Why are big areolas considered unattractive?

Ask yourself this, does the questionare have a two choice answer as in big OR small, or does it allow for the third option of irrelevant,,, because you know who would love to fund that kind of underhanded social brainwashing? the freaking Cosmetic surgeons association and the long line of other industries that people who profit from the slight miseries of others tend to invest in. It's a fucking sick culture, and it's been designed to be so.

 

Even if they are virgins or inexperienced they're still guys. If that's how they feel I can imagine what everyday guys feel.

 

So, I'm not an everyday guy? Or I'm to old to have an opinion? Or???

It really doesn't matter, girl..... It really doesn't.

For most guys, the nicest boobs he's ever seen are those that are within reach.

 

The amount of negative responses is above and beyond that of the positive responses I have received

 

Whatever..... Sorry you don't like your boobs, but somebody would if you gave them a chance.

 

I guarantee I would, but I'd have chosen the third option on that quiz.

 

^ word man!

ok, but this doesnt mean you wont find a nice guy who likes your boobs

 

I just can't see a situation where any guy would get all cozy with a girl, things start to get hot and heavy and as soon as the bra come off it all stops and the guy gets up and says "Sorry, but your areolas are just way to big...." This just doesn't happen.

I would suggest that where ever these other forums are, you just not go back there. Sounds like they compare everything to Barbie, and she doesn't even have nipples.

 

Fine.
Since it's such a crime to ask questions on here I'll just get the surgery so I can finally be happy. I thought coming to this site would perhaps help me overcome my feelings but it's clear that it won't. I didn't expect anything magical from this site to occur or for anyone to make me feel better, I just thought I could come to terms with my body and not feel such a dislike for my body.

I know it may seem stupid and silly, but I've always felt crappy about my breasts and being on different sites gave me insight into the general male opinion. I don't hold it against any of the guys who have told me big ones are disgusting or gross, because it's their opinions. I appreciate their opinions actually. I rather know how guys feel about it rather so I can be cautious or do something about it before making an ass of myself with a guy. I hate that I can't even look at my own body naked and I completely understand why guys would be turned off. I hate that I have to masturbate with a bra on because my own body irks me. I hate that I could possibly turn off a guy. I hate that the response to big areolas is always "it's a turnoff but not a dealbreaker. I rather not risk it lol. It's understandable and justified. Not everyone is lucky enough to be born naturally 'attractive' haha. Some of us require work unfortunately.

If anything, I should just get it over with so I can finally be happy with my body and my boobs and so it won't interfere with any relationship I may have. I'd hate to deprive myself of a healthy sex life because of my insecurity and I don't believe any guy wants to deal with the problems that come along with insecurity.

Thank to all of y'all for taking the time to answer this or my other question. It was much appreciated.

Hopefully I can find content after surgery and be happy and not hate my body.

Anyways, good luck to y'all!

Bye!

 

Okay.....

 

Have you considered Adult friend finder? I'm sure their Adanced search list includes nipple size, this way you could be fairly certain that any man contacting you would actually be all into your nipples, and you know, want to lick large quantities of Nutella off of them or something?

 

if it makes you feel better, you have hideous tits. it's probably not true, but it's obviously what you want to hear.

 

edit: ... cant believe i fucking wasted this entire time to write this shit....

 

All women with big ugly areolas should be rounded up and put in concentration camps. Or at least forced to give full disclosure anytime she is approached by any male with the intent of sexual intercourse.

 

Your threads, all combined and summed up:


you: "Why are my boobs so ugly?"

HF: "they're not, who told you that?"

you:"people who would know better than you, now tell me why they're ugly and about the surgery I should have"

HF:"they're not, seriously, and why wouldn't we know, any more than these other people?"

you: "I just want to know why EVERYONE is so mean and hates my boobs! I'm going to get them chopped up, because everyone is totally turned on by the self confidence of girls who get plastic surgery and think that nobody can see the scars! Why didn't you people help me realize my boobs suck?!"




What the fuck ever:daisy:

 

Have fun with the surgery to make your areolas smaller. - and then bigger again when you realize men don't like small ones,. LMAO
, and have a blast fixing whatever other conceivable flaw you find in your skin until you realize you were fine the way you are.
Fucking nipple color. for fucks sake.
no.one.cares.seriously.

they are boobs.
At one point my nipples were used for breastfeeding- they got all dark,cracked, irritated
- I could shoot milk across the room.
and they are still fucking fine.
its a fucking nipple.
As long as I wasn't spraying milk at my hubby ,he really couldn't give to shits, he was just happy to get to see them- and he still found me attractive even when my nipples took on the function of baby feeder.

Next time a man gives you grief about your nipples(which i doubt highly has ever actually happened, you just perceive it that way) grab his nipple hair and pull.

 

Awww, he didn't know it's good for the skin?

 

I kept telling him it could cure /prevent pink eye- but that never worked.

 

Can I ask what forum.

I would like to go there post a pic of my boobs and see if they say my areloas are too big

 

And I would also like to compare both sets.