You have a really good gfrasp on who you are for your age. I find that very impressive. Keep it up. Be who you want to be, not what others might wish you were. And thanks for the input.
OK, I can't resist. How do you know that some men see beyond...etc.. you are only 20, so what man did you go find to ask?
god, all the stereotypes in this thread make the sweet baby jesus cry. I really dislike how so many women say they dont want a 'man's man.' Of course, they define a 'man's man' as someone who beats women and drinks beer. WTF? How about a guy who isnt thinner than paris hilton, wears women's clothes and cries everytime a queer eye goes to commercial. Pehaps men are just scared of being called misogynstic if they stand up to women instead of cowering in the corner like 95% of american men? p.s. men really can't wear pink, sorry "fuchsia."
The whole pack can't be alpha, why would we try and make it that way? Oddly enough the stereotype that bugged me in this thread wasn't about gender it was about how labourers/construction workers were all pegged as low-paid, wife beating assholes.