Why are women choosy ones while men are desperate ones?

Sounds like it is perhaps it is your expectancy that needs (self) reviewing

 

Big part of the problem.

 

In order to recognise the issue, one has to 'look in the mirror' - although sometimes there is truth in the saying "there are none so blind of those who will not see"

 

Because we are embodied which means we are constrained.
Sex (or reproduction rather) has a much higher cost for women than it does for men which makes them more selective.

 

Men do not understand the amount of power women hold over them. They don't want to admit it and see themselves as some alpha bullshit form, but little do they realise that women have utter power in most sexual situations.

Remember, you didn't go out one night and get lucky, her agenda was pre determined before you set foot out the door. Hence why I woman can pick and choose who to be intimate with, while a guy will just go for anything. But somehow he's thinks he's awesome because of it lol.

 

This isn't entirely on topic but I think conflating power with sex is a horrible mistake to make.

 

How submissive of you.

 

Please stop projecting your weird fetish onto me.

 

Yea that's it baby, let mamma hear your frustrations mm

 

in a nutshell, socio-economics.

women are not always the choosy ones in all socio-economic paradigms, cultures, or time periods. it sometimes fluctuate. but yes, modern western civilization is currently experiencing a gynocentric epoch.

that, compounded largely with the fact that reproduction is, by far, and always has been, a much greater biological strain on the female body than that of their males counterparts, leaving them weak and vulnerable for an extended length of time, makes it a much greater imperative for them to find a suitable and dependable mate for this process. female reproduction is biologically expensive, male reproduction is not.

 

Believe me, you don't want me to open up.
You can't handle all this autism.

 

You say that like you have a slight idea what I'm into, but I don't think you know of the magnitude of how fucked up my mind really is.

So if you're keen, shoot me a PM. Maybe we can explore a little more.

 

are we not aware of this? i thought it was kind of the basic premise of this thread.

 

I dunno. I'm not reading 3 pages.

 

Fucken A.

 

Whats the coorelation?

If I was born a woman, I could date or have sex any time I please.

Being a woman is a hell lot different than being a man.

 

Maybe there are more males than females in some regions

 

Write your opinion before it is moved to the certain grandeur thread.

 

I understand how a lot of people these days could come to parrot incel ideals like the OP. The internet, and particularly online dating, has significantly changed the way human beings find mates. For the first time in history, many more women have a lot more control in the "game" than men. In the age of Tinder, women get hundreds of solicitations, and therefore are almost forced to be picky as their dating pools have significantly increased. Men, on the other hand, have to try significantly harder in order to stand out in the online dating world.

This doesn't necessarily translate well into the real world and will definitely cause problems down the line. Still, no need to be a pussy ass incel.

 

Seems the main kind of person suffering from this change are the men who have some kind of issue with the increased control for a lot of women. I mean its not just the advantage that has shifted, they literally take issue with women having more control in this regard than before. As if it's dubious. A lot of these men suffer from entitlement issues