Why are girls so fucked (extremely long)

Seriously man, when I was 16 and 17 I spent most of my summer drunk in the city surrounded but 14 - 19 year old drunk girls, some were a laugh to drink with, others caused drama and seriously should have been drinking. I can tell exactly what your girlfriends like because theres so many immature girls that I know that fit your description of her.

Most of the people that are commenting are an older generation, now more used to more serious relationships, maybe theyve forgotten about how stubborn and immature relationships around our age can be.

So many girls have brought the same shit down on my head, obviously you cant tell her not to drink but you cant be so forceful with her either. Until she grows up her mentality and her actions arent going to change you can be there for her and keep her from fucking herself up but you cant change her because she just isnt mature enough yet.

Its nice that you want to be there for her but the way your going about isnt going to help at all. Things are just going to escalate until shes wrecking your head and shes scared of you. Seriously, if you want to talk send me a pm, Ive had to deal with so many girls like that that I just stopped going to the city, couldnt, and didnt want to deal with that shit anymore.

Dont take some of the shite we say to you on here personally man, were just trying to look out for you :cheers2:

 

Silly tweenagers, you guys make drama over the stupidest shit. I can see exactly why my dealer has a 16 y/o GF when he's 19. It's mainly to control her, but she just wants weed from him and he just wants sex from her. I wonder why she moved away.....and he got busted, haha. Grow up before you beat a women to death over stupid shit when your drunk. I bet if you guys didn't drink alcohol and just smoked weed that night, everything would have went smooth.

 

you know what man I just got fucked over by my girlfriend completely unexpectedly. Do i wanna grab this girl by her arm and yell in her face for all the bullshit I went through for her and now its all for nothing? damn straight i do. am i gonna? no, because it's a fucked up thing to do and girls don't take kindly to shit like that, especially once you start layin hand on girls, weather its grabbin their arm on pushing them or something, it leads to other shit man. Be careful, cause people, especially girls, are gonna pull bullshit in your life, and its up to you to not let it get to you. I know this is the last thing you need to hear right now, but I know a lot of people, and judging by your threads, im sure you do too, who are now known as the kid who hits girls or shit like that. so don't let that be you man

 

niggas is tryin to go hard on my boy CC

 

your 17 and already putting your hands on someone, damn. that sucks

 

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This kinda happened me but not really. But anyways the night before I got arrested I specifically If Jerry (one of my best friends) and his girlfriend, Jahala, ask you to go to a party, please don't go. She asked why. I said because I know what type of guys will be at the party. She said she wouldn't go unless I went to. The next day I'm in jail 65 miles away from home. I called her and told her that I'm jail. She was with Jerry and Jahala and they were about to pick up two guys and go to a party but she didn't tell me. When I make bail and get out she calls me she was on break at work and told me. I was so pissed when she told me. I said wtf I asked you not to go to any parties with them. Then she told me what the guys tried to do to her at the party. Boom her phone dies. I was really pissed. When she got home she called me and told me what else happened. She told me that my cousin and my friend Joe which is like my brother protected her from these two guys. And I felt like a jerk. I texted the guys and they were so scared that I was going to beat their ass that they apologized to me.

Do you guys think I had the right to be mad?

I guess that wasn't nothing like his story lol

 

Why does everyone think I beat her or something lol???

I grabbed her arm as she was walking away, if that's abusive then I must have KICKED THE SHIT out of my ex a million times.

 

You said "grabbed", most people read "ripped her arm out of socket".

 

So you never layed a finger on her? you putt your hands on her, if anyone ever did that to me, that would be the end of it real fast

 

There has been times ive been so close to killing my ex-girlfriend.

I understand bro. Please listen from my personal experience, a girl can be VERY decieving and manipulating. When you think you know her like the tip of your dick, they can turn out to be cunts.

 

So you think that girl deceived and manipulated us THROUGH CC's post??

Every single reply in this thread was in response ONLY to CC, which is why you see little being said about her, because she isn't here to give her side of the story. All we have to go by is CC's side, which already makes him look like an asshole.

 

ALL im saying is to be careful with ANY girl, including his current girlfriend. I lived with my now Ex-girlfriend for a year and a half, in love, and I THOUGHT i knew her. Turns out I was wrong.

Thats all, so now you kind of look like an asshole. If his girlfriend doesnt like the way shes treated, she can go fuck some other guy. Everybody seems to be missing the point and trying to accuse this kid of beating his girl.

 

I look like an asshole because he has issues with control and temper, and thinks he has the right to physically manhandle women into doing what he wants?

Nobody said he beat her... that is you and a few others (including him) trying to make it sound like we are being unfair.

Right from the start of this, the issues have been his trying to control her, and him grabbing her.

This isn't a case of, oh no he may get worse.. WHAT HE ALREADY DID IS WRONG...

As for you and your problems, yeah, I imagine you would have your own set of problems with women if you see nothing wrong with CC's behavior...

 

Say you fell in love with a girl who loved you very much as well. You let her move in with you, while supporting her and doing everything you can to make her happy because the only way you can be happy is IF SHE IS. So now you guys are loving life and talking about long-term dating and kids.

Then you find out she fucked some guy, and you found out by a friend telling you that your girlfriend is a total whore and cheated on you.

This all happend to me, and trust me I did a little more than just a little grab of the arm, out of anger.

 

So, seems I am not permitted to express my opinion of your character directly and in an open and honest manner, my post was deleted... Which is fine with me...

I'll just leave this at, Any man who thinks he has the right to harm a woman in any way, for any reason, is a cowardly, punk-assed little bitch.

 

Seriously don't grab women, if you're angry tell her to get the fuck out onto the street.

For the record while I'm sorry and that sucks, statistically men are much more likely to cheat then women. There's an old saying though, when a man cheats it's because he just wants hot side action, when a woman cheats there's a much deeper emotional problem.

Or she just wanted hot side action.

 

I think it was the fact that you resorted to name-calling that the post was deleted... and while I didn't do so I would have. You needn't do that to support your point of view.

There are other ways to express opinions... even of ones character without resorting to personal attacks.

EDIT:

Lack of self control and the careless use of words is likely the genesis of many a domestic violence incidence.

 

I hate when posts get deleted, I feel like I'm missing out

 

It doesn't matter man, you don't ever do that to women.