Why are women so intimidating?

My experience exactly, tho I'm curt even if i'm not in a bad mood, too many experiences of men coming on too strong and not being able to shake them off, arg :$

 

Sigh, I guess its up to men, men have to be more understanding , caring, loving, giving, while the women just act like complete morons and then after marriage... muhahahaha.

 

Now watch it Jedi....

 

it's not so much that, as when you're not in the mood to deal with people you're just not in the mood to deal with people. I treat chicks that way too when I'm in that kind of a mood.

 

So its just "if I am ticked off, I treat everyone around me like hell" type of thing, i completely understand, I also understand its not your fault, its the fault of everyone in the universe who approaches you when you are 'not in the mood'.

 

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That's a great way to treat people who respond to your question honestly. A wonderful way to illicit more genuine responses

I never said I blamed others. I just said I shut down when I'm not in the mood to deal with people. No, it's not their fault, but if they continue to hassle me after I give one word answers or ask them to leave me alone, I tend to question their intelligence. Only afterwards.

but thanks for that delightful "oh, I understand you being a bitch and its everyone elses fault" comment, I reeeally enjoyed it


Oh, and Green, what's with the period for a response to what I said?

 

I was going to write something but didn't.

Whenever I write posts half the time I type like 4 sentances then delete them, sometimes making the post much shorter. I've already deleted like 4 words so far on this one.

I am so bored right now, there is nothing to do. By nothing to do I mean everything in existance is boring.

This time I deleted the entire post, but decided to post some spam anyway. I'm not going to tell you what I said because I can't remember what it was, and I'm sure that the reason for deleting it is still good now.

 

way back when I was dating..... LOL I liked to be the one to initiate any conversation, especially anything that possibly might lead to a romantic encounter. Women don't like being hit on insincerely, as Maggie so eloquently explained. We (or at least *I*) want to send the first signal. Problem is, most guys are too dense to realize those signals that a girl sends indicating she likes him and wants him to come over and talk. And the guys want to feel like they are making the first move, so a girl relies on these signals the guys just don't pick up on, because a girl that makes the first overt move is seen as "loose" or "slut" or "easy" or any one of a number of other negative adjectives. and somewhere in there, communication breaks down....

 

No offense, but most women have had one experience or another where some man wouldn't take No as an answer. You never know if someone is having a bad day - just found out their mother or dad has cancer last week or something, and the poor girl probably thought you were mocking her when you approached her in the manner you did.

 

Ohhhh nuts! Not another "I don't understand women" thread! Y'know, these are almost funny?

Women are not from another planet. We're not a mystery to be solved, and we're not a nut to try to crack. We're humans, just like men.

Okay, sort of "just like" men.

Yup, we have crabby PMS-ey days when you can't look at us without our biting your head off. It's awful, trust me. I used to never get PMS, and didn't understand why all the other girls around me were so stinking rotten on a regular period. (pun fully intended) Now I know. It's terrible. You wake up and your hair bothers you. You go to get dressed & nothing fits quite right, and your butt looks bigger than it did the day before and that bothers you. You head to breakfast & realize you're slightly nauseous so nothing sits quite right and THAT bothers you. So you head off into the big world outside your home, and these stinking men who have no clue that you're having a rotten day have the audacity to look at you and SMILE!!! Now what on earth is there to smile about when you're crabby? So you bite his head off for breathing. But then you feel guilty for having screamed at someone for no good reason. And THAT bothers you too! And it just keeps going.

Yeah, it's no picnic on either end. Why are the cute girls always the crabbiest? They're not. They're just the ones most likely to have a guy come up & say something at the wrong time, so they get the reputation for being crabby. Catch just about any girl at the wrong time & she's gonna bite your head off.

Unfortunately, I don't know of a single thing that men can do about this. I'm still working on that one so I don't "accidentally" eviscerate my poor husband the next time he kisses me & says "I'm off to work!" Logic tells me that the proper response is NOT "Oh, you WOULD now, wouldn't you?" But logic seems to have very little to do with it.

Wish I could help you, but I don't know what to do with myself, let alone tell someone else what to do with another girl... but you're not alone. I vote that all PMS-ey women volunteer to reinvent the Red Tent. And those too dumb to realize they need to go there can be sent there forcefully! We can all sit around complaining with each other until we're good & ready to go back into society, and nobody else will have to deal with our nastiness!
love,
mom

 

i've been fucked around with too many times not to react with extreme skepticism to a strange man trying to chat be up. usually he's only done so to publicly humiliate me in response to some hurt received at the hand of some woman i've never known & would never emulate. this happens most often when he is accompanied by a snickering buddy or two, as follows:

"hey, hi, how are you?"
"I'm fine thank you..."
"you're very beautiful, if i dance with you will you suck my dick?"

at this point someone very nearby is convulsing with hilarity while mr. smart-guy smirks at his genius. i'm sure you understand that after enough of these geniuses, women's radar goes up pretty quickly to the sort of nudge nudge wink wink exchange you had with your buddy & take steps to end it before it begins. however, she didn't remain an ice maiden & let you off the hook when you backed off a bit...

 

You are most welcome

 

Nah, this does not look plausible, I agree that some men could be looking to just get laid but this is just harassment and the guy will get into trouble, atleast where I am from anyway... besides , we are not little immature 13 year olds.

 

scenario #1- guy and girl make eye contact at a hangout say bar, cafe, etc. smiles and eye contact continue each time they see each other at same place. after a few times the guy gets enuff nerve to say hi and smiles when they bump into each other in the crowd.
reaction #1- chic goes off like you said something offensive
reaction #2- chic throws drink on you
reaction #3- chic seems interested and her bitchy friends haul her off and they go off on you and/or throw drinks
reaction #4- chic seems interested til her dumbass brother or cousin either threatens you or punches you like you took his g/f

scenario #2- guy goes to the same place for months alone, first time he gets a date, he shows up and suddenly all kinds of chics start looking, approaching etc. date gets the idea that guy is a manwhore= first and last date, date sometimes walks out the door. guy ends up back at same place next weekend alone as usual, all the girls that approached or made eye contact that ran off your date the weekend before, behave in same manner from scenario #1

my best friend's idea and my new plan- my best friend, who happens to be a chic, wants me to take her out and pretend we're together, she says the silly thing about chics is that a guy has to have a chic to get one. she says it works everytime.

ain't the dating game so wonderful????
and they wonder why i've been single for over 3 years,lmao

 

uh, yeah it's just harassment, that's the point. they weren't looking to get laid, they were looking to humiliate me. happened quite a lot, and not just with 13 year olds. that why some women develop a crusty exterior. that was the entire point of my post.

 

that doesn't make any sense, maybe you hang out around guys who have an incredibly inflated view of themselves as being male, probably sexist, if not immature. I was talking for the 80 percent of male population, if you consider 10% to be not macho feminine types, and the other 10% to be completely macho masculine types.
This will urge me to pose another question, why would females always hang out with guys who see them as worthless objects of sexual gratification... why the bad boy types?

 

i don't hang out with those guys. that's the point. those guys have a way of finding the vulnerable ones, and a girl has no way of knowing until later if you are in fact one of those guys. after a girl has been hurt by enough of these assholes targetting her, she's gonna get a crusty exterior. and i would bet that this girl, being outside your standard white cheerleader type has had enough of these assholes bugging her that she can read the signs of a potential set-up. however pure your motives, your signals were those of two guys conspiring. but she wasn't a bitch, just cautious until she knew why y'all were poking at each other to talk to her. i'm saying, the few assholes in this world really wreck it for the innocent ones, male and female alike.

 

Dude - women get approached by jerks ALL THE TIME.

Once, I was walking down the street with 3 girl friends of mine - while two men were walking up towards us. Both of them were eyeing us up and down, and one of them started making kissing noises towards us. None of us said anything as we passed them - and two us had that "wtf?" look on our faces. As they passed us they were still looking at us - and one of them said "Ah Fuck You" to us. I wheeled around and yelled "Go fuck yourself - You'd get more pussy!"

When unknown men approach women, there's only one thing women are prepared to hear. Surprise us with "Could I please borrow your ketchup?" and go away - and We'll be shocked. Trust me.

 

Well she might cover up her insacuritys with an intemadating exterory. But I get what your trying to say. I am a girl and well since i moved to a new area and had to go to a new high school when i was meeting people, I found the girls to be more intemadating and more rude. With the guys its was just joking around and laughter. Its like Im almost afriad to make friends with girls now becuase ones I have met are extermly superficail or just plain bitchy. Not all girls are this way I have meet guys like this as well.
Anyways, it really all depends on, the girl of this matters, personality. Maybe she is really insucer with her self and hides it with intemadation. She could be really cool but with what she has done she has repealed people, you and your friend. I mean I know really pretty/beautiful girls and they are really sweet, cool, compasionate, give anyone the time of day. So its mainly the girls personality . With the media infulence this may seem the way to be to some girls. But there are extremly beautiful girls who have the most amazing personalities. Anyways you'll frind someone girl cool like that eventually...