Im pretty sure most sexual human beings have tried some kind of knky fun with their partners. Did you both enjoy or did one of you like it more than the other? There are so many variables, any inparticular?
I would have to say she enjoyed it more. I had several group sex experiences before her, most were first time experiences for her. When it came to exhibitionism, she defiantly enjoyed it more. I was fine in a home or hotel, but reluctant in great outdoors.
Whips and chains and ball gags, oh my! Over the years, various partners (some of whom were only partners for the hour or so that playing took) and I have tried all sorts of kink. As would be expected, some enjoyed it immensely (waaay more than me) and some enjoyed it less or not at all. Regarding wives or long-term partners; we would focus on just those things we both liked so the liking tended to be equal. I ultimately sorta specialed in electrical and fire play, and rope bondage, emphasis on shibari and kinbaku. The people who wanted to play with me pretty much went into it knowing they'd like it. So...it tended to be equal.
My wife went through a femdom phase when she was doing amateur photography, years ago. I was always her model. We even had another female join in the festivities , after she divorced and later moved away. They poked and prodded me with dildos and electric stimulators. A little scary when you see women with little wands that threw static sparks, mostly at my dick. Fucked by 2 women with Strapons, will always be on the top of my list of sexual experiences.
We switch and enjoy role-play, so depending on our mood and often to link in with other fun (sometimes with other people) we both enjoy a wide variety of kinky fun, both dominant and submissive.
When she first asked me to use restraints, nipple clamps, blindfold, and a few other items outside on our patio in front of a neighbor, I thought I was going to enjoy it as much as she did. Several extremely loud climaxes later that went along with a chorus of grunts, moans, screams, commands, etc let me know who was having the most pleasure.
I took a job for a while where I had to wear a uniform. My wife had a fetish for men in uniforms. She couldn't resist and grabbed me and tossed me on the bed. I let her rip the shirt open and yank down my pants while fucking me silly. Buttons would fly everywhere and several shirts go tore in the process. She even ripped a couple of pants open instead of lowering the zipper. After having torn uniforms show up in the laundry the vendor that supplied and cleaned the uniforms filed a complaint with my employer. Being a rather new employee that didn't sit well with management. We had to stop the clothes tearing play. Quite frankly I loved every minute of it until the investigation of the uniform issue. At least it was just one person in HR asking. The only thing I could do was tell him the truth when confronted with the issue. His expression was priceless and the play cost me garnishment of wages to pay for the destroyed uniforms.
One of the things about her old femdom photo period is that it led to a lot of SEX. As a horny american male, I was up for anything she wanted to throw at me. The Main thing was seeing the intensity in her eyes, as she would do things to me. Being tortured, not injured ,was extreemly exciting. Our female friend, who joined us , also seemed to enjoy what they would do to me. While I was happy to be used for their pleasure.
Depends on what it is. When I spank D, it's because she admits to being bad and she knows what's coming. Not uncommon for her to be very moist or even wet when I get her ready. But when she has to take it, I think I enjoy it more. Then, when I've finished her, she gets taken care of and it's her turn again. But, she's very sore and very red by then.
I have never really bothered about femdom although I have doggy fucked women holding their hair and slapping her arse. One woman who was much older than me demanded that I tanned her arse
