Why are girls so fucked (extremely long)

wow last time i got grabbed by my arm cause i didnt want to hear his bullshit, i got beat up that same night

you best control your anger, little boy or you're going to be in big time trouble when that anger goes to action

next time let the girl go and move on from that drama, like a man

 

This.

I mean I'm not and I don't think anyone else here is calling you a woman beater CC, but at your age it's a slippery slope a lot of us have seen where thinking it becomes actions soon later in life, learning to control anger as a teenager is vital.

Also what joker said, get the old female back.

 

Seriously CC... you were a lot happier months ago.. years ago.. this girl has straight up changed you.. and i have mentioned this many of times.. so it's obviously got some truth seeing as other members agree on the matter.. i have no reason to troll you and nag you for dropping a keeper for a troubled whore.. im completely serious

 

Who cares about my ex anymore. I sure as hell don't. I saw her tonight at a party tonight and I didn't even mention what happened between us there in the thread I just made.. That's how much I care about her, fucking nothing.

....I know I just mentioned her by saying that... But you know what I'm getting at.

 

well then quit with your whining about your whore dude.. cuz we don't wanna hear it.. it's your problem

 

Sometimes people need this type of bullshit in their life to help them realize what they're doing wrong.

 

true

 

ya agreed also. i actually am agreeing with you, hell may have frozen over

agreeing with eric also ^^

seriously CC it's a damn shame that you can't see what we're all tryin to tell you..

 

im not convinced a whole lot has changed.

 

what happened to your band man????

 

Everyone says that I've changed. Even my real life friends.

But she's changed too, nobody even bothers to think about that. Obviously us two are going to be kind of different now that we've spent so much time together, that would happen to anybody know matter what you think.

I don't care, I was really fucked up in the head before I started going out with her. She's the only person I can talk to about my real problems... Probably because she goes through some of the same shit I do.

And for all the people who are saying for me to go back to my ex, that is impossible. She doesn't like me anymore. Her sister is in one of my classes and it's really fucked because she sits like right beside me.. Not in the desk right beside me, but the next row.

 

Forget everything else for a minute.

Are these real life friends, the type of people you enjoy spending time with? Are they people that for whatever reason, you have some respect for?

People go through this all the time. They will start dating someone and all the people that are closest to them will say, what the fuck.

If those people are people you truly consider friends, and have some respect from, why in the hell would you just discount what they say?

That isn't to say you should ask your friends permission to date someone, but you should at least look at WHY they would say this to you.

Perhaps you will find they really aren't your friends and they consider you someone just to fuck with and your choice of girl is their current target. But perhaps.... just maybe, they have genuine concern for you and see you making a mistake.

Seriously, until this thread, I have never seen anything you posted that made me think you were the type of person to act like this... maybe I just missed the other posts... but considering the people here online that do pay attention to you regularily are all saying the same thing, I think at the least you should sit back and think about the things that were said here.

We all go through stages (especially at your age) where our priorities in life get all fucked up and our head spins... and we all do stupid stuff while going through it.

YOU have to decide what you want to look like when you come out the other side...

 

Because most of my friends are scumbags or losers. I'm the "different" one in the group.

Don't get me wrong, they're fun as hell to get stoned with and shoot the shit but they have no morals whatsoever.

My girlfriend has always been taken advantage of in the past, guys would fuck her and then never talk to her again.. It gave her severe trust issues and she is still getting over it.

I'm her first "real" boyfriend that actually cares about her.

Sometimes I wonder whats going on in her head... Because it sure isn't "normal".... Whatever "normal" is anyway....

 

Wow...

I guess that would explain why none of them punched you in the mouth when you grabbed her at the party...

Let's try this from a different perspective then...

If one of your 'friends' had been talking to your girlfriend and she went to walk away, and their response was to 'grab her and say "don't ever try and walk away from me again while I'm fucking talking to you"', would you let it slide?

Would you seriously think to yourself, "yeah bitch stand there and show him some respect"?

 

why are you so caught up on "saving" this little girl

i think it's more like you wanna have a girl you can control
and if you and your ex have changed, and aren't right for each other anymore, OK that's fine, but it seems to everyone that things aren't working out GREAT with this new girl.

my first instinct, before i read half of the post, was to reply with "was your ex a drunken idiot like this?" turns out, my instincts were pretty right on. did your ex wanna go have sleep overs with other dudes?

don't grab your girl anymore man. not cool. i'll admit i've done some wrong things to my gf in the 4 years we've been together. i've never hit or pushed her, but i've probably grabbed her just like you have, in a drunken heat of the moment thing. maybe i even thought it was for her safety. but it's not cool man, and it can only lead to even more unacceptable behavior. i'm embarrased for doing that type of shit, and you should be too

 

A good rule of thumb, is that if you are angry, initiating physical contact, (direct or indirect) with the person who (you feel) made you that way is always wrong.

 

This has the ring of truth to it.

 

unless it's another dude and you and you plan on kicking each other's asses

 

That would be a completely different situation.

I wasn't just "talking" to her. She was crying and making a fool out of herself.

People can't just run away from a fuckin' problem man. You guys are blowing this all out of proportion, if I was being a drunken idiot and knocking things over I'd sure as hell want someone to pull me aside and tell me to settle down.

If I didn't do what I did she would have ended up punching my best friend in the face or something because she can't control herself.

I don't think you guys even read why I was so pissed off in the first place....

 

No, it is still wrong then... Just because it feels right then is totally besides the point... The courts have made this really clear to me.... lol