized in every person, mostly at the unconscious level. With all that hidden internalized homophobia, which probably starts in adolescence to work its anti-magic, who knows whether it's nature or nurture.

I've certainly had some predictors in my childhood that some literature explores: my dad was always at work, and when at home very weak and emotionally repressed, and completely dominated by a schizophrenic wife. And my mother viciously beat me throughout my childhood until I was 16 and strong enough to physically and emotionally end the submission. In there I also did the regular same sex sexual exploration as many young children do, with oral and anal play with my male best friend from across the street from 8-13. I'd say such a long-term relationship was more than sexual exploration, that I was living out a gay part of me that came out for whatever reason. But then I repressed it all until I was 30 and my first girlfriend of three years broke up with me for the third time. Shortly after the break up my gay desires and fantasies exploded into my conscious mind. I've been having sex with men, a lot of men, ever since.

But things progressed through my life gradually, always loosening the hold my internalized homophobia had over me, letting more and more of my gay side emerge. I did date women, as in going out for a first date, a few second dates, but they all rejected me. I did have one more girlfriend, again for three years, which ended just before Covid hit. At the end of that I had no desire to ever have sex, let alone romance, with another woman, and now fully identify as gay. Now at 62, I look back on my life and see it as a gradual uncovering what was always there, I believe since birth: my
homosexuality. I still find women attractive, but 95% gay is my truth, and I couldn't be happier or more proud. I just deeply, deeply regret my mind, unconscious versus conscious, fighting this truth for my whole life, wasting the beautiful opportunity to live a whole, fulfilling life as a gay boy and man, finding love with another man, getting married, and maybe even raising a family with him.

It's just been sex for now, all this time, but it's not too late for love to come, to finally find some fulfilment in a close, loving, and very sexual, relationship with someone. So wherever my homosexually came from, I'm just glad that I can finally accept it.

 

I am born bi and I enjoy it.

 

I never put any thought to it, but was likely born this way considering how easy it was for me the first time I gave a blowjob.Friend had his hard cock out for 2 seconds and I started blowing him without even thinking about it,

 

Same, from the first time

 

Not gay, but I had a very kinky girlfriend when I was twenty. I thank her.