Self confidence cannot be gained by getting compliments from others. Self confidence comes from within yourself. Just because some guy cheated on you, doesn't mean you're worthless. Don't stoop down to his level. And to be completely honest...I'd rather see a thread bashing his ass than see a girl's photo with the words "slutty bitch" under it. I'd thank her. At least you figured it out sooner than later that he's a dirtbag.
True, but compliments from others can help to open one's eyes to their own beauty inside and out. This can be a catalyst to self confidence.
both look like primadonna wannabees to me.. young dumb an vain.. i choose the neither on this one.. i truly hate the "im so pretty" "im prettier than she is arent i" mind set.. beauty comes from within.. an i aint seein it n this thread.. an here the other day i thought ya had nice cheek bones..
LOL I've had people tell me I'm pretty...but I don't believe a damn thing they say. After all, what are they going to tell me? I'm ugly? I don't think people are that rude to your face.
Heh, I agree, but usually when someone goes out of their way to tell you that you are beautiful, they really feel that way. I don't arbitrarily tell people they look good. If I don't think they do, I don't say anything. But when I do say something, I typically mean it. I'm certainly not saying one should base their self opinion of the beliefs of others, but I am saying that when someone tells you that you look attractive - say for example, I love how your nose turns up slightly, then don't you agree that you tend to look at your nose to see what they are talking about? It may open your eyes to something you never thought about yourself.
the honest unbiased answer is ---- both of you are of the same level - and that means that on a scale from 1 to 10 with 1 being the ugliest and 10 being the hottest i'd say both of you deserve a.... MESSAGE TO STOP WORRYING ABOUT HOW HOT YOU ARE... this is hipforums, not Aberzombieforums. sheesh allie you're like those disgraceful 13 year olds that walk around town center mall.. get a life
I Believe this is the Wrong Way to Get Compliments...By Comparing Yourself to Another Girl... Even if you werent Comparing Yourself to Anyone Else...About you Being Pretty or Not... I'm a Firm Believer that Beauty is Something Found Inside a Person...Not What a Person Looks Like in a mere Still Shot... I Think you Need to Learn to Love and Appreciate Yourself...Regardless of What Others Say... They may Say you're Pretty...And you Get Big Headed... Or they May Say You're Ugly and Shatter Your Confidence... People are Going to Have Different Opinions... What Really Matters is that you Love and Respect Yourself... If That Guy Left You For that Girl...And Based it All Upon Looks...He's a Very Shallow Person... Although...Things Happen for a Reason...
honestly...id do you both in a threesome...and to whoever wrote this...POKEMON...youre telling this girl who definetly wouldnt fuck you if you had the balls to put a picture up of yourself to get a life....motherfucking POKEMON!!! budddddyyyyy
She was fishing for compliments. Frankly, it's immature and petty. She'd be pretty pissed if everyone said the other girl was "prettier". In a way, I wish everyone would have maybe it would teach her a lesson about humility and arrogance.
Well I read the other thread about you breaking up with your boyfriend....so I understand why you posted this. People are right you shouldn't compare yourself to that girl. But in my opinion because you asked, you are much prettier than that other girl. I think your picture is rather beautiful. But that dosen't matter. I am someone online looking at a picture. Pictures show the outside....The inside is what matters much more.
So anyone who writes stuff you don't like will get a mouthful of abuse? Am I right in this assumption? Far as I can see ssj3gotenks wrote an honest answer the way he saw it. And yes you are carrying on like a spoiled 13 year old princess. Perhaps your ex started to see your true personality and that is why he went looking for someone else. My suggestion is to find a mirror and use it, otherwise you are going to end up with someone like theblackrose. Not going to bother saying anything to him because he just wrote some bullshit to get into your pants unlike ssj3gotenks.