Why are women choosy ones while men are desperate ones?

I think that you have found the answer to all the guys who keep complaining that they can't find a girlfriend.

I can imagine what happens when they meet a girl for the first time.
You look nice.........Silence.........
I like your shoes........... More silence..........
I like your hair..........Even more silence..........
I like your bo, Whops, better not say that one, or she will run for the hills.

 

@Grandeur - That’s the best advice on this thread!

 

You have a somewhat strange attitude on life, but I have to admit that what you say is often true.
Do you think that you will ever get married, I think that even Jane would run for the hills....even after putting up with me for 45 years, I don't think that she could cope with you.
Hopefully I am wrong and you will find a like minded partner one day.

 

bOObs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

That's not my attitude, but I definitely believe that in order to comprehend your own culture, its helpful to examine the big picture. Most people marry someone they meet at work and, these days, you are either a workaholic or underemployed. Japanese women are increasingly complaining that its hard enough to get laid in a country of polite workaholics, without having to compete with online porn, VR, and transformer robots. If that's your life, well, that's your life. Most people who get divorced remarry within a few years, and marriage is obviously as much a working relationship for them as much as anything else. Either it does the job or you trade up if you can afford it. Money is the number one reason for divorce, and the workaholic populations of Japan, the US, and EU are imploding.

Let them eat cake if they insist on getting fat, because their politics suck. Honesty is only a lonely word when its in fine print at the bottom of a prenuptial agreement. Whether they make too much money or too little, its the main reason they both get divorced and married, other than to have children. The idea of marrying your childhood sweetheart doesn't mean much these days, with men putting off marriage until their 30s, again, for financial reasons.

Women in rural areas tend to look for a man with good genes, those in urban areas look for a fat wallet, and its really about that simple. In rural areas, its often easier to live off the land and raise children, but that's not an option in the city.

 

It is kind of sad that these kids today only know life with the internet making huge generalizations about mass of populations because they can't leave their f****** house and get off the computer and go out and meet a nice partner and saying that women have one up on men because they have a vagina is absolutely immature ridiculous

 

What's sad is that their culture has disenfranchised them, put them twenty trillion dollars in debt, and is rapidly destroying the entire fucking world, while turning to Oprah and Donald Duck for advice. They do not even know the first thing about how to share their words and organize anything more complicated than a video game match. They are lost in space, where no man has gone before, without a clue as to what the fuck to do, because they have no clue what it means to actually be part of a real community. Corporations require drones, not humanitarians who know how to actually share their words, play nice, and form unions.

My book attempts to give everyone the words and jokes to make it clear how you can leave that crap behind you if you want, or how to encourage people to self-destruct if that's what they want. Playing with your cellphone and watching 35 hours a week of TV is self-destructing. Call yourself fat, happy, and free all you want, but you are nothing more than another zoo animal on the endangered species list.

 

People feed off the persona one exhibits - If/when one looks in the metaphorical and physical mirror then self-reflection and muse may indicate a reasonable explanation

 

AI is the future, because there's no intelligent life around here.

 

Grandeur, there is also the fact that you are a self proclaimed alcoholic so can you really blame women for not being interested

 

I agree with you on that. Jane is from a remote part of Ireland and lived without electricity, gas, television and a telephone call required a 15 minute walk to the village. She had never heard of the internet when we first met. We have been in London for more than 45 years, but she is still very much the same person who I met all those years ago. She enjoys the creature comforts of London life, but has little in common with the city attitude.

 

Why do women have to be so damned pragmatic. I wish there were more girls who just didn't give a shit.

 

Its the same story around the planet, with the corporations driving small towns and family farms into extinction, and everybody moving to the port cities to find corporate jobs. Civilization has just progressively turned people into cogs in the machine for roughly the last two thousand years, but the next scientific revolution is about to begin and bring back more organic lifestyles and communities. However, sometimes the cure is worse than the disease, and we'll all just have to decide that for ourselves when we get there.

 

thinking of quotable quips reminded me of this one:

"a woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle"

 

i think in this case that equals being different.

i don't know about that, 99% of any luck i've had with women were times i gave up and settled.

 

You're so funny you could have any woman you desire, underwear.

 

well thank you!

unfortunately, that's also what women tell me, as long as they are in a position where they know i can't actually turn around and ask them out.

 

I...what?

 

God these women suck! Having their own thoughts and feelings, deciding who they want to interact with and all...

*Grandeur creeps on some unfortunate sod just minding her own business and living her daily life*
"But..but...but I was NICE to her! Where's my sex?!"
No woman owes you sex or a date. And newsflash...if a woman wants to be choosy...she can. Men can be choosy too. In fact, as human beings we all have the right to have our feelings and boundaries respected and can be choosy about which random stranger on the street or in our uni class we decide we want to interact with.

 

Alright, then I shouldn't bother trying to talk to any of them. I gave up long before.